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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Meniň etrabymda beýleki polý adamlaryny tapmak näme üçin şeýle kyn?

Şimali Karolina polý

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Men uzak aralyk gatnaşyklaryndadyryn we meniň bilen wagt geçirmek we duşuşmak üçin ýakyn bir gyzy gözleýärin.

3-nji gözleýärin

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Men polik dostlary bolmagyny isleýärin.

Hiiii, polik adamlara degişli barmy?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Salam hemmäňiz,  

Men öz ýerimden, dowamly we manly bir zat üçin duşuşmaga isleg bildirýän pikirdaş adamlary tapmak isleýärin.

Poli, iç içe we manly baglanyşlary gözleýär

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Täze poly, bu zady synap görýärin, bu ilkinji gezek. Soňky wagtlar, aýalym geçip gideninden soň, ýeke, men meňzeş gyzyklanmalara eýe täze adamlaryň bilen tanyşmaga gyzyklanýaryn.

Täze poly

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Solo/poly

In the growing world of poly what’s the mistake you made but glad you learned that lesson…. Please be open minded AB’s don’t be shy no judge here

Hot take

Poly dünýäsi giňelip barýarka, näme ýalňyşlyk etdiniz, ýöne şol sapagy öwrenendigiňiz üçin bagyşlaň... Haýsy bolsa-da, açyk pikirli boluň, AB-lar, utanjak bolmaň, bu ýerde hiç kim hökmany däl

Gyzyl pikir

Post a pic Atlanta addition if you not scared

Atlanta maybe

Eger gorkmaýan bolsaň, Atlanta goşmaça surat goý.

Atlanta belki

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Salam salam! Meniň aýalym we men poliamory we men başga bir gatnaşyga açyk, men bolsa bir gyzy gözleýärin. Men şahsyýetiňe üns berýärin, görnüşe däl. Eger gyzyklanýan bolsaň, maňa ýaz, eger ýok bolsa, hoş!

Gözleýärin

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Eýäm we men bir aýal bilen ciddi gatnaşyklary gözleýäris. Gyzyklanýan bolsa, maňa habar beriň.

Salam

Looking for a female to join us

Biziň bilen goşulmak üçin aýal gözleýäris

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Adatça men bir erkek ýa-da aýal görnüşindäki adam. Emma 2-si arasynda saýlap bilemok, şonuň üçin poli gatnaşyga synanyşmak isleýärin. Men 2 erkekli poli saýlamagy isleýärin, ýöne her hili gowy, diňe 20 ýaşynyň ortalaryndan 30-a çenli ýaşda bolmalydylar. Amerikanyň Birleşen Ştatlarynda boluň, eger kimdir biri gyzyklanýan bolsa, kommentariýa ýazmagyňyzy haýyş edýärin ☺️

Poli gatnaşygy gözleýärin

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Siziň hyzmatdaşlaryňyzy (ýa-da hyzmatdaşlaryňyzy) söýmek we goldamak üçin işjeň pikirleniş, olaryň söýýän (ýa-da halaýan) zatlary (ýa-da adamlary) bilen baglanyşykda kanagatlanmak tapmak. Köplenç gözegçilik etmek ýa-da eýeçilik etme islegine, elýeterlilik bilen baglanyşykly howpsuzsuzlyga ýa-da ýitgi gorkusyna garşy gelinýär. Men bagyşlamanyň hiç hili baglanyşyksyz görnüşini we onuň compersion üçin güýçli bir binýad döretmek mümkinçiligini göz öňünde tutýaryn. Käbir adamlar boşluklary doldurmak üçin has köp hyzmatdaş ýygnap biler, ýöne bu esasy meseläni ýeterlik derejede çözüp biler mi?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Salam, täze zady öwrenmäge başladyk we bu ýol bilen bize goşulmak üçin gyzykly, açyk pikirli we şadyýan bir gyz bilen baglanyşmak isleýärin 🤭 eger-de siz hem şadyýanlyk we bir-birimizi has gowy tanamak üçin taýyn bolsaňyz, bize ýüz tutuň 🫠

Täze bir zady synap görmek

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Men özümniň polik bolup biljekdigimden sorag edýärin. Emma men bilmek isleýärin, bu näme ýaly? Iki adam bilen özümü tapmak mümkinmi? Sizler has bagtyýar mysyn? Men bu tema barada gaty gyzyklanýaryn

Meniň pikirimi beriň, haýyş edýärin

New to Boo

Bu programma size şu wagta çenli nädip göründi?

Boo'ya täze

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Men özümde poly diýip häsiýetlendiren üçünji birini ýörite gözleýän jübütleriň gorkunç bir tendensiýasyny görýärin, bu bolsa üzüntü berýär. 
Hiç kim öz hyzmatdaşlygyna spice goşmak üçin bir zyňylýan adamy gözlemeli däl, bu polyamory däl. 
Şeýle hem, özüňe erkinlik berip, hyzmatdaşlaryňyzyň saýlawlaryny çäklendirmek poly däl, bu diňe bir howpsuzsuzlyk we gözegçilikdir.

Biz bu toksik adamlary poly diýip atlandyrýanlary aýtmalydyrys, sebäbi bu beýany başgalara geçýär we bu sebäpli compersion we birini ýeterlik söýmek arkaly azat etmegiň lezzeti barada köp düşünmezlik bar.

Huntingçiler we OPP-lar

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Men her zaman monogam bolup geldim. Hiç hili aldaw etmedim, hiç hili başga tarapa göz aýlamadym. Soňky gatnaşyklarymyň ahyryna we bir ýyl ýeke bolanymdan soň, men ýuwaş-ýuwaşdan suwa aýak basmagy başladym.

Indi bir poligam gyzy bilen yzygiderli duşuşýaryn we işler gowy gidýär, onuň ýagdaýy we maňa berýän azatlygy bilen doly razy. Başga bir gyz bilen hem ýakyn wagtda duşuşyklar meýilleşdirilýär, hatda 20 ýyl ozal bir öňki bilen hem gürrüňleşýärin.

Men özümden öwgüli ýa-da öwgüli däl. (Şeýle-de bolsa, özümüň şansly bolýandygymy pikir edýärin) Emma näme üçin birden-bir bu ünsü alýaryn? Meniň duşuşyk etmeýän wagtymda zatlar üýtgedimi?

Bu, elbetde, özüm bilen işleşmek bilen baglanyşykly bolup biler. Bu, täze tapylan özüme ynam bilen baglanyşykly bolup biler. Emma başga adamlaryň muny nähili kabul etjekdigini pikir edýärin.

Şeýle bolsa, bu adatymy?

We out here 😉

Biz şu ýerde 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Diňe bir az ýürek agyry. 
Men polik ýaşaýyşda täze. Men bütin ömrüm monogam bolup geçdim. Şonuň üçin, gürrüňdeşligiň kynçylyk boljakdygyny bilýärdim, ýöne şu wagta çenli beýle däl. Emma hiç kim maňa duýgularym bilen baglanyşykly mümkin bolan günäni duýmak barada duýdurmady. Şeýle bir zadyň edil ýalňyşlyk edýändigim ýaly, ýöne men şeýle bagtly. Meniň günäli duýgularym barada ýazmaga başlamagymy maslahat berdiler, sebäbi olaryň näme sebäpli ýüze çykýandygyny tapmaga we belki beýnimde üýtgeşiklik etmäge synanyşyp görmeli, diýýärin haha.

Gürrüňdeşlikden has güýçli günä.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Men poli bilen täze däl, ýoldaşym bolsa! Poli dostlarym nirede?! Biz ATL-de!

Poli jübütler nirede?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Aý, men bu programmada heniz bir aý bolmadyk, ýöne men bu ýerde köp we meniň diýmekçi bolýan köp polýak adamlary görýärin. Hiç hili utanç ýok, ýöne sizleriň näderejede açykdygyňyza geň galýaryn.

Poly ýokarlanýandyr?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Näme üçin köp polim erkekler diňe beýleki aýallara gatnaşygyň içinde rugsat berýär? Polýo söýgi ähli jynslara degişli dälmi?

Esasy polim erkekler üçin sorag, ýöne aýallar hem goşulyşmaga hoş geldiňiz.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Meniň iň gowy dostum bir ýyl töweregi gatnaşygynda. Onuň ýigidi bugün oňa başga bir gyzy gerekdigini aýtdy, ýöne ol onuň başga birini görmegini islemeýär. Ol bu ýagdaýyň Polýak ýa-da ENM gatnaşyklara degişli däldigini düşündirdi. Kimdir biri maňa düşündirmäge kömek edip biler mi? Çünki meniň pikirimçe, bu ýerde bir zat ýuwşak däl.

Diňe bir çalt sorag.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Men we aýalym başga bir aýal bilen oýnamak üçin ýa-da gatnaşyklarymyza goşmak üçin mümkin bolan ähli ýerleri gözleýäris😉. Ol bu pikiriň üstünde gaty begenýär, sebäbi ol bi we aýallary gaty söýýär. Biz fetlife ýaly köp aplikasiyalarda bolduk, ýöne hiç hili şansymyz bolmady. Eger-de gyzlar gyzyklanýan bolsa, bize ýüz tutup bilersiňiz🖤

Poly Community

Şimali Karolina polý

3-nji gözleýärin

Hiiii, polik adamlara degişli barmy?

Poli, iç içe we manly baglanyşlary gözleýär

Täze poly

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When they...

Poly gözeldir

Hakyky gyzy gözleýärin, men poliamory.

Siz aldatdyňyzmy we özüňizi gaýtadan döretdiňizmi?

37 F Newcastle

Arkansasda poly