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Lover of nature, music, and the stars. Atlanta based and looking

Poly nested and looking for a partner

O le alofa i le natura, musika, ma fetu. O lo'o i Atlanta ma fa'afaigaluega

Poly nested ma fa'afaigaluega se paaga

Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Aiseā e faigatā ai ona maua ni tagata poly i loʻu eria?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Talofa i tagata uma,  

O lo'o ou saili e feiloa'i ma tagata e fa'atekinolosi i lo'u itulagi e fia fa'atau i le fa'amoemoe o se mea e tumau ma taua.

Poly, nested ma fa'amoemoe e maua ni feso'ota'iga taua

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

O le tagata fou i le Poly e taumafai i lenei mea, e leʻi tupu muamua. O loʻu tulaga o le tagata naʻo ona o le maliu o le toʻalua, e fiafia i le feiloaʻi ma tagata fou e iai ni fa'amoemoega tutusa.

Poly fou

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii, o lo'o i ai ni tagata poly?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

O lo'o i ai a'u i se fa'ata'ita'iga mamao ma o lo'o su'eina se tamaʻitaʻi e latalata mai ia te a'u e fa'atau ma fa'ata'ita'iga.

O le suʻeina o le 3rd

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Talofa talofa! O lo'u to'alua ma a'u o le poly ma o lo'o ou fa'avaa i se isi fa'ata'ita'iga ma o lo'o ou saili mo se uo teine. O lo'o ou fa'atau i le tagata, e le o le foliga. Afai e te fiafia, fa'amolemole fa'ailoa mai, afai e le o, fa!

Fa'atau

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

O le tane ma aʻu o lo'o saili se fa'ata'ita'iga seriose ma se fafine. Afai e te fiafia, fa'amolemole fa'ailoa mai.

Talofa

Looking for a female to join us

O lo'o fa'afaigaluega se fafine e auai mai i matou

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

O le masani ai, o a'u o se tagata e tasi le fafine po'o le tane. Ae ou te le mafai ona filifili i le va o le 2, o le mea lea ou te manaʻo e taumafai i se poly. Ou te fiafia i se poly e 2 tane, ae o le mea e lelei, na'o le manaʻo e iai i le soifuaga o le 20s i le 30. Fa'amolemole ia i le U.S. fa'amolemole fa'ailoa pe o iai se tagata e fiafia ☺️

O le su'esu'e mo se fa'ata'ita'iga poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

O le mafaufau fa'atekinolosi o le alofa ma le lagolago i lau paaga (po'o paaga) i le su'esu'eina o le fiafia i le faia o mea (po'o tagata) e latou te alofa (po'o fiafia). E masani ona fa'atekinolosi i se manaʻoga e pulea po'o le fa'atau, le le mautinoa i le avanoa, po'o se fefe i le leiloa. O lo'o ou manatu i le fa'ata'ita'iga o le agape e le fa'atekinolosi ma le auala e mafai ai ona fa'avae se fa'avae malosi mo le compersion. E fa'atau e nisi tagata le tele o paaga e fa'amalie ai le vae, ae mafai fa'apea e le mafai ona fo'ia le fa'afitauli i lalo?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Talofa, o lo'o amata e su'esu'e i mea fou ma o lo'o fa'amoemoe e feso'ota'i ma se tamaʻita'i fiafia, su'esu'e ma le agaga malamalama e auai i le tatou malaga 🤭 afai e te manaʻo i se fiafia ma le iloa lelei i le tasi i le isi, fa'amolemole fa'afeso'ota'i mai 🫠

Fa'ata'ita'iga i se mea fou

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

O lo'o ou fa'ailoa po'o a'u e mafai ona poly po'o le isi. Ae ou te manaʻo e iloa, o le a le fa'avae i ai? E mafai ona ou maua se fa'ata'ita'iga ma le 2 tagata? E te fiafia tele? O lo'o ou fiafia i lenei mataupu

Fa'amolemole, fa'ailoa mai

New to Boo

O le a le mea e te fiafia i ai i lenei app i le taimi nei?

Fa'amatalaga i le Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

O lo'o ou va'aia se fa'ata'ita'iga leaga o pa'u e fa'atauina ai se to'afa e fa'ailoa i latou o se poly, ma o le mea lea e fa'anoanoa ai.
E le tatau i se tasi ona saili se tagata e mafai ona fa'aaoga e fa'atele ai le fiafia i la latou pa'aga, o le leaga lea o le polyamory.
E le fa'apea, o le fa'atekinolosi o le filifiliga o au pa'aga i le taimi e mafai ai ona e fa'atekinolosi i le fa'avae o le leaga, o le le mautinoa ma le pule lea.

E tatau ona tatou fa'ailoa i latou o lo'o fa'atauina i le fa'avae o le poly, ona o le ata lea e fa'asalalau i isi, ma o le mafua'aga lea e tele ai le le malamalama i le compersion ma le fiafia o le alofa i se tasi e mafai ona fa'alelei i latou.

O le au Fa'atau ma OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

O lo'o fa'avae i le fa'avae. E le'i fa'avaivai, e le'i va'ai i le isi itu. Fa'atekinolosi i le fa'ai'uga o la'u fa'ata'ita'iga mulimuli ma le tausaga o le le fa'ata'ita'iga, na ou filifili e toe fa'aaoga la'u vae i le vai.

O lo'o ou va'aia se tamaʻitaʻi poly masani ma o lo'o lelei mea uma, e lelei tele i le tulaga o ia ma le saolotoga e ofoina mai ia te a'u. E tele isi fa'ata'ita'iga e fa'atulaga ma se isi i se taimi vave, ma e aofia ai se ex mai le 20 tausaga talu ai e talanoa mai ia te a'u.

E le'o ou fa'ailoa po'o le a le mea e fa'ailoa ai. (E ui i le mea ou te manatu ai o a'u o se tagata talitonu) Ae fa'apefea ona ou maua uma lenei fa'ata'ita'iga? E le'i umi le taimi talu ai na ou fa'ata'ita'iga e fa'ailoa ai o le suiga?

E mafai ona i ai se fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae. E mafai ona o ia i le fa'avae i le fa'avae. Ae ou te manatu i le mea e mafai ona fa'ailoa e isi tagata.

O le fa'avae, o le masani lea?

We out here 😉

O lo'o iinei 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Na'o le fa'ailoa laitiiti. 
O a'u o lo'o i le olaga poly. O lo'o i ai a'u i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa'avae i le fa

O le taimi e sili ai le fa'anoanoa i le fa'avaivai.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

O le fa'avae i le poly, o lo'o i ai lo'u to'alua! O fea o tagata poly uma?! O lo'o i le ATL!!

O fea o le au poly?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

O le fa'atekinolosi, ou te le'i i ai i lenei app mo se masina atoa, ae ua ou va'aia le tele o tagata poly iinei. E le fa'atekinolosi i le fa'atekinolosi, ae e sili atu le ofo i le auala e fa'avae ai i le fa'avaa.

Poly i le fa'ateleina?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Aiseā e le fa'ataga ai e le to'atele o tagata alii polymen na'o le fafine i le sootaga? E le o le alofa poly mo so'o se ituaiga o le fa'ata'ita'iga?

Fa'ailoa mo le to'atele o tagata alii polymen ae o fafine e talia fo'i le fa'ailoa.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

O laʻu uo sili e le mafai ona ou fa'amaonia o ia i se fa'ata'ita'iga mo le tusa o le tausaga. Na fa'ailoa mai e lana uo tamaʻitaʻi i le aso e manaʻomia ona ia maua se isi uo tamaʻitaʻi pe a le mafai ona ia ta'a'ina, e le manaʻo o ia e va'ai i se isi tagata. Na ia fa'ailoa mai o le fa'ata'ita'iga o le Poly po'o le ENM e masani ai. E mafai ona fesoasoani se tasi ia te a'u e malamalama? O le mea e leaga i le vai e le masani ai i le fa'avaitaimi i lo'u manatu.

O se fesili vave.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

O a'u ma la'u to'alua o lo'o su'esu'e i so'o se mea e mafai mo se fafine e tasi e ta'a'ina i le ta'a'iga😉 po'o le fa'aopoopo i le mafutaga. E matua fiafia o ia i le manatu, ona o ia o se bi ma e matua alofa i fafine. Ua matou i le tele o apps e aofia ai fetlife, ma e le'i maua se fa'amanuiaga.  Afai e iai fafine e fiafia, fa'amolemole fa'afeso'ota'i i matou🖤

Poly Community

Poly nested ma fa'afaigaluega se paaga

North Carolina poly

Poly, nested ma fa'amoemoe e maua ni feso'ota'iga taua

Poly fou

Hiiii, o lo'o i ai ni tagata poly?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

O fea e iai aʻu Poly Pagans

O le fa'avaita'iga❤️ vs le fa'atekinolosi na'o

E le fiafia au i laʻu ex...

Na e fa'atau ma toe fa'aleleia oe?

O lo'o fa'afaigaluega se uo teine moni, o a'u o se poly

O le taimi e fasi ai se mea i le vao: O le a sou manatu e fa'atekinolosi e le tagata i le fa'avae i le poly, a'o le'i iloa e i latou le vaega o le latou tagata?

Poly Community

Poly nested ma fa'afaigaluega se paaga

North Carolina poly

Poly, nested ma fa'amoemoe e maua ni feso'ota'iga taua

Poly fou

Hiiii, o lo'o i ai ni tagata poly?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

O fea e iai aʻu Poly Pagans

O le fa'avaita'iga❤️ vs le fa'atekinolosi na'o

E le fiafia au i laʻu ex...

Na e fa'atau ma toe fa'aleleia oe?

O lo'o fa'afaigaluega se uo teine ​​moni, o a'u o se poly

O le taimi e fasi ai se mea i le vao: O le a sou manatu e fa'atekinolosi e le tagata i le fa'avae i le poly, a'o le'i iloa e i latou le vaega o le latou tagata?

O lo'o fa'afaigaluega se uo teine moni, o a'u o se poly