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Kua marena koa, e tirotiro ana i te ENM, (ki tētahi kaiwhakahaere pārekareka) me te rapu i tētahi hoa wahine. Kāore au e haere mai ki te whakararuraru i taku marena, engari ki te whakawhānui i taku ao i runga i te whakaaro me te tikanga. Kei te tuwhera ki te whanaungatanga ka tipu, te pānga ka…pānui atu
Kei te noho au i tetahi hononga ENM, a, kua mau au ki nga tono whakatā mo te tau me te hawhe. Ko nga whakaritenga katoa i riro mai i enei tono he mea e toru. Tuatahi, he tangata e hiahia ana ki nga kaipōti fan anake, a, ka korero koe ki a rātou kāore koe i konei mo taua mea, ka piri tonu rātou ki…pānui atu
He uaua te rāngai. Ko ngā whakatūpato tonu me ngā pātai "he aha tāu tino tae?"... He tino uaua te rāngai mēnā ka mahi koe i tetahi momo ENM. Tāpiri atu ki te Midwestern e noho ana ngā tāone i te tawhiti, ā, ko te "taone" e tata ana he 3 haora te tawhiti lol, me pēhea koutou e mahi ai? nā reira,…pānui atu
🤔 E hiahia ana au ki te mōhio ki ngā whakaaro o te tangata mō ENM. Nā te mea he rerekē ngā take e tautoko ai, e whai wāhi ai, me te whiriwhiri kāore e uru ki ēnei momo whanaungatanga. Ka taea e te tangata te kōrero mai i te wheako mō te kino/te pai o tēnei? Ngā painga?
Kei te 25 nga tau ahau e rapu ana i nga tangata o te pakeke rite ki te noho hei ENM i Inia





E hiahia ana au ki te mohio me pēhea tēnei e tupu ai? E mōhio ana au ko te ngana ki te mārama ko wai me te aha koe i te mea pono ka puta mai te ngākau nui ki te noho polyamorous. Ātaahua inaianei kua "mātanga" koe. (Ngā mihi ki te pānga Dunning-Kruger) Heoi, ko te ENM he kōwhiringa ora…( whakatikahia )pānui atu
I te mea e tino kino ana ahau i ngā tohu pāpori 😅 I pau ahau i ngā tau e whakaaro ana ko ngā kōtiro e pai ana ki te noho… ka puta mai, he bi ahau, ā, kāore au i te mōhio i te mea he pai te whakakotahi o te trauma whakapono + te whakakahore. I tēnei wā, he pakeke au, he raru rawa atu, kāore au i te…( whakatikahia )pānui atu

E hiahia ana au ki te mohio me pehea i tae ai etahi atu ki te mohiotanga he tangata rātā/whakaaetanga kore monogamost rātou. He mea i huna koe? He huringa i roto i tō hononga? Ano, me pehea e whakahaere ai koe i te whakahiato o tēnei āhua noho? Ko te nuinga o te iwi e whakaaro ana he mea he.

Kei te hiahia au ki te whakamātau me te tīmata i tētahi hononga ENM poly. Ko taku wahine (hetace) he tautoko, engari he āwangawanga i tēnei kaupapa. Kāore au e hiahia ki te tere, me te kimi i tētahi ki te kōrero mō tēnei. Kei te noho au i te Tonga o Ontario. E mahi ana māua, kāore hoki māua e whai…pānui atu

Kei te rongo atu tetahi atu e tino ngaro ana i te ao o nāianei? Kāore i te wāhi ki te noho i roto i te whanaungatanga engari kāore e taea te noho i ngā hononga pāpori, i ngā hononga ENM. E pērā ana te katoa i ēnei rā. Ko te kimi i ngā tāngata e pai ana ki te whanaungatanga platonic e tino uaua ana.…pānui atu
Kia ora, e mohio ana au he kaha ahau ki te hiahia, engari e paingia ana au ki te mohio kei te haere taku hoa ki te kai i te po, a, e tino pau ana au ki te tono i roto 😂
He nui ngā tangata enm, he tangata tuwhera i konei? Kāore te āhua i NJ e mōhiotia ana hei mea nui

Kia ora! Ko Trish tōku ingoa. Kua rua tau mātou e noho ana i te ENM. Kei te rāhuitia mātou. Kei konei au e rapu ana i tētahi atu hoa hara. Ka whakatuwhera hoki ki ngā hoa mēnā koia te mea e rapu ana koe i tēnei wā. Me titiro tātou, he uaua te hanga hoa hei pakeke. Kei te noho au i Ohio engari ka…pānui atu

I pēhea tō wheako i tēnei taupānga ki te whakataurite ki ērā atu? Kua waimarie koe ki te kimi hoa pea?
He aha i te mea he uaua ki te kimi i tetahi ki te korero. Ka whakawa koe i nga wa katoa e pa ana ki to ahua, ki tetahi atu mea.

I tetahi tangata i mea, me mihi au ki te tangata i hanga i te mea ka taea e au te ngaro i te taumaha me te kore e whakapau kaha

Ko te wahine me au ka noho i Big Bear i tēnei mutunga wiki! I te rapu mō te Big Bear Unicorn 🦄! Ka kitea e mātou ia? Ka wātea ia i te wā kāore? Kei te noho te Big Bear Unicorn 🦄? Tūhono mai i te wā e whai ake nei ki te kite! Te kanae pēnei! Te wā kāore! BTW: Kei te wātea hoki mātou ki te noho…pānui atu
Kia ora e te iwi. Kua neke au ki NYC, ā, he tino hou au ki te taiao. He whakaaro āu mō te kimi i tētahi tangata, i te āhua o te whakawhitiwhiti ki te tangata i konei? He tino rerekē te āhua i te wāhi i haere mai ai au.
I tino pai tā mātou hikoi roa i tēnei rā, ko te 3 o mātou anake me te pātea whakamīharo 🧺
Kei te rongo tetahi e pā ana ki te mea kua riro te mana o ngā tāngata enm hei mea kino i ngā rā nei, ā, kua uaua te hanga i ngā hononga hou?

Kei te pātai au mēnā he tāne "pātea" e pā ana ki te ENM? I runga i tāku wheako, i te ao, me te ipurangi, kāore ngā tāngata ENM e tutaki au ki te mea he 1, 2 rānei ngā hoa i ngā wā kāore e taea te kī. He pōkaitahi nui tēnei o ngā tāngata polyamorous neurodivergent kāore au e pā ana ki te mea.…( whakatikahia )pānui atu
Ko ia te wahine katoa e kii ana hei dom, he tino sub e pākiki ana ki te huri. E tino whakaarohia ana e au mēnā ka kitea e au tāku domme.

Kia ora e hoa mā! He tangata au e pā ana ki te demi sexual, he tangata autistik, he kaihanga au e hiahia ana ki te hanga i ngā hono pai tawhiti. He tino pānui au, ā, he tino whakama hoki, ā, e whakaute ana, he kēmu tāku, ā, ka taea e au te kōrero i ngā rārangi me ngā whiti i te reo Ingarihi, te reo…pānui atu

I hiahia au ki te mahi i tētahi kōwhiringa uaua mō taku hauora hinengaro, ā, ka waiho e au tētahi tangata e tino pai ana ki au. Ka nui te mihi mō ngā whakangā, kia kaua e raru au, ā, kāore e whakaaro nui.
Kei te hanga noa ahau i tētahi pou ki te whakamātau ki te whakamahi i tēnei taupānga
Ib ko au



Ko wai e hiahia ana ki te haere ki te hī ika/ ki te poti i te rangi ki au😄


E hiahia ana te rangatira ki te whakamoemiti, ki te whiu, me te tiaki i te kotahi pai, e whakarongo ana ki te whakahē i etahi wa (ā, e whakarite ana mō ngā pānga) E rapu ana i te rohe o Bristol engari ka haere ki tawhiti mō te hono pai.
Hey katoa, Kei te pērā te ahua o tēnei taupānga ki te monogamy, engari kei te rapu au i te hono polyamory. Ka taea te wahine, te tāne, te Trans, te kore-pātea, etc. Ka hiahia au ki ngā hono hei kōrero ki. He heteroflexible au, ko tāku wahine me tāku hoa matua he bi. He maha āna kaiwhai, ā, he…pānui atu
Kei te hiahia au ki te whai hoa, kei te pōuri au, kei te noho takitahi au, kei te noho takitahi au i ngā wā katoa🥹

Kia ora koutou, ko taku hoa me au he tino hou ki tēnei āhua noho ENM. E tino harikoa ana māua, ā, kāore i te noho i tētahi wāhi pērā i a māua i te wā roa. Kei te pātai au mēnā ka taea e te tangata te tuku kōrero mō tēnei āhua noho i runga i ā rātou wheako. Ngā mihi nui!

Tukuna mai he karere ki a mātou, he hou mātou ki te āhua noho! ☺️

Ko taku wahine me au kei roto i te whanaungatanga ENM. E rua ana māua e rapu ana i tētahi ki te rā. Ko ia he tāne, ko au he wahine. He tino kino ahau i te karere tuatahi, ā, e rapu ana ahau i tētahi ki te mōhio i runga i ngā rā maha.

Ko te pikinga o te pātea mō te whakatū i te marena i te mea kāore e taea te whakatutuki, e raru ana i te rārangi o te hunga monogamous e noho pōuri ana
Me pehea e whakahaere ai au i te wahine hoa me te wahine e mau ana?


He tangata polygamist modern kei reira? Kua kite au i te pikinga o te whakaaetanga mo te polyamory, me te maha o nga whiringa taupānga rānei hei whakakotahi - engari, kāore e kitea te polygamy i te rārangi kōwhiri. Kua hangaia e te TV real he whakaahua iti me te hē i te ahua o te polygamy. I te…( whakatikahia )pānui atu
He tino pai te kākano a CJs. I whai wāhi au ki te rā tino pai! Ko te tūmanako ka pai hoki koutou.


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He tino uaua te kimi i te hunga i enm i tua atu i nga hui huri. Kei te rapu ahau ki te korero ki te hunga e whai ana i nga whakapono rite ki a au. E rua nga tane me nga wahine. Whakamōhio mai mēnā e hiahia ana koe ki te noho hei hoa
