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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Sei zvichinetsa kuwana vamwe vanhu ve poly munzvimbo yangu?

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Ndiri muukama hurefu uye ndiri kutsvaga musikana ari pedyo neni kuti ndinokwanisa kupedza nguva naye uye kumudanana.

Kutsvaga 3rd

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey munhu wese,  

Ndiri kutsvaga kusangana nevanhu vane pfungwa dzakafanana munharaunda yangu vanofarira kudanana nechinangwa chechimwe chinhu chiri kuenderera mberi uye chine musoro.

Poly, yakakwirira uye ichitsvaga hukama hunoreva

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Ndiri mutsva kuPoly ndichiedza chinhu ichi, chiri pamberi pekutanga. Nguva pfupi yadarika, ndiri kumira nekuda kwekufa kwemukadzi, ndinofarira kusangana nevanhu vatsva vane zvido zvakafanana

Poly itsva

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii pane vanhu ve poly here?

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Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Mhoroi mhoroi! Mukadzi wangu neni tiri poly uye ndakagadzirira imwe hukama uye ndiri kutsvaga musikana. Ndinoenda nehunhu kwete kutaridzika. Kana uchifarira, ndinyorerei, kana zvisina kudaro, bye!!

Kutarisa

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Mudzimai wangu neni tiri kutsvaga hukama hwakakomba nemukadzi. Anofarira ndapota nditumirei meseji.

Mhoro

Looking for a female to join us

Tiri kutsvaga mukadzi kuti abatane nesu

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Kazhinji ndiri murume kana mukadzi mumwe chete. Asi handikwanisi kusarudza pakati pe2 saka ndinoda kuyedza poly. Ndinoda hukama hwepoly hwevarume vaviri asi chero chingaitika chakanaka, ndinongoda kuti vave pamakore ekuma 20s kusvika ku30. Ndapota muve muU.S. uye nyorai kana pane munhu anofarira ☺️

Kutsvaga hukama hwepoly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Maitiro akasimba ekuda uye kutsigira shamwari dzako mukuwana kugutsikana vachitora zvinhu (kana vanhu) zvavanoda (kana kufarira). Kazhinji zvinopesana nekuda kwekutonga kana kuve nechinhu, kusava nechivimbo pamusoro pekuwana, kana kutya kwekurasa. Ndinoona pfungwa yeagape isina kubatanidzwa uye kuti inogona sei kugadzira hwaro hwakasimba hwecompersion. Vamwe vanhu vanounganidza vamwe vavariro kuti vazadze nzvimbo, asi izvi zvinokwanisa here kugadzirisa nyaya iri pasi?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey ikoko, ndiri kutanga kuongorora zvinhu zvitsva uye ndiri kutsvaga kubatana nemusikana anofara, ane chido uye akavhurika pfungwa kuti abatane nesu parwendo urwu 🤭 kana uri kuda kutandara uye kuzivana zviri nani, taura nesu 🫠

Kuedza chimwe chinhu chitsva

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Ndiri kubvunza kana ndiri poly here kana kuti kwete. Asi ndinoda kuziva, chii chiri kuitika? Zvingaitika here kuti ndingawane vanhu vaviri? Munofara zvakanyanya here? Ndiri kunyatsoda kuziva nezvenyaya iyi

Nditendereiwo kuti ndione

New to Boo

Nyowani kuBoo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Ndakaona maitiro anotyisa evavhimi vari kutsvaga wechitatu vanozvitsanangura sepoly, uye izvi zvinorwadza.
Hakuna munhu anofanira kutsvaga munhu anokwanisa kushandiswa kuwedzera kunaka kwehukama hwavo, izvo hazvisi polyamory.
Saizvozvo, kuderedza sarudzo dzevako vavhimi uku uchikwanisa kuita zvaunoda iwe pachako hazvisi poly, izvo zviri kungoratidza kusava nechivimbo uye kutonga.

Tinofanira kuburitsa pachena izvi zvinokuvadza zvinonzi poly, nekuti ndizvo zvinoita kuti mufananidzo uyu upfuure kune vamwe, uye ndosaka paine kusanzwisisana kwakawanda kwecompersion uye mufaro wekuida mumwe munhu zvakakwana kuti umuregedze.

Vavhimi neOPP

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Ndagara ndiri munhu anoda kudanana nemumwe chete. Handina kutadzira, handina kutarisa kune vamwe. Pashure pekupedzisira kwangu kudanana uye gore rimwe ndiri ndega, ndakafunga kutanga kuedza kudzokera mukati memvura.

Iye zvino ndiri kuona musikana mumwe ane hukama hwakawanda uye zvinhu zviri kufamba zvakanaka, ndiri kugamuchira mamiriro ake uye rusununguko rwunondipa. Ndine mazuva akawanda akarongwa nemumwe munguva pfupi, uye kunyange nemumwe wandakambodanana naye makore 20 apfuura ari kutaurirana neni.

Handisi kutamba kana kuzvikudza. (Kunyangwe ndichifunga kuti ndiri kupfuura mwedzi) Asi sei pakarepo, ndiri kuwana kutariswa kwakawanda uku? Zvakatora nguva yakareba sei kubva pandakatanga kudanana kuti zvinhu zvachinja?

Zvingave nezvakawanda zvine chekuita nekushanda pamunhu wangu chokwadi. Zvingave nezvekuvimba kwangu kutsva. Asi ndiri kufungisisa kuti vamwe vanhu vangafungei nezvazvo.

Saka, izvi ndizvo here?

We out here 😉

Tiri pano 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Kungotaurira zvishoma. 
Ndiri mutsva muupenyu hwepoly. Ndakambove nemukana mumwe chete hupenyu hwangu hwese. Saka ndakaziva kuti kuda kungave kunetsa asi kusvika parizvino hazvina. Zvisinei, hapana akandizivisa nezve mhosva inogona kunditora. Sokuti ndiri kuita chimwe chinhu chakaipa zvikuru kunyangwe ndiri kufara zvikuru. Ndakambotaurwa kuti ndinofanira kutanga kunyora nezvemanzwiro angu emhosva kuti ndione chii chiri kukonzera uye pamwe ndichachinja pfungwa dzangu ndinofunga haha.

Kana mhosva iri nesimba kupfuura kuda.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Ini handisi mutsva ku poly, mukomana wangu ndiye! Kupi vese vangu ve poly?! Tiri mu ATL!!

Kupi vakadzi ve poly?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Nekutenda, handisati ndave pamushandirapamwe uyu kwemwedzi wese asi ndakaona vazhinji uye ndinoreva VAZHINJI ve poly pano. Handisi kutuka asi ndiri kushamiswa nekuti makazaruka sei.

Poly iri kukwira here?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Sei varume vazhinji ve poly vachibvumira chete vamwe vakadzi muukama? Ko rudo rwe poly haruna kune dzimwe mhando dzese here?

Mubvunzo kune varume vakawanda ve poly asi vakadzi vanogamuchirwa kupindura.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Shamwari yangu yepamoyo yave muukama kwemakore anenge rimwe. Mukomana wake akamudzidzisa nhasi kuti anoda mumwe musikana kana kuti achazotambura, haadi kuti aone mumwe munhu. Akatsanangura kuti izvi zvakajairika muukama hwePoly kana ENM. Pane munhu angandibatsirei kunzwisisa? Nekuti pane chimwe chinhu mumvura chisiri kutonhorera pano maonero angu.

Bvunzo pfupi.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Ini nemukadzi wangu tave kutsvaga pese patinogona kuti tiwane imwe mukadzi kuti atambe nayo😉 kana kuti tiwedzere kuhukama. Anofara zvikuru nepfungwa iyi, sezvo ari bi uye anonyanya kuda vakadzi. Tave pamapurogiramu akawanda kusanganisira fetlife, uye hatina kuwana rombo rakanaka. Kana paine vakadzi vanofarira, tapota taurai nesu🖤

kuwana 3rd muNC hazviiti

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

Chii chiri chikuru polycule chawakatambira?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

mukomana wangu neni tiri kutsvaga musikana wekudyidzana naye, kana uchifarira amos: txrichann

tiri kutsvaga 3rd

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