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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Chifukwa chiyani ndi chovuta kwambiri kupeza anthu ena a poly m'dera langa?

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Ndili mu ubale wautali ndipo ndikufuna mtsikana wapafupi ndi ine kuti ndikhale naye komanso kuti ndikhale naye.

Kufunafuna 3rd

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii pali anthu a poly?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Moni nonse,  

Ndikufuna kukumana ndi anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo ofanana m'nthawi yanga omwe angakhale okonda kuchita chibwenzi ndi cholinga cha zinthu zomwe zingapite patsogolo komanso zothandiza.

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Watsopano ku Poly ndikuyesera chinthu ichi, ndi choyamba. Posachedwapa, ndili wosavala chifukwa cha imfa ya mkazi wanga, ndili ndi chidwi ch meeting anthu atsopano omwe ali ndi zofuna zofanana

Watsopano poly

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Solo/poly

In the growing world of poly what’s the mistake you made but glad you learned that lesson…. Please be open minded AB’s don’t be shy no judge here

Hot take

M'dziko lomwe likukula la poly, chikhala chotani chomwe mwachita koma mukusangalala kuti mwaphunzira chiphunzitsocho.... Chonde khalani ndi maganizo osiyanasiyana, AB's musakhale osamala, palibe wotsutsa apa

Mafunso a moto

Post a pic Atlanta addition if you not scared

Atlanta maybe

Tumikani chithunzi cha Atlanta ngati simukopa

Atlanta mwina

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Moni moni! Mkazi wanga ndi ine tili ndi ubwenzi wa anthu ambiri ndipo ndine wotseguka kuti ndikhale ndi ubwenzi wina ndipo ndikuyang'ana msungwana. Ndikufuna munthu wosangalala, osati mawonekedwe. Ngati mukufuna, ndipatseni uthenga, ngati osati, bye!!

Kuyang'ana

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Mwamuna wanga ndi ine tikufuna ubale wos serious ndi mkazi. Ngati mukufuna, ndibwerezereni.

Moni

Looking for a female to join us

Kufunafuna mkazi kuti abereke nafe

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Ndi nthawi zambiri ndine munthu mmodzi kapena mkazi. Koma sindingathe kusankha pakati pa 2 choncho ndikufuna kuyesa poly. Ndikufuna ubale wa anthu awiri, koma chilichonse chiri bwino, ndikungofuna kuti akhale pa zaka za pakati pa 20s mpaka 30. Chonde mu U.S. komanso onani ngati wina akufuna ☺️

Kufunafuna ubale wa poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Malingaliro active a kukonda ndi kuthandiza mnzako (kapena anzanu) kupeza chisangalalo mukuchita zinthu (kapena anthu) omwe akukonda (kapena akukonda). Nthawi zambiri zimatsutsana ndi chikhumbo chofuna kulamulira kapena kukhala ndi, kusowa chikhulupiriro pa kufikira, kapena chikhumbo cha kutaya. Ndikuganiza za mfundo ya agape yopanda kulumikizana ndi momwe ingapangitse chitsimikizo chachikulu cha kukondana. Anthu ena amasonkhanitsa anzawo ambiri kuti azikhala ndi malo, koma kodi izi zingakwanitse kuthetsa vutoli?

Kukondana

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Moni, ndikuyamba kufufuza zinthu zatsopano ndikufuna kulumikizana ndi mtsikana wosangalala, wofuna kudziwa, komanso wotseguka kuti abereke nafe pa ulendo uwu 🤭 ngati mukufuna kuseka komanso kudziwa bwino, titumizireni uthenga 🫠

Kuyesera chinthu chatsopano

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Ndikukayikira ngati ndine poly kapena ayi. Koma ndifuna kudziwa, ndi chiyani? Kodi zingatheke kuti ndikhale ndi anthu awiri? Kodi inu mukukhala ndi chimwemwe chachikulu? Ndikufuna kudziwa zambiri pa nkhaniyi

Nditengeni chidziwitso plz

New to Boo

Mukukonda bwanji pulogalamu iyi mpaka pano?

Watsopano ku Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Ndakuwona chikhumbo chovuta cha maubwenzi chomwe chimafuna munthu wachitatu amene amati ndi poly, ndipo izi zili chisoni.
Palibe amene akuyenera kufunafuna munthu wosungika kuti apereke chisangalalo mu ubwenzi wawo, izi si polyamory.
Monga momwe, kuletsa chisankho cha anzanu pamene muli ndi ufulu wambiri ndi chinthu chachikulu, izi si poly, izi ndi chikhumbo chochepa ndi kulamulira.

Tikuyenera kutchula anthu awa oipa omwe akudziwa kuti ndi poly, chifukwa ndi chithunzi chomwe chimaperekedwa kwa ena, ndipo chifukwa chake pali kusamvetsetsa kwakukulu pa compersion ndi chimwemwe choti ukhale ndi munthu wokonda kwambiri kuti umupereke ufulu.

Amaphunziro ndi OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Ndinakhala ndi chibwenzi chimodzi nthawi zonse. Sindinachite chinyengo, sindinayang'ane mbali ina. Tiyeni tipite patsogolo mpaka kumapeto kwa ubwenzi wanga wapitawo ndi chaka chimodzi chokhala ndi chibwenzi, ndinaganiza zopangira mwayi wanga.

Tsopano ndikuona mtsikana wina wa poly nthawi zonse ndipo zinthu zikuyenda bwino, ndili bwino ndi momwe zinthu zilili ndi ufulu umene umandipatsa. Ndili ndi maulendo ambiri okonzedwa ndi wina posachedwa, komanso wina wa m’mawa zaka 20 zapitazo akulankhula nane.

Sindikukweza kapena kudziwitsa. (Ngakhale ndikumva kuti ndine wopambana kwambiri) Koma chiyani chachilendo, ndakwanitsa kupeza chidziwitso chonsechi? Kodi zakhala nthawi yayitali bwanji kuchokera pamene ndinayamba kuchita chibwenzi kuti zinthu zasintha?

Zingakhale kuti ndizochita ndi kukonza nokha, inde. Zingakhale ndi chikhulupiriro changa chatsopano. Koma ndikumva kuti anthu ena angaganize chiyani pa izi.

Choncho, ndi chiyani chachilendo?

We out here 😉

Tili pano 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Chinthu chochepa chofunikira. 
Ndine watsopano mu moyo wa poly. Ndakhala ndi umunthu wosankhidwa moyo wanga wonse. Choncho ndinadziwa kuti chikhumbo chingakhale chovuta koma mpaka pano sichinachitike. Komabe palibe amene anandiuza za chisoni chomwe ndingakumane nacho. Ngati ndikuchita chinthu chovuta kwambiri ngakhale ndili ndi chimwemwe chachikulu. Ndinanena kuti ndiyambe kulemba za chisoni changa kuti ndidziwe zomwe zikuchititsa ndipo mwina ndingathe kusintha maganizo anga ndinganene haha.

Pamene chisoni chikulirakulira kuposa chikhumbo.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Sindikukhalira watsopano ku poly, mwamuna wanga ndi! Kodi ma poly peeps anga ali kuti?! Tili ku ATL!!

Kodi ma poly couples ali kuti?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Chifukwa chiyani sindinakhale pa pulogalamu iyi mwezi wathunthu koma ndakuwonani zambiri ndipo ndikutanthauza ZAMBIRI za anthu a poly apa. Sindikukhumudwitsa kwenikweni koma ndimapanga chidwi kwambiri ndi momwe mukugwirizana.

Poly pa kukwera?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Chifukwa chiyani amuna ambiri a poly amalola akazi ena okha mu ubwenzi? Kodi chikondi cha poly si cha magulu onse?

Funso kwa amuna a poly koma akazi akulandiridwa kuti apereke malingaliro.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

BFF yanga yabwino kwambiri yakhala mu ubale kwa chaka chimodzi. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna wake adamuuzadi lero kuti akufuna mkwenyana wina kapena adzakhala ndi chisoni, sakufuna kuti awone wina. Adalankhula kuti izi ndizachizolowezi mu ubale wa Poly kapena ENM. Kodi wina angandithandize kumvetsa? Chifukwa chinthu mu madzi sichikuwoneka bwino pano mu malingaliro anga.

Ngati ndi funso lokhudza mwachangu.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Ine ndi mkazi wanga takhala tikufufuza povuta kulikonse kuti tikhale ndi mkazi wina kuti akhale ndi ife😉 kapena kuwonjezera mu ubwenzi. Iye ali ndi chisomo chachikulu pa lingaliro, chifukwa ndi bi ndipo amakonda akazi kwambiri. Takhalapo pa mapulogalamu ambiri kuphatikizapo fetlife, ndipo sitinapeze mwayi. Ngati pali akazi ali ndi chidwi chonde titumizireni🖤

Poly Community

North Carolina poly

Kufunafuna 3rd

Hiiii pali anthu a poly?

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Watsopano poly

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Pamene iwo...

Poly ndi wosangalatsa

Kufunafuna bwenzi lenileni ndine poly

Kodi unachita chinyengo ndi kudzalipira nokha?

37 F Newcastle

Poly ku arkansas