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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Kwa nini ni vigumu sana kupata watu wengine wa poly katika eneo langu?

Poly ya North Carolina

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Niko katika uhusiano wa mbali na natafuta msichana aliye karibu nami ili tuweze kutembea pamoja na kuchumbiana.

Natafuta 3rd

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey everyone,  

Natafuta kukutana na watu wenye mawazo sawa katika eneo langu ambao wangependa kuchumbiana kwa nia ya kitu endelevu na cha maana.

Poly, nested na kutafuta uhusiano wa maana

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Mpya katika Poly nikijaribu hii kitu, ni kabla ya mara ya kwanza. Hivi karibuni, nipo single kwa sababu ya mke aliyekufa, nina hamu ya kukutana na watu wapya wenye maslahi sawa

Poly mpya

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii je, kuna watu wa poly hapa?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Mambo vipi! Mke wangu na mimi ni wa poly na nipo wazi kwa uhusiano mwingine na natafuta msichana wa kimapenzi. Ninatazama tabia si muonekano. Ikiwa unavutiwa nitumie ujumbe, ikiwa sivyo, kwa heri!!

Kutafuta

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Mume wangu na mimi tunatafuta uhusiano wa kweli na mwanamke. Ikiwa unavutiwa nitumie ujumbe.

Habari

Looking for a female to join us

Tukitafuta mwanamke kujiunga nasi

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Kawaida mimi ni mtu wa aina moja ya mwanaume au mwanamke. Lakini siwezi kuchagua kati ya 2 hivyo nataka kujaribu poly. Ningependa poly ya wanaume 2 lakini chochote kiko sawa tu nataka wawe katika umri wa katikati ya 20s na hadi 30. Tafadhali kuwa nchini Marekani pia toa maoni ikiwa mtu anavutiwa ☺️

Natafuta uhusiano wa poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Mwenendo wa kiakili wa kupenda na kuunga mkono mwenzi wako katika kupata kuridhika wakifanya mambo (au watu) wanayopenda (au kuyapenda). Mara nyingi hupingwa na hitaji la kudhibiti au kumiliki, kutokuwa na uhakika juu ya upatikanaji, au hofu ya kupoteza. Nadhani kuhusu dhana ya agape isiyo na kiunganishi na jinsi inavyoweza kuunda msingi imara wa compersion. Watu wengine hukusanya washirika wengi ili kujaza mapengo, lakini je, hiyo inaweza kutatua tatizo la msingi?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey there, inaanza kuchunguza mambo mapya na kutafuta kuungana na msichana mchangamfu, mwenye hamu na fikra pana ili kujiunga nasi katika safari hii 🤭 ikiwa uko tayari kwa furaha na kujifunza zaidi kuhusu kila mmoja, tuandikie 🫠

Kujaribu kitu kipya

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Ninajiuliza kama mimi mwenyewe naweza kuwa poly au la. Lakini nilitaka kujua, inakuwaje? Inawezekana nikajikuta na watu 2? Je, ninyi mna furaha zaidi? Niko na hamu sana kuhusu mada hii

Nipe ufahamu tafadhali

New to Boo

Mpya kwa Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Nimekuwa nikiona mwenendo wa kusikitisha wa wanandoa hasa wakitafuta mtu wa tatu wanaojiita poly, na hii inasikitisha.
Hakuna mtu anapaswa kutafuta mtu wa kutupilia mbali ili kuongeza ladha katika ushirikiano wao, hiyo siyo polyamory.
Vivyo hivyo, kupunguza chaguo za washirika wako huku ukiwa na uhuru wa kufanya unavyotaka siyo poly, hiyo ni kutokuwa na usalama na udhibiti.

Tunahitaji kuwaita hawa watu wenye sumu wanaojiita poly, kwa sababu hiyo ndiyo picha inayopitishwa kwa wengine, na ndiyo sababu kuna kutoelewana sana kuhusu compersion na furaha ya kumpenda mtu vya kutosha kumwachilia.

Wawindaji na OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Nimekuwa na uhusiano wa kipekee kila wakati. Sijawahi kudanganya, sijawahi kuangalia upande mwingine. Nikiwa naendelea na mwisho wa uhusiano wangu wa mwisho na mwaka mmoja wa kuwa single, niliamua kuanza kujaribu tena.

Sasa nina msichana mmoja wa poly ambaye tunakutana mara kwa mara na mambo yanaenda vizuri, nipo sawa na hali yake na uhuru inayonipa. Kuna tarehe nyingine zilizopangwa na mwingine hivi karibuni, na hata mpenzi wa zamani kutoka miaka 20 iliyopita ananipigia gumzo.

Sijijigamba au kujisifu. (Ingawa najiona kuwa na bahati sana) Lakini ni vipi ghafla, napata umakini huu wote? Je, imepita muda mrefu tangu nilipokuwa na uhusiano kwamba mambo yamebadilika?

Inaweza kuwa na uhusiano na kujitafakari, bila shaka. Inaweza kuwa na uhusiano na kujiamini kwangu mpya. Lakini ninajiuliza wengine wanaweza kufikiria nini kuhusu hilo.

Basi, je, hii ni ya kawaida?

We out here 😉

Tuko hapa 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Tu vent kidogo. 
Mimi ni mpya katika maisha ya poly. Nimekuwa na uhusiano wa kipekee maisha yangu yote. Hivyo nilijua wivu unaweza kuwa changamoto lakini hadi sasa sio. Hata hivyo hakuna aliyenionya kuhusu hatia ambayo naweza kuhisi. Kama nafanya kitu kibaya sana ingawa nina furaha sana. Niliambiwa nianze kuandika kuhusu hisia zangu za hatia ili kujaribu kupata kinachosababisha na labda kubadilisha ubongo wangu nadhani haha.

Wakati hatia ni nguvu zaidi kuliko wivu.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Sijaanza tu na poly, mpenzi wangu ndiye! Wapi watu wangu wa poly?! Tuko ATL!!

Wapi wanandoa wa poly?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Damn sijakuwa kwenye hii app mwezi mzima bado lakini nimeona wengi na namaanisha WENGI wa watu wa poly hapa. Siwaibishi hata kidogo bali nashangazwa zaidi na jinsi mlivyo wazi.

Poly kwenye kuongezeka?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Kwa nini wanaume wengi wa poly wanaruhusu wanawake wengine tu katika uhusiano? Je, si upendo wa poly kwa jinsia zote?

Swali kwa wanaume wengi wa poly lakini wanawake wanakaribishwa kutoa maoni.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Rafiki yangu bora zaidi amekuwa katika uhusiano kwa takriban mwaka mmoja. Mpenzi wake alimwambia leo kwamba anahitaji msichana mwingine au atachoka, hataki aone mtu mwingine ingawa. Alieleza kwamba hii ni ya kawaida kwa uhusiano wa Poly au ENM. Je, kuna mtu anaweza kunisaidia kuelewa? Kwa sababu kuna kitu katika maji ambacho si cha mvua hapa kwa maoni yangu.

Swali tu la haraka.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Mimi na mke wangu tumekuwa tukitafuta kila mahali kwa ajili ya mwanamke mwingine ili kucheza naye😉 au kuongeza kwenye uhusiano. Yeye ana furaha sana na wazo hilo, kwani yeye ni bi na anawapenda wanawake sana. Tumekuwa kwenye programu nyingi ikiwa ni pamoja na fetlife, na hatujapata bahati yoyote. Ikiwa kuna wanawake wowote wanaovutiwa, tafadhali wasiliana nasi🖤

kupata mtu wa tatu NC ni ngumu

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

Ni polycule kubwa kiasi gani umekuwa sehemu yake?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

mimi na bf wangu tunatafuta msichana wa kuungana naye, kama unavutiwa amos: txrichann

kutafuta msichana wa tatu

Jumuiya ya Boo ya kukutana na wapenda Poly wengine.

Jumuiya ya Poly

Poly ya North Carolina

Natafuta 3rd

Poly, nested na kutafuta uhusiano wa maana

Poly mpya

Hiiii je, kuna watu wa poly hapa?

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Ni wakati wa kutupa kitu porini: Unafikiri watu wanakosea nini kuhusu kuwa poly, hasa ikiwa tu wamegundua kipengele hicho kuhusu wao wenyewe?

Tarehe ya poly?

Ushirikiano❤️ dhidi ya upweke wa kutengwa

Sipendi mpenzi wangu wa zamani...

Je, ulidanganya na kujirekebisha?

Natafuta msichana wa kweli, mimi ni poly