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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Zakaj je tako težko najti druge poliamorne ljudi v moji okolici?

Severna Karolina poli

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Sem v dolgoročni zvezi in iščem dekle, ki bi mi bilo bližje, da se druživa in hodiva.

Iščem 3. osebo

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Živjo vsi,  

Iščem ljudi s podobnimi interesi v svoji okolici, ki bi jih zanimalo zmenkovanje z namenom nečesa trajnega in smiselnega.

Poliamoren, zapleten in iščem smiselne povezave

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Nov sem v poliamoriji, poskušam to stvar, to je pred prvič. Nedavno sem samski zaradi smrti žene, zanimam se za spoznavanje novih ljudi s podobnimi interesi.

Nova poliamorija

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii, so tukaj kakšni poli ljudje?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Živjo! Moja žena in jaz sva poliamorna in odprt sem za še eno razmerje ter iščem punco. Gledam na osebnost, ne na videz. Če te zanima, mi piši, če ne, pa čau!!

Iščem

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Mož in jaz iščeva resno razmerje z žensko. Zainteresirane, sporočite mi.

Pozdravljeni

Looking for a female to join us

Iščemo žensko, da se nam pridruži

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Običajno sem tip, ki je z eno žensko ali moškim. Ampak ne morem se odločiti med obema, zato bi rad poskusil s poliamorijo. Raje bi imel poliamorijo z dvema moškima, ampak vse je v redu, samo da so stari med 20 in 30 leti. Prosim, da ste v ZDA, prav tako komentirajte, če je kdo zainteresiran ☺️

Iščem poliamorično razmerje

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Aktivna miselnost ljubiti in podpirati svojega partnerja(je) pri iskanju zadovoljstva v stvareh (ali ljudeh), ki jih imajo radi (ali jih imajo rade). Pogosto nasprotuje potrebi po nadzoru ali posedovanju, negotovosti glede dostopa ali strahu pred izgubo. Razmišljam o konceptu nepripetega agape in kako lahko ustvari močno osnovo za compersion. Nekateri ljudje zbirajo več partnerjev, da zapolnijo praznine, vendar ali to lahko dovolj obravnava osnovno težavo?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hej, začel sem raziskovati nove stvari in iščem zabavno, radovedno in odprto dekle, da se nam pridruži na tej poti 🤭 če si za malo zabave in boljše spoznavanje, se javi 🫠

Poskušanje nečesa novega

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Sprašujem se, ali sem morda poliamoren ali ne. Ampak želel sem vedeti, kakšno je to? Ali bi bilo mogoče, da bi se znašel z 2 osebama? Ste vi ekstra srečni? Zelo me zanima ta tema

Dajte mi vpogled, prosim

New to Boo

Nov na Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Opazil sem zaskrbljujoč trend parov, ki posebej iščejo tretjo osebo in se opisujejo kot poliamorni, kar je žalostno. 
Nihče ne bi smel iskati razgradljive osebe, da bi popestril svoje partnerstvo, to ni poliamorija. 
Podobno, omejevanje izbire partnerjev, medtem ko imate sami proste roke, ni poliamorija, to je le negotovost in nadzor.

Moramo razkriti te toksične osebe, ki se imenujejo poliamorne, ker je to podoba, ki se prenaša na druge, in zakaj je toliko napačnega razumevanja compersion in radosti ljubezni do nekoga, dovolj, da ga osvobodite.

Lovci in OPP-ji

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Vedno sem bil monogamen. Nikoli nisem prevaral, nikoli nisem pogledal drugam. Hitro naprej do konca mojega zadnjega razmerja in leta samskega življenja, odločil sem se, da začnem ponovno stopati v vodo.

Zdaj redno hodim z eno poligamno punco in stvari gredo odlično, popolnoma sem v redu z njeno situacijo in svobodo, ki mi jo ponuja. Imamo še več zmenkov z drugo punco kmalu, in celo nekdanja punca izpred 20 let se pogovarja z mano.

Ne hvalim se in ne blefiram. (Čeprav se resnično štejem za precej srečnega) Ampak zakaj nenadoma dobivam vso to pozornost? Je minilo toliko časa, da so se stvari spremenile?

Morda ima to nekaj opraviti z delom na sebi, seveda. Morda je to zaradi moje nove samozavesti. Ampak me zanima, kaj si o tem mislijo drugi ljudje.

Torej, ali je to normalno?

We out here 😉

Smo tukaj 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Samo malo izpustitve. 
Sem nova v poliamoriji. Vso življenje sem bila monogamna. Tako da sem vedela, da bi lahko bilo ljubosumje težava, a zaenkrat ni. Vendar me nihče ni opozoril na potencialno krivdo, ki bi jo lahko čutila. Kot da delam nekaj grozno narobe, čeprav sem takoooooo srečna. Povedali so mi, naj začnem pisati dnevnik o svojih krivdnih občutkih, da poskušam ugotoviti, kaj jih povzroča, in morda preuredim svoj um, mislim, haha.

Ko je krivda močnejša od ljubosumja.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Nisem nova v poliamoriji, moj fant je! Kje so vsi moji poliamorni prijatelji?! Smo v ATL!!

Kje so poliamorne pare?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Prekleta, še mesec dni nisem na tej aplikaciji, pa sem že videl veliko in mislim, RES veliko poliamornih ljudi tukaj. Ne obsojam, ampak sem bolj presenečen, kako odprti ste.

Poly na vzponu?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Zakaj mnogi poliamorni moški dovolijo le druge ženske v razmerju? Ali ni poliamorna ljubezen za vse spole?

Vprašanje predvsem za poliamorne moške, vendar so ženske dobrodošle, da prispevajo.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Moja najboljša prijateljica je v zvezi že približno eno leto. Njen fant ji je danes povedal, da potrebuje še eno punco, sicer se bo dolgočasil, noče pa, da bi ona videla kogarkoli drugega. Pojasnil je, da je to tipično za poliamorne ali ENM zveze. Mi lahko kdo pomaga razumeti? Ker se mi zdi, da nekaj v vodi tukaj ni mokro.

Samo hitro vprašanje.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Jaz in moja žena sva iskala povsod, kjer je to mogoče, za drugo žensko, s katero bi se lahko igrali😉 ali jo dodali v najin odnos. Zelo je navdušena nad to idejo, saj je biseksualna in resnično obožuje ženske. Bili smo na toliko aplikacijah, vključno s fetlife, in preprosto nismo imeli sreče. Če so kakšne dame zainteresirane, naj se nam javijo🖤

najti tretjo osebo v NC je nemogoče

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

Kakšna je največja polikula, katere del si bil?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

moj fant in jaz iščeva dekle, s katerim bi se ujeli, če te zanima amos: txrichann

iščemo tretjo

Skupnost Boo za spoznavanje drugih navdušencev nad Poly.

Poly Skupnost

Severna Karolina poli

Iščem 3. osebo

Poliamoren, zapleten in iščem smiselne povezave

Nova poliamorija

Hiiii, so tukaj kakšni poli ljudje?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Skupnost❤️ proti izolirani osamljenosti

Ne maram svoje bivše...

Si prevaral in se odkupil?

37 F Newcastle

Iščem pravo punco, sem poliamoren

Iščem igralca 2