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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Għaliex hu daqshekk diffiċli li nsib nies oħra poly fil-qasam tiegħi?

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Jien f'relazzjoni ta' distanza twila u qed infittex tifla aktar viċin minni biex niltaqa' u niddat.

Qed infittex 3rd

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey kulħadd,  

Qed infittex li niltaqa ma' nies simili f'żoni tiegħi li jkunu interessati li jmorru fuq id-data bil-ħsieb ta' xi ħaġa kontinwa u sinifikanti.

Poli, imnissla u tfittex konnessjonijiet sinifikanti

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii hemm xi nies poligami?

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

ġdid fil-Poly nipprova din il-ħaġa, qabel l-ewwel darba. Riċentement, waħdi minħabba li l-mara tiegħi għaddiet, jinteressani li niltaqa' ma' nies ġodda b'interessi simili

Poly ġdid

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Solo/poly

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Ħej ħej! Jien u marti tiegħi aħna poly u jien miftuħ għal relazzjoni oħra u qed infittex ħabiba. Jien inħobb il-personalità, mhux l-aspett. Jekk inti interessat, ibgħatli messaġġ, jekk le, byeee!!

Ħarsa

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Il-ħabib u jien qed infittxu relazzjoni serja ma' mara. Jinteressak, ibgħat messaġġli.

Looking for a female to join us

Qed infittxu mara biex tingħaqad magħna

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Normalment jien tip ta' raġel li jħobb raġel wieħed jew mara waħda. Iżda ma nista'x nagħżel bejn it-2, għalhekk nixtieq nipprova poligamija. Nixtieq poligamija b'2 raġel iżda kollox huwa tajjeb, biss nixtieqhom ikunu madwar l-età ta' nofs is-snin 20 u sa 30. Jekk jogħġbok ikunu fl-Istati Uniti. Jekk xi ħadd huwa interessat, jekk jogħġbok kummenta ☺️

Qed infittex relazzjoni poligama

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Il-mentalità attiva li tħobb u tappoġġa lill-partner(i) tiegħek fil-fundar sodisfazzjon jagħmlu l-affarijiet (jew in-nies) li jħobbu (jew jogħġobhom). Spiss kontra minn bżonn li jkollok kontroll jew li jkollok, in-nuqqas ta' sigurtà dwar l-aċċess, jew biża' ta' telf. Nikkunsidra l-kunċett ta' agape mingħajr attakk u kif jista' joħloq bażi b'saħħitha għall-compersion. Xi nies jiġbru aktar partnari biex jimlew il-vojt, imma jista' dan jindirizza biżżejjed il-problema sottostanti?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey hemm, qed nibda niskopri affarijiet ġodda u qed nfittex li nikkonnettja ma' tifla divertenti, kurjuża u miftuħa biex tiġi magħna f'din il-vjaġġ 🤭 jekk int lest għal xi divertiment u biex nagħrfu aħjar xulxin, ikkuntattjana 🫠

Qiegħed nipprova xi ħaġa ġdida

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Qiegħed nistaqsi jekk jien innifsi nista' nkun poly jew le. Imma ridt inkun naf, kif hu? Huwa possibbli li nsib ruħi ma' 2 persuni? Intom kuntenti aktar? Jien verament kurjuż dwar dan il-suġġett

Agħtini ftit għarfien plz

New to Boo

ġdid għal Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Smajt li hemm tendenza disturbanti ta' koppji li speċifikament qed ifittxu t-tielet li jiddeskrivu lilhom infushom bħala poly, u dan huwa t-tħassib.
Ħadd m'għandu jkun qed ifittex persuna li tista' tiġi użata biex iżżid spice mal-partnership tagħhom, dan mhux polyamory.
Bl-istess mod, li tnaqqas l-għażliet tal-partners tiegħek waqt li jkollok libertà sħiħa int stess mhux poly, dan huwa biss insigurtà u kontroll.

Irridu nsemmu dawn il-behaviours tossiċi li jsejħu lilhom infushom poly, għax dan huwa l-immaġni li tiġi mxandra lil oħrajn, u għaliex hemm tant nuqqas ta' fehim ta' compersion u l-ferħ li tħobb lil xi ħadd biżżejjed biex tħallih.

Cacciaturi u OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Jien dejjem kont monogamu. Qatt ma ħallejt, qatt ma ħarġet lejn in-naħa l-oħra. Għaddejt għal-aħħar relazzjoni tiegħi u sena waħdi, ddeċidejt li nibda nżid saqajji fil-pixxina.

Issa qed narah waħda poly regolarment u l-affarijiet qed imorru tajjeb, kompletament tajjeb mal-sitwazzjoni tagħha u l-libertà li toffrili. Ikun hemm aktar ditti ma' oħra dalwaqt, u anke ex minn 20 sena ilu qed jitkellem miegħi.

Ma qiegħedx nikkumbatti jew niddiskuti. (Għalkemm nikkunsidra ruħi xortik tajba) Iżda kif ġara li issa qed nikseb dan l-attenzjoni kollha? Għandu jkun daqshekk twil li ma kontx qed nidħol f'relazzjonijiet li l-affarijiet biddlu?

Jista' jkun hemm xi ħaġa relatata mal-ħidma fuq ruħi żgur. Jista' jkun bil-kunfidenza ġdida tiegħi. Iżda qed nistaqsi x'jista' jagħmel oħrajn minnu.

Allura, huwa dan normali?

We out here 😉

Aħna hawn 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Ftit ħruq. 
Jien ġdid fil-ħajja poligama. Kelli monogamija għal ħajti kollha. Għalhekk kont naf li l-ġelusija tista' tkun sfida iżda sa issa m'għandixha. Madankollu, ħadd ma ħabbarni dwar il-ħtija potenzjali li nista' nħoss. Bħal li qed nagħmel xi ħaġa horribbli ħażina anki jekk jien tant kuntent. Għandi ngħid li bdejt inżid fil-ġurnal dwar il-ħsibijiet tiegħi ta' ħtija biex nipprova nsib x'jikkawża dawn il-ħsibijiet u forsi nirristruttura l-moħħ tiegħi, naħseb haha.

Meta l-ħtija hija iktar qawwija mill-ġelusija.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Jien m'iniex ġdid fil-poly, il-fella tiegħi huwa! Fejn huma kollha l-poli ħbieb tiegħi?! Aħna fil-ATL!!

Fejn huma l-poli koppji?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Iva, għandi x'naqsam ma' din l-app għal xahar sħiħ iżda rajt ħafna, u n mean ħafna nies poly hawn. Ma nħossx li qed inqajjem il-biża' iżda aktar sorpriż kif intom miftuħin.

Poly fuq it-titjib?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Għaliex ħafna mill-irġiel polimorfi jippermettu biss nisa oħra fil-relazzjoni? Ma huwiex l-imħabba polimorfa għal kull ġeneru?

Mistoqsija għall-irġiel polimorfi l-aktar iżda n-nisa huma mħeġġa biex jikkontribwixxu.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Il-ħabiba tiegħi l-aqwa kienet f'relazzjoni għal madwar sena. Il-ħabib tagħha qalilha llum li għandu bżonn ħabiba oħra jew se jsir bored, iżda ma jridhiex li tara lil ħaddieħor. Huwa spjega li dan huwa tipiku għal relazzjonijiet Poly jew ENM. Hemm xi ħadd li jista' jgħinni nifhem? Għax xi ħaġa fil-lixka m'għandhiex tkun xita hawn skont il-fehma tiegħi.

Mistoqsija veloċi.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Jien u marti qegħdin infittxu kullimkien għal mara oħra biex tilgħab magħna😉 jew biex żżid mal-relazzjoni. Hi super eċċitata bl-idea, peress li hi bi u verament tħobb in-nisa. Aħna konna fuq tant apps inkluż fetlife, u semma' ma kellna l-ebda fortuna. Jekk hemm xi nisa interessati, tħossok liberu li tikkuntattjana🖤

li nsibu t-tielet f'NC huwa impossibbli

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

X'inhu l-akbar polycule li kont parti minnu?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

jien u l-għarus tiegħi qed infittxu tifla biex nikkollaboraw magħha, jekk inti interessata amos: txrichann

qed infittxu t-tielet

Hi, we are looking to start a three way couple and are wondering if there is anyone who would be interested in our little group. We both are very nerdy individuals but we are open to all sorts of new experiences. Let us know if you'd like to meet up

MF couple looking for another F

Hi, aħna qed nfittex li nibdew koppja ta' tlieta u qed nistgħu nistaqsu jekk hemmx xi ħadd li jkun interessat fil-grupp żgħir tagħna. Aħna t-tnejn individwi ħafna nerdy iżda aħna miftuħa għal kull tip ta' esperjenzi ġodda. Għidulna jekk tixtiequ tiltaqgħu

MF koppja qed tfittex oħra F

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Hiiii hemm xi nies poligami?

Poly ġdid

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