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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Hobaneng ho thata hakaale ho fumana batho ba bang ba poly sebakeng sa ka?

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Ke le kamanong e telele 'me ke batla mosali ea haufi le 'na hore re kopane le ho nyalana.

Ho batla 3rd

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Lumelang bohle,  

Ke batla ho kopana le batho ba nang le maikutlo a tšoanang sebakeng sa ka ba ka thahasellang ho etsa likamano ka sepheo sa ho ba le ntho e tsoelang pele le e nang le moelelo.

Poly, e nested le ho batla likamano tse nang le moelelo

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Ke mocha ho Poly ke leka ntho ena, e ntse e le pele ho nako ea pele. Hajoale, ke le mong ka lebaka la lefu la mosali, ke thahasella ho kopana le batho ba bacha ba nang le litlhoko tse tšoanang

Poly e ncha

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii na ho na le batho ba poly?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Lumelang lumelang! Nka le mosali oa ka re poly 'me ke bulehile bakeng sa kamano e 'ngoe 'me ke batla mosali. Kea batla motho ka boitšoaro, eseng ka ponahalo. Haeba u thahasella, mphetele, haeba ho se joalo, bye!!

Batla

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Molekane le 'na re batla kamano e amanang le mosali. Haeba u thahasella, mphe molaetsa.

Lumelang

Looking for a female to join us

Re batla mosali ea tla kenella le rona

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Hangata ke motho ea le mong, monna kapa mosali. Empa ke sitwa ho khetha pakeng tsa 2 kahoo ke batla ho leka poly. Ke ka thabela poly ea banna ba 2 empa le eng kapa eng e lokile, ke just ke batla hore ba be le lilemo tse pakeng tsa bo-20 le ho fihla ho 30. Ka kopo, e be U.S. hape o ka ngola haeba motho a thahasella ☺️

Ho batla kamano ea poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Moea o sebetsang oa ho rata le ho tšehetsa molekane oa hao (molekane) ho fumana khotsofalo ho etsa lintho (kapa batho) tseo ba li ratang (kapa ba li ratang). Hangata e khahlanong le tlhoko ea ho laola kapa ho ba le, ho sitwa ka ho fumana, kapa tšabo ea ho lahleheloa. Ke nahana ka mohopolo oa agape e sa amanang le letho le kamoo e ka thehang motheo o matla bakeng sa compersion. Ba bang ba bokella balekane ba bangata ho tlatsa mekhahlelo, empa na ho ka rarolla bothata bo ka tlase?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey there, re qala ho hlahloba lintho tse ncha le ho batla ho kopana le ngoanana ea monate, ea nang le curiosity le ea bulehileng hore a re etse leeto lena 🤭 haeba u batla ho ba le monate le ho tseba bohle hantle, re romelle molaetsa 🫠

Ho leka ntho e ncha

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Ke ipotsa hore na ke ka 'na ke le poly kapa che. Empa ke ne ke batla ho tseba, ho joang? Na ho ka etsahala hore ke ka 'na ka fumana batho ba 2? Na le thabile haholo? Ke na le thahasello e kholo ka sehlooho sena

Nka fa maikutlo plz

New to Boo

Ncha ho Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Ke ntse ke bona mokhoa o sitisang oa makhotla a ikhethang a batlang motho oa borai, 'me sena se bohloko.
Ha ho motho ea lokelang ho batla motho ea ka lahloang ho eketsa monate ho kopano ea bona, ha se polyamory.
Ka tsela e tšoanang, ho lekanyetsa likhetho tsa balekane ba hao ha u na meeli uena ha se poly, ke ho sitwa le taolo feela.

Re hloka ho bitsa batho bana ba kotsi ba ipitsang poly, hobane ke setšoantšo se fetisetsoang ho ba bang, 'me ke hobane ha ho na kutloisiso e ngata ea compersion le thabo ea ho rata motho ka ho lekana ho mo lokolla.

Bahlabani le OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Ke kamehla ke ne ke le monogamous. Ha ke sohle, ha ke sohle ka lehlakoreng le leng. Hona joale, ke fihlile qetellong ea kamano ea ka ea ho qetela le ngwaga ea ho ba le lekunutu, ke ile ka etsa qeto ea ho qala ho kenya maoto a ka ka har'a metsi.

Hona joale ke bona mosali e mong ea poly khafetsa 'me lintho li ntse li tsamaea hantle, ke thabela boemo ba hae le tokoloho eo e mphang eona. Ho na le meketjana e meng e amanang le e 'ngoe kapele, le le ex ho tloha lilemong tse 20 tse fetileng a ntse a buisana le nna.

Ke sitwa ho ikgapa kapa ho ikgapa. (Le fa ke nahana hore ke na le fatše e ntle) Empa ke hobane'ng ha ka tšohanyetso, ke fumana tlhokomelo ena eohle? Na ho ntse ho le joalo ho tloha ha ke qala ho ratana hore lintho li fetohe?

E ka ba le kamano le ho sebetsa ka nna ka sebele. E ka ba le boikemisetso ba ka bocha. Empa ke ipotsa hore na batho ba bang ba ka nahana eng ka eona.

Joale, na sena se tloaelehile?

We out here 😉

Re le mona 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Fokotsa feela. 
Ke mocha bophelong ba poly. Ke ntse ke le monogamous bophelo ba ka bohle. Kahoo ke ne ke tseba hore ho nyelisoa ho ka ba bothata empa ho fihlela joale ha ho joalo. Le fa ho ntse ho ntse ho na le motho ea ileng a mpolella ka molato o ka bang teng oo ke ka 'nang ka utloa. Joaloka ke etsa ntho e mpe haholo le fa ke thabile haholo. Ke ile ka bolelloa hore ke qale ho ngola ka maikutlo a ka a molato ho leka ho fumana se amanang le ona le mohlomong ho fetola mohopolo oa ka ke nahana haha.

Ha e le molato o matla ho feta ho nyelisoa.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Ke sa tsoa qala ho poly, monna oa ka o ntse a le mocha! Li-poly peeps tsohle li hokae?! Re ATL!!

Kwhere li-poly couples li teng?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Hoo, ke sitwa ho ba le khoeli e le 'ngoe ka app ena empa ke bone batho ba bangata ba poly mona. Ha ke na ho nyatsa empa ke maketse haholo ka hore le bulehile hakaalo.

Poly ka ho eketseha?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Hobaneng ha banna ba bangata ba poly ba lumella feela basali ba bang ka kamanong? Na lerato la poly ha le etsetsoa mefuta eohle?

Potso bakeng sa banna ba poly haholo empa basali ba amohelehile ho kenya letsoho.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Mokhahleli oa ka e moholo o ntse a le lekeneng ka lilemo tse ka bang ngwaga. Motswalle oa hae o mo boleletse kajeno hore o hloka mosali e mong kapa o tla sitwa, empa o sitwa hore a bone motho e mong. O hlalositse hore sena se tloaelehile ho li-Poly kapa li-ENM. Na ho na le motho ea ka thusang ho utloisisa? Hobane ho na le ntho ka metsi e sa omang mona ho latela maikutlo a ka.

Potsang e potlakileng.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Moea le mosali oa ka re ntse re batla overa hohle ho fumana mosali e mong ea ka bapalang le rona😉 kapa ea kenang le kabo. O thabile haholo ka mohopolo, kaha o bi 'me o rata basali haholo. Re se re ntse re le mecheng e mengata ho kenyelletsa fetlife, empa ha re so fumane katleho. Haeba ho na le basali ba thahasellang, ikutloe u re etsetse🖤

ho fumana 3rd ho NC ho sitwa

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

(Mme ke batho ba makae ba neng ba le ho eona??)

Ke eng e kholo ka ho fetisisa polycule eo u kileng ua ba karolo ho eona?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

mofumahali oa ka le nna re batla ngwananyana ea ho kopanela le rona, haeba u thahasella amos: txrichann

ho batla ngwananyana ea borai

A Boo community for meeting other Poly enthusiasts.

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Ho batla 3rd

Poly, e nested le ho batla likamano tse nang le moelelo

Poly e ncha

Hiiii na ho na le batho ba poly?

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