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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Naha hésé pisan pikeun mendakan jalma poly séjén di daérah kuring?

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Kuring aya dina hubungan jarak jauh sareng milarian gadis anu langkung caket ka kuring pikeun ngumpul sareng pacaran.

Mencari 3rd

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey sadayana,  

Abdi milarian pikeun patepang sareng jalma-jalma anu sarua pikiran di daérah abdi anu bakal kabetot dina kencan kalayan niat pikeun hal anu teras-terasan sareng bermakna.

Poly, nested sareng milarian sambungan anu bermakna

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Anyar dina Poli nyobian ieu hal, ieu sateuacan waktos kahiji. Akhir-akhir ieu, jomblo kusabab pamajikan anu parantos maot, kuring resep patepang sareng jalma anyar anu gaduh minat anu sami.

Poli Anyar

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii aya jalma poly di dieu?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Halo halo! Istri kuring sareng abdi poly sareng abdi kabuka pikeun hubungan anu sanés sareng abdi milarian pacar. Abdi milih karakter, sanés penampilan. Upami anjeun resep, kirimkeun pesen ka abdi, upami henteu, daaaah!!

Ningali

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Salaki sareng abdi nuju milarian hubungan serius sareng awéwé. Anu kersa, kirim pesen ka abdi.

Halo

Looking for a female to join us

Mencari awéwé pikeun ngagabung sareng kami

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Biasana kuring téh lalaki anu ngan hiji awéwé atawa lalaki. Tapi kuring teu bisa milih antara dua, jadi kuring hoyong nyobian poligami. Kuring langkung resep poligami dua lalaki, tapi naon waé ogé henteu masalah, ngan hayang maranéhna aya dina umur 20-an tengah nepi ka 30. Mangga aya di AS ogé komentarkeun lamun aya anu minat ☺️

Mencari hubungan poligami

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Pikiran aktif pikeun mikanyaah sareng ngadukung pasangan anjeun dina milarian kasenangan ngalakukeun hal-hal (atanapi jalma) anu aranjeunna cinta (atanapi resep). Sering kali ditentang ku kabutuhan pikeun ngontrol atanapi gaduh, rasa teu aman ngeunaan aksés, atanapi rasa sieun kaleungitan. Kuring nganggap konsép agape anu henteu nempel sareng kumaha éta tiasa nyiptakeun dasar anu kuat pikeun compersion. Sababaraha jalma ngumpulkeun langkung seueur pasangan pikeun ngeusian kekosongan, tapi naha éta tiasa cukup pikeun ngatasi masalah anu aya di handap?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey there, ngamimitian ngajajah hal anyar jeung milarian pikeun nyambung jeung budak awéwé anu senang, panasaran, jeung pikiran terbuka pikeun ngagabung sareng kami dina perjalanan ieu 🤭 upami anjeun daék pikeun sababaraha kesenangan sareng kenal langkung saé, hubungi kami 🫠

Ngarah hal anyar

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Abdi nanya-nanya naha abdi sorangan tiasa poly atanapi henteu. Tapi abdi hoyong terang, kumaha rasana? Naha mungkin abdi tiasa mendakan diri abdi sareng 2 jalma? Naha anjeun sadayana langkung bahagia? Abdi bener-bener panasaran ngeunaan topik ieu

Miharep abdi pencerahan

New to Boo

Kumaha anjeun resep aplikasi ieu dugi ka ayeuna?

Anyar di Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Kuring parantos ningali tren anu ngaganggu pasangan anu khususna milarian pihak katilu anu ngajelaskeun diri maranéhna salaku poliamori, sareng ieu nyedihkeun.
Henteu aya anu kedah milarian jalma anu tiasa dibuang pikeun nambahkeun rasa kana kemitraan maranéhna, éta sanés poliamori.
Sama ogé, ngawatesan pilihan pasangan anjeun nalika anjeun ngagaduhan kabebasan sorangan sanés poliamori, éta ngan saukur teu aman sareng kontrol.

Urang kedah nyebutkeun ieu pihak toksik anu nyebut diri maranéhna poliamori, sabab éta mangrupikeun gambaran anu diteruskeun ka batur, sareng kunaon aya seueur salah paham ngeunaan compersion sareng kabagjaan cinta ka batur cukup pikeun ngabebaskeun aranjeunna.

Pemburu sareng OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Kuring salawasna monogami. Teu kungsi ngaduga, teu kungsi ningali ka arah séjén. Gancang ka ahir hubungan terakhir kuring sareng sataun janten jomblo, kuring mutuskeun pikeun ngamimitian nyelapkeun suku kuring deui ka kolam.

Ayeuna kuring ningali hiji gadis poligami sacara teratur sareng sagalana lumangsung saé, kuring bener-bener teu masalah sareng kaayaanana sareng kabebasan anu ditawarkeun ka kuring. Lain tanggal anu direncanakeun sareng anu sanésna enggal, sareng bahkan mantan ti 20 taun ka pengker ngobrol sareng kuring.

Kuring henteu ngagede-gedean atanapi nyombong. (Sanajan kuring nganggap diri kuring cukup untung) Tapi kunaon sakedap, kuring meunang sagala perhatian ieu? Naha parantos lami pisan ti saprak kuring ngadate yén sagalana parantos robih?

Ieu tiasa aya hubunganana sareng usaha pikeun ngaronjatkeun diri kuring pasti. Ieu tiasa janten kapercayaan anyar kuring. Tapi kuring panasaran naon anu dipikiran ku batur ngeunaan ieu.

Jadi, naha ieu normal?

We out here 😉

Urang di dieu 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Ngan saeutik curhat. 
Abdi anyar dina kahirupan poligami. Abdi parantos monogami salami hirup abdi. Janten abdi terang cemburu tiasa janten perjuangan tapi dugi ka ayeuna henteu. Nanging teu aya anu ngingetkeun abdi ngeunaan potensi rasa salah anu tiasa abdi rasakeun. Sapertos abdi ngalakukeun hal anu pisan salah sanajan abdi pisan bagja. Abdi disarankan pikeun ngamimitian nyerat jurnal ngeunaan rasa salah abdi pikeun nyobian mendakan naon anu nyababkeunana sareng meureun ngarobih otak abdi, sigana haha.

Nalika rasa salah langkung kuat tibatan cemburu.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Abdi henteu anyar dina poly, pasangan abdi anu anyar! Di mana sadaya rerencangan poly abdi di?! Urang di ATL!!

Di mana pasangan poly di?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Duh, kuring teu acan aya dina aplikasi ieu salami sabulan, tapi kuring geus ningali loba pisan, sareng maksud kuring LOBANA jalma poly di dieu. Teu ngashame pisan, tapi langkung kaget kumaha terbuka anjeun sadayana.

Poly dina naék?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Naha seueur lalaki poliamor ngan ngidinan awéwé séjén dina hubungan? Naha cinta poliamor pikeun sadaya jinis?

Patanyaan pikeun lalaki poliamor utama tapi awéwé ogé dipersilakan pikeun masukan.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Sahabat pangalusna kuring geus aya dina hubungan salami kira-kira sataun. Kabogohna nyarios ka anjeunna ayeuna yén anjeunna peryogi kabogoh anu sanés atanapi anjeunna bakal bosen, anjeunna henteu hoyong anjeunna ningali batur sanes. Anjeunna ngajelaskeun yén ieu mangrupikeun hal anu biasa pikeun hubungan Poly atanapi ENM. Naha aya anu tiasa ngabantosan kuring ngartos? Sabab aya anu teu bener di dieu dina pendapat kuring.

Ngan hiji patarosan gancang.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Abdi sareng pamajikan parantos milarian di mana waé pikeun awéwé sanés pikeun maén bareng😉 atanapi nambihan kana hubungan. Anjeunna pisan gumbira ku ideu éta, sabab anjeunna bi sareng bener-bener resep ka awéwé. Kami parantos aya dina seueur aplikasi kalebet fetlife, sareng henteu acan ngagaduhan kabagjaan. Upami aya awéwé anu kabetot, mangga ngahubungi kami🖤

mendakan pihak katilu di NC téh mustahil

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

(Sareng sabaraha jalma anu aya di jerona??)

Naon polycule pangbadagna anu anjeun janten bagianana?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

aku jeung pacarku milari hiji awéwé pikeun nyambung, lamun anjeun kabetot amos: txrichann

milari 3rd

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Poly, nested sareng milarian sambungan anu bermakna

Poli Anyar

Hiiii aya jalma poly di dieu?

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