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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Kuki bigora cyane kubona abandi bantu poly mu gace kanjye?

Poly ya North Carolina

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Ndi mu rukundo rw'ahantu hatandukanye kandi nshaka umukobwa uri hafi yanjye ngo tuganire kandi dukundane.

Gushaka umukunzi wa 3

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii hari abantu ba poly?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Muraho mwese,  

Nshaka guhura n’abantu bafite ibitekerezo bisa mu gace kanjye bashobora kuba bafite inyota yo gukundana bafite intego yo kugira ikintu gikomeza kandi gifite akamaro.

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Ndi mushya mu Poly ngerageza iki kintu, ni mbere y'igihe cya mbere. Ubu ndi umwe kuko umugore wanjye yapfuye, ndifuza guhura n'abantu bashya bafite inyungu zisa.

Poly nshya

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Solo/poly

In the growing world of poly what’s the mistake you made but glad you learned that lesson…. Please be open minded AB’s don’t be shy no judge here

Hot take

Mu isi ikura ya poly, ni iyihe makosa wakoreye ariko ukishimira ko wize iyo isomo... Nyamuneka wumve neza, AB ntimukabe abashidikanya, nta gucira urubanza hano.

Icyifuzo gishya

Post a pic Atlanta addition if you not scared

Atlanta maybe

Ohereza ifoto y'inyongera ya Atlanta niba utatinya

Atlanta birashoboka

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Muraho muraho! Njye n'umugore wanjye turi poly kandi nditeguye kugira undi mubano, ndashaka umukunzi. Ntekereza ku miterere y'umuntu, si ku isura. Niba wifuza, nyandikira, niba atari byo, byeee!!

Kureba

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Umugabo wanjye nange turashaka umubano w'ubwiyunge n'umugore. Ushaka kubyinjiramo andikire.

Looking for a female to join us

Turashaka umugore wo kudusanga

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Akenshi ndi umuntu ukunda kuba n'umugabo umwe cyangwa umugore umwe. Ariko sinshobora guhitamo hagati y'abo 2 bityo ndashaka kugerageza poly. Nifuza poly y'abagabo 2 ariko ikintu cyose kirakwiye, gusa ndashaka ko baba bafite imyaka hagati ya 20 na 30. Nyamuneka mwaba muri muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe z'Amerika kandi mwandike niba hari umuntu wifuza ☺️

Nshaka umubano wa poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Imitekerereze y'ukunda no gushyigikira umufasha wawe mu kubona ibyishimo mu gukora ibintu (cyangwa abantu) bakunda (cyangwa bakishimira). Akenshi ihangayikishwa n'ikifuzo cyo kugenzura cyangwa kugira, ubwoba bwo kubura, cyangwa ubwoba bwo gutakaza. Ntekereza ku gitekerezo cy'urukundo rudafitanye isano n'ibindi (agape) n'ukuntu gishobora gushyiraho umusingi ukomeye wa compersion. Bamwe mu bantu bakusanya abashakanye benshi kugira ngo fill in the gaps, ariko ese ibyo bishobora gukemura ikibazo nyamukuru?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey there, dutangiye gukorera ibintu bishya no gushaka guhura n'umukobwa w'ibyishimo, w'inyota yo kumenya no ufite ibitekerezo byagutse ngo aduhereze muri uru rugendo 🤭 niba witeguye kwishimira no kumenyana neza, tuzaneho 🫠

Gukora ikintu gishya

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Ntekereza niba nanjye nshobora kuba poly cyangwa oya. Ariko nashakaga kumenya, bimeze bite? Ese byashoboka ko nabona abantu 2? Muri mwe mwishimye cyane? Ndakomeje kugira amatsiko kuri iki kibazo

Mpa amakuru nyabuna

New to Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Nabonye ikimenyetso kibi cy'abakundana bashaka by'umwihariko umuntu wa gatatu wiyita poly, kandi ibi birababaje.
Nta muntu ugomba gushaka umuntu ushobora gukoreshwa nk'ikintu cy'igihe gito kugira ngo yongere umunezero mu mubano wabo, ibyo si polyamory.
Byongeye, kugabanya amahitamo y'abafatanyabikorwa bawe mu gihe ufite uburenganzira busesuye ni byo, ibyo ni ukutizera no kugenzura.

Dukeneye guhamagarira aba bantu b'ubugome biyita poly, kuko ni yo isura igenda isakara ku bandi, kandi ni yo mpamvu hariho kutumvikana cyane ku bijyanye na compersion n'ibyishimo byo gukunda umuntu bihagije kugira ngo umurekure.

Abakora ubukwe n'OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Naramuka nari umunyamurava. Ntabwo nigeze ngerageza, sinigeze ntega amaso ahandi. Nerekeje ku mpera y'ubusabane bwanjye bwa nyuma no mu mwaka umwe ndi wenyine, nahisemo gutangira kwinjira mu mazi.

Ubu ndabona umukobwa umwe w'ubusabane kenshi kandi ibintu biragenda neza, ndishimye ku buryo abayeho n'ubwisanzure bumbwira. Ndateganya andi masaha n'undi vuba, ndetse n'umukunzi wanjye w'igihe cyashize mu myaka 20 ishize arimo kuganira nanjye.

Sinshaka kwiyemera cyangwa kwiyemera. (Nubwo ntekereza ko mfite amahirwe menshi) Ariko se kuki ubu mbonye iyi attention yose? Ese byarashize igihe kinini ndi mu rukundo ku buryo ibintu byarahindutse?

Birashoboka ko bifitanye isano no gukorera ku giti cyanjye. Birashoboka ko bifitanye isano n'icyizere gishya mfite. Ariko ndibaza icyo abandi bantu bashobora kubitekerezaho.

None, ni ibi bisanzwe?

We out here 😉

Turahari 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Ndi mu bihe bito byo kwiyungura. 
Ndi mushya mu buzima bwa poly. Nari narabaye umwe mu rukundo mu buzima bwanjye bwose. Nari nzi ko ishyari rishobora kuba ikibazo ariko kugeza ubu ntiririho. Ariko nta wampaye inama ku cyaha gishoboka nashobora kumva. Nka nko gukora ikintu kibi cyane nubwo nishimye cyane. Bambwiye ko nagomba gutangira kwandika ku byiyumvo byanjye by'icyaha kugira ngo ngerageze kumenya icyabiteye kandi wenda ngashobora guhindura uko ntekereza ndakeka haha.

Iyo icyaha kiruta ishyari.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Sinshya mu poly, ariko umukunzi wanjye ni we! Aho abavandimwe bacu ba poly bari?! Turi muri ATL!!

Aho abashakanye ba poly bari?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Nukuri sinari kuri iyi porogaramu ukwezi kose ariko maze kubona byinshi kandi ndavuga BYINSHI by’abantu ba poly hano. Sinshaka kubashinja na gato ahubwo ndatangajwe n'ukuntu mwemera kuvuga.

Poly ku izamuka?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Kuki abagabo benshi ba poly bemera gusa abagore abandi mu mubano? Ese urukundo rwa poly si urw'ibitsina byose?

Ikibazo ku bagabo benshi ba poly ariko abagore barakirwa mu bitekerezo.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Inshuti yanjye ya hafi cyane imaze umwaka mu rukundo. Umukunzi we yamubwiye uyu munsi ko akeneye undi mukunzi cyangwa azahabwa umunaniro, ariko ntashaka ko abona undi muntu. Yasobanuye ko ibi ari ibisanzwe mu rukundo rwa Poly cyangwa ENM. Ese hari uwamfasha kubyumva? Kuko hari ikintu mu mazi kitari mu buryo hano mu bitekerezo byanjye.

Ikibazo gito gusa.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Jye na umugore wanjye tumaze igihe twishakisha ahantu hose hashoboka kugira ngo tubone undi mugore wo gukina na we😉 cyangwa wo kongera mu mubano wacu. Yishimiye cyane iyi ntego, kuko ari bi kandi akunda abagore cyane. Tumaze kuba ku mbuga nyinshi harimo fetlife, ariko ntitwigeze tugira amahirwe. Niba hari abagore bashishikajwe, mwisanzure kutwandikira🖤

Poly Community

Poly ya North Carolina

Gushaka umukunzi wa 3

Hiiii hari abantu ba poly?

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Poly nshya

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Iyo bategereje ko usubiza vuba ariko mwese mufite ubuzima mwabayeho, mukora, kandi ushobora kumenya ko mutabanye neza igihe batangiriye bavuga, "Noneho... tuzongera umukobwa kuko uri poly?" Nka musaza, ntabwo ari uko ibi bikorwa. 😂

Poly ni mwiza

Ese warakoresheje uburiganya ukazihindura?

Nshaka umukunzi nyakuri ndi poly

37 F Newcastle

Poly muri arkansas