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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Maxay u adag tahay in la helo dad kale oo poly ah oo ku sugan aagga aan?

Polygaarka North Carolina

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Waxaan ku jiraa xiriir masaafo dheer ah waxaanan raadinayaa gabar igu dhow si aan ula qaato oo aan taariikh u sameeyo.

Raadinaya 3aad

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey everyone,  

Waxaan raadinayaa inaan la kulmo dadka fikradaha la midka ah ee deegaanka aan ku noolahay kuwaas oo xiiseynaya in ay taariikh sameeyaan ujeedada ah wax soconaya oo macno leh.

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Waxaan cusubahay Poly, waxaan isku dayayaa arrintan, waa markii ugu horreysay. Dhawaan, kaligey ayaan ahay sababtoo ah geerida xaaskeyda, waxaan xiiseynayaa inaan la kulmo dad cusub oo leh danaha la midka ah.

Poly cusub

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Waxaan rabaa inaan yeesho saaxiibo poly ah

Hiiii ma jiraan dad poly ah?

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Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Howdy howdy! Xaaskayga iyo aniga waxaan nahay poly waxaanan furanahay xiriir kale waxaanan raadinayaa gabar saaxiib ah. Waxaan raadinayaa shakhsiyadda, ma ahan muuqaalka. Haddii aad xiisaynayso, i soo qora haddii kale byeee!!

Raadinta

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Ninkeyga iyo aniga waxaan raadinaynaa xiriir dhab ah oo haweeney ah. Haddii aad xiisaynayso, ii soo dir fariin.

Looking for a female to join us

Raadinaya haweeney inoo soo biirta

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Caadiyan waxaan ahay nooca nin ama naag ah. Laakiin ma dooran karo labadaas, sidaas darteed waxaan rabaa inaan isku dayo poly. Waxaan jeclaan lahaa poly 2 nin ah laakiin wax kasta waa la aqbali karaa, kaliya waxaan rabaa inay da'doodu tahay 20-meeyada dhexe ilaa 30. Fadlan ha ku sugnayn U.S. sidoo kale faallo haddii qof danaynayo ☺️

Raadinaya xiriir poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Fikradda firfircoon ee jacaylka iyo taageerada lammaanahaaga si ay u helaan qanacsanaan iyagoo sameynaya waxyaabaha (ama dadka) ay jecel yihiin (ama ay jecel yihiin). Badanaa waxaa ka hor yimaada baahi lagu xakameynayo ama lagu haysto, amni darro ku saabsan helitaanka, ama cabsi ka timaadda khasaaraha. Waxaan u arkaa fikradda agape aan ku xiraneyn iyo sida ay u abuuri karto aasaas adag oo loogu talagalay compersion. Qaar ka mid ah dadka waxay ururiyaan lammaanayaal badan si ay u buuxiyaan faaruqyada, laakiin ma ku filan tahay in si ku filan loo xalliyo arrinta hoose?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey there, waxaan bilaabaynaa inaan sahaminno waxyaabo cusub oo waxaan raadinaynaa gabar madadaalo leh, xiiseyneysa oo furan si ay noogu soo biirto safarkan 🤭 haddii aad diyaar u tahay madadaalo iyo inaad si fiican isugu barataan, nala soo xiriir 🫠

Isku day wax cusub

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Waxaan isweydiinayaa haddii aan anigu poly ahay ama aan ahayn. Laakiin waxaan rabay inaan ogaado, sidee ayey u tahay? Ma suurtagalbaa inaan la kulmo 2 qof? Ma idinku faraxsan tihiin? Waxaan si dhab ah u xiiseynayaa mowqifkan

I sii xog plz

New to Boo

Sidee baad u jeceshahay app-kan ilaa hadda?

Cusub Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Waxaan arkayay isbeddel naxdin leh oo lamaanayaal gaar ahaan raadinaya qof saddexaad oo naftooda ku tilmaama poly, taasina waa mid niyad jab leh.
Qofna waa in uusan raadin qof la tuuri karo si uu u daro dhadhan xiriirkooda, taas maaha polyamory.
Sidaas oo kale, xaddididda doorashada lamaanayaashaaga adigoo naftaada xor u ah maaha poly, taasina waa kaliya amni darro iyo xakameyn.

Waxaan u baahanahay inaan ka hadalno dadka sunta leh ee naftooda ku tilmaama poly, maxaa yeelay taas ayaa ah sawirka la gudbiyo dadka kale, iyo sababta ay u jiraan faham la'aan badan oo ku saabsan compersion iyo farxadda jacaylka qof ku filan si aad u xorayso.

Ugaarsanayaasha iyo OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Mar walba waxaan ahaa mid monogamous ah. Abid ma khiyaanay, abidna ma aanan eegayn dhinaca kale. Si degdeg ah u dhaaf dhammaadka xiriirkeygii ugu dambeeyay iyo hal sano oo aan kali ahay, waxaan go'aansaday inaan dib u bilaabo in aan ku dhex socdo barkadda.

Hadda waxaan arkaa gabar poly ah oo joogto ah, wax walba waa ay fiicnaanayaan, si buuxda ayaan ula qabsaday xaaladdeeda iyo xorriyadda ay ii hayso. Taariikhyo kale ayaa la qorsheynayaa mid kale oo dhow, iyo xitaa ex ka yimid 20 sano ka hor oo ila sheekaynaya.

Ma aanan faanayn ama ma aanan kicin. (Inkastoo aan u arko naftayda mid nasiib badan) Laakiin sidee bay suurtagal u tahay in aan helayo dhammaan fiirooyinkan? Ma waxay ahayd waqti dheer tan iyo markii aan taariikhda ku jiray in waxyaabaha ay is beddeleen?

Waxay la xiriiri kartaa shaqada aan naftayda ku sameynayo hubaal. Waxay noqon kartaa kalsoonidayda cusub. Laakiin waxaan isweydiinayaa waxa dadka kale ka fikiri doonaan.

Markaa, ma tani caadi?

We out here 😉

Waxaan halkan joognaa 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Kaliya wax yar oo aan ka furanayo. 
Waxaan cusubahay nolosha poly. Waxaan ahaa mid monogamous nolosheyda oo dhan. Sidaas darteed waxaan ogaa in xaasidnimadu ay noqon karto dhibaato laakiin ilaa hadda ma ahan. Si kastaba ha ahaatee, qofna i ma uusan digniinin dambiga suurtagalka ah ee aan dareemi karo. Sida inaan sameynayo wax si xun u ah inkastoo aan aad u faraxsanahay. Waxaa la ii sheegay inaan bilaabo qorista maalinlaha ah ee dareenadayda dambiga si aan u isku dayo inaan helo waxa sababa iyo laga yaabee inaan dib u habeyn ku sameeyo maskaxdayda waxaan qiyaasayaa haha.

Marka dambigu uu ka xoog badan yahay xaasidnimada.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Anigu ma ahan cusub poly, saaxiibkay ayaa ah! Halkee ku sugan yihiin dhammaan saaxiibadayda poly?! Waxaan ku suganahay ATL!!

Halkee ku sugan yihiin lamaanayaasha poly?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Iyada oo aan weli hal bil ku jirin app-kan, laakiin waxaan arkay dad badan oo poly ah halkan. Ma xishoonayo gabi ahaanba laakiin waxaan ka yaabanahay sida furan ee aad u tihiin.

Poly ma korodhay?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Maxay ragga polymen badankood u oggolaanayaan kaliya dumarka kale xiriirka? Ma poly jacayl ma ahan dhammaan jinsiyada?

Su'aal u gaar ah ragga poly laakiin dumarka ayaa sidoo kale lagu soo dhaweynayaa inay fikradahooda bixiyaan.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Saaxiibkayga ugu fiican wuxuu ku jiray xiriir qiyaastii hal sano. Wiilkeedii ayaa maanta u sheegay in uu u baahan yahay gabar kale ama uu caajisi doono, laakiin ma doonayo in ay qof kale aragto. Wuxuu sharxay in tani ay caadi u tahay xiriirada Poly ama ENM. Ma qof ayaa i caawin kara in aan fahmo? Maxaa yeelay, wax aan caadi ahayn ayaa halkan ka jira aniga oo aan u arko.

Su'aal degdeg ah.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Aniga iyo xaaskeyga waxaan raadinaynaa meel kasta oo suurtagal ah haweeney kale si aan ula ciyaarno😉 ama aan ugu darno xiriirka. Waxay aad u faraxsan tahay fikradda, maadaama ay tahay bi oo ay runtii jeceshahay dumarka. Waxaan ku jirnay barnaamijyo badan oo ay ku jiraan fetlife, laakiin nasiib ma helin. Haddii ay jiraan haween xiiseynaya, xor ayaad u tahay inaad nala soo xiriirto🖤

helitaanka 3aad NC waa mid aan suurtagal ahayn

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

Waa maxay polycule-ka ugu weyn ee aad ka mid noqotay?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

aniga iyo bf-kayga waxaan raadinaynaa gabar aan la kulanno, haddii aad xiisaynayso amos: txrichann

raadinaya 3aad

A Boo community for meeting other Poly enthusiasts.

Poly Community

Polygaarka North Carolina

Raadinaya 3aad

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Poly cusub

Hiiii ma jiraan dad poly ah?

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Ma khiyaanay oo naftaada ma soo celisay?

37 F Newcastle

Raadinaya saaxiibad dhab ah aniga oo poly ah

Raadinaya ciyaaryahan 2 ish