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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Zašto je tako teško pronaći druge poliamorne ljude u mojoj oblasti?

Poliamor u Severnoj Karolini

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

U vezi na daljinu sam i tražim devojku bliže sebi s kojom bih se družio i izlazio.

Tražim treću

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hej svima,  

Tražim da upoznam ljude sličnog razmišljanja u svojoj oblasti koji bi bili zainteresovani za dejtovanje s namerom nečega trajnog i značajnog.

Poli, u vezi i tražim značajne veze

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Novi sam u poli, pokušavam ovu stvar, to je pre prvi put. Nedavno sam sam zbog toga što je moja žena preminula, zanimaju me novi ljudi sa sličnim interesovanjima.

Novi poli

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii, da li ima poly ljudi?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Zdravo zdravo! Moja žena i ja smo poliamorni i otvoren sam za još jednu vezu i tražim devojku. Gledam ličnost, a ne izgled. Ako si zainteresovana, javi mi se, ako ne, ćao!!

Tražim

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Muž i ja tražimo ozbiljnu vezu sa ženom. Ako ste zainteresovani, javite mi se.

Zdravo

Looking for a female to join us

Tražimo devojku da nam se pridruži

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Obično sam tip koji voli samo jednog muškarca ili ženu. Ali ne mogu da se odlučim između njih dvoje, pa želim da probam poliamoriju. Više bih voleo poliamoriju sa dva muškarca, ali sve je u redu, samo želim da budu u uzrastu od sredine 20-ih do 30. Molim vas da budete u SAD-u, takođe komentarišite ako je neko zainteresovan ☺️

Tražim poliamornu vezu

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Aktivni način razmišljanja o ljubavi i podršci svom partneru(ima) u pronalaženju zadovoljstva radeći stvari (ili sa ljudima) koje vole (ili im se sviđaju). Često se suprotstavlja potrebom za kontrolom ili posedovanjem, nesigurnošću oko pristupa ili strahom od gubitka. Smatram koncept ne-prikovanog agape-a i kako može stvoriti čvrst temelj za komperziju. Neki ljudi okupljaju više partnera da popune praznine, ali može li to dovoljno adresirati osnovni problem?

Komperzija

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hej, počinjem da istražujem nove stvari i tražim zabavnu, radoznalu i otvorenu devojku koja će nam se pridružiti na ovom putovanju 🤭 ako si za malo zabave i bolje upoznavanje, javi nam se 🫠

Pokušavam nešto novo

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Pitam se da li bih mogla biti poliamorna ili ne. Ali htela sam da znam, kakvo je to? Da li je moguće da se nađem sa 2 osobe? Da li ste vi ekstra srećni? Zaista sam radoznala o ovoj temi

Dajte mi uvid molim vas

New to Boo

Kako ti se dopada ova aplikacija do sada?

Novi na Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Primetio sam uznemirujući trend parova koji specifično traže treću osobu i opisuju se kao poliamorni, i to je tužno. 
Niko ne bi trebao da traži zamensku osobu da začini svoj odnos, to nije poliamorija. 
Slično tome, ograničavanje izbora svojih partnera dok sam imaš potpunu slobodu nije pol, to je samo nesigurnost i kontrola.

Moramo da osudimo te toksične ljude koji se nazivaju poliamornima, jer je to slika koja se prenosi na druge, i zašto postoji toliko nesporazuma oko kompresije i radosti ljubavi prema nekome dovoljno da ga oslobodiš.

Lovci i OPP-ovi

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Uvek sam bio monogaman. Nikada nisam prevario, nikada nisam pogledao u drugu stranu. Prošlo je vreme do kraja moje poslednje veze i godine dana sam bio sam, odlučio sam da ponovo zakoračim u svet.

Sada viđam jednu poligamnu devojku redovno i stvari idu odlično, potpuno sam zadovoljan njenom situacijom i slobodom koju mi pruža. Uskoro imam još sastanaka sa drugom, a čak i bivša iz pre 20 godina mi se javlja.

Ne hvalim se i ne ponosim. (Iako se smatram prilično srećnim) Ali kako to da odjednom dobijam svu ovu pažnju? Da li je prošlo toliko vremena otkako sam izlazio da su se stvari promenile?

Možda ima veze sa tim što radim na sebi, sigurno. Možda je to zbog mog novog samopouzdanja. Ali se pitam šta drugi ljudi misle o tome.

Dakle, da li je ovo normalno?

We out here 😉

Mi smo ovde 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Samo malo ispuštanja. 
Nova sam u poligamiji. Ceo život sam bila monogamna. Tako da sam znala da bi ljubomora mogla biti problem, ali do sada nije. Međutim, niko me nije upozorio na potencijalnu krivicu koju bih mogla osećati. Kao da radim nešto strašno pogrešno iako sam tako srećna. Rekli su mi da počnem da pišem dnevnik o svojim osećanjima krivice kako bih pokušala da otkrijem šta ih uzrokuje i možda preuredim svoj mozak, pretpostavljam haha.

Kada je krivica jača od ljubomore.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Nisam nova u poliamoriji, moj dečko jeste! Gde su svi moji poliamorni prijatelji?! Mi smo u ATL!!

Gde su poliamorne parove?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Prokletstvo, nisam na ovoj aplikaciji još mesec dana, ali sam video mnogo, i mislim MNOGO poliamornih ljudi ovde. Ne sramim vas uopšte, više sam iznenađen koliko ste otvoreni.

Poliamorija u porastu?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Zašto mnogi poliamorni muškarci dopuštaju samo drugim ženama da budu u vezi? Zar poliamorna ljubav nije za sve polove?

Pitanje za uglavnom poliamorne muškarce, ali su i žene dobrodošle da daju svoj doprinos.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Moja najbolja prijateljica je u vezi već oko godinu dana. Njen dečko joj je danas rekao da mu treba još jedna devojka ili će se dosaditi, ali ne želi da ona viđa nekog drugog. Objasnio je da je ovo tipično za poliamorne ili ENM veze. Može li mi neko pomoći da razumem? Jer nešto u vodi ovde po mom mišljenju nije u redu.

Samo brzo pitanje.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Moja žena i ja smo svuda tražili drugu ženu s kojom bismo se igrali😉 ili dodali u našu vezu. Ona je super uzbuđena zbog te ideje, pošto je biseksualna i stvarno voli žene. Bili smo na toliko aplikacija, uključujući fetlife, i jednostavno nismo imali sreće. Ako ima bilo koja dama koja je zainteresovana, slobodno nam se javite🖤

pronaći treću osobu u NC je nemoguće

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

Koji je najveći polikule u kojem si bio?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

moj dečko i ja tražimo devojku s kojom bismo se uklopili, ako si zainteresovana amos: txrichann

tražimo treću

Boo zajednica za upoznavanje drugih Poly entuzijasta.

Poly Zajednica

Poliamor u Severnoj Karolini

Tražim treću

Poli, u vezi i tražim značajne veze

Novi poli

Hiiii, da li ima poly ljudi?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Zajedništvo❤️ vs izolovana usamljenost

Ne sviđa mi se moja bivša...

Da li si prevario i iskupio se?

37 F Newcastle

Tražim pravu devojku, ja sam poliamoran

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