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Here is a picture from above northern Lapland region yesterday, it was a midsummer day in Finland.

Quiet here

Bu, dünýädäki demirgazyk Lapland sebitinden aşygyndan bir surat, Finlýandiýada orta ýaz güni boldy.

Ýyldyzlar

Poly is beautiful

Poly gözeldir

Looking to meet someone in arkansas. I love gaming anime marvel. I talk about games and marvel all day long

Poly in arkansas

Arkansasda birisi bilen tanyşmak isleýärin. Men oýunlary, anime we marveli gowy görýärin. Men ähli gün oýunlar we marvel barada gürleşýärin.

Arkansasda poly

Me being me

Men özüm bolmak

Anyone having an idea of Polycule

Polycule barada pikirleri bolan barmy

help im dieing of bored  fallow and like my post if you want to talk

when you wanna talk about anything in the world and no one responds

kömek ediň, men ýadadym, eger gürrüňdeşleşmek isleseňiz, maňa eýerip, postumy beğeniň

dünyadaky islegleriňiz barada gürrüň bermek isleseňiz we hiç kim jogap bermese

What do you do when someone tries to match with you but they have monogamous in their profile (Especially when you have polyamorous in yours, and it's in your non-negotiable)?

What do you do when...

Näme edersiň, eger birisi siziň bilen utgaşmaga synanyşsa, ýöne olaryň profili monogamiki bolsa (Hususan-da, siziň profiliňizde poliamoriki bar bolsa we bu siziň üýtgewsiz şertleriňizden bolsa)?

Näme edersiň, eger...

A cute guy who's family oriented, sweet, kinky, nerdy, poly pansexual and someone who's politically left wing- and most importantly- LOCAL? At least within 100 miles??

Does he exist?

Aýdymly, maşgalany gowy görýän, süýji, garry, bilimli, polýe panseksual we syýasy taýdan çep tarapda bolan bir ýigit- we iň möhümi- ÝERLI? Eýsem, iň az 100 mil içinde??

Ol barmy?

kirichaos I need people to talk to at least

add me

kirichaos Meniň bilen gürleşjek adamlara zerur.

maňa goş

I'm just wondering how same sex marriage was legalized before Polygamous marriage 🤔 

The only reason my wife and I can't pursue our dream of filling a planet with our offspring is because it's illegal. 

Why?

How that first but not this?

Men diňe bir zadyň näme üçin şeýle bolandygyny pikir edýärin: näme üçin birinji gezek birinji gezek öýlenmek kanunlaşdy, ýöne köp aýal almak kanunlaşmady 🤔 

Men we aýalymyň arzuwymyzy, planetany çagalarymyz bilen doldurmak isleýändigimizi amala aşyrmak üçin diňe bir sebäbi sebäpli mümkin däl, sebäbi bu kanunsyz. 

Näme üçin?

Ilki bu, ýöne şu dälmi?

Salam

With no shame to anybody, it feels very odd being poly but also not being, say, very active in kink or in some kind of political extremism. I feel like the odd duckling. I don't need those kinds of things in my life necessarily, but also I just like people too much to be mono.

Does this resonate with anybody? Again, not knocking anybody's interests.

Poly but fairly tame in Seattle

Hemmäniň öňünde utanç duýmazdan, poly bolmak we şol bir wagtyň özünde, mysal üçin, kinkde ýa-da käbir syýasy ekstremizmde gaty işjeň bolmazlyk gaty garşysyna gelýär. Men özümüň garşysyna gelen ördek ýaly duýýaryn. Meniň durmuşymda şol görnüş zatlara zerurlyk ýok, ýöne men diňe adamlary gaty gowy görýärin, şonuň üçin mono bolmak islemeýärin.

Bu kimdir birine degýärmi? Yzyna, hiç kimiň gyzyklanmalaryna garşy çykmaýaryn.

Poly, ýöne Seattleda gaty ýumşak

Do you think you could stay friends with someone you care about when they broke up with you, but they are leaving the ball in your court weather you want to be friends?

Need some perspective

Siziň üçin möhüm bolan biri bilen dost bolup galyp bilersiňizmi, olar siziň bilen aýrylandan soň, ýöne olar dost bolmak isleýändigiňizi saýlamak üçin topy siziň meýdanyňyza goýýarlar?

Biraz perspektiv gerek

Whoever is seeking for an additional partner in an existing poly relationship in Puerto Rico AREA OESTE let me know. 

Hard age limit 35

I can't tolerate regueton 🤮

Open For Healthy Poly

Eger-de Puerto Riko Ýöre OESTE-de bar bolan polýa gatnaşyklarynda goşmaça hyzmatdaş gözleýän bolsaňyz, maňa habar beriň.

Gaty ýaş çägi 35

Regueton bilen tolerir etmeýärin 🤮

Saglykly Polýa Açyk

How many partners do you have?

Siziň näçe hyzmatdaşyňyz bar?

Luna is

Luna şu

I’m just wondering if there’s anyone around Red Deer and Innisfail area

Looking for people near me

Men diňe Red Deer we Innisfail sebitinde biriniň bardygyny pikir edýärin

Meniň etrabymdaky adamlary gözleýärin

Feel frew to add you thoughts, and also check our profile and message us if it peaks your interest :3

Pros and cons of polyamorous relationships?

Oýlaryňyzy goşmaga erkin boluň, şeýle hem profiliňizi gözden geçiriň we eger bu sizi gyzyklandyrsa, bize habarlaşyň :3

Poliamor gatnaşyklarynyň artykmaçlyklary we kemçilikleri?

So my partner and I have had a few failed attempts at dating over the last year, both together and separate...we prefer kitchen table becauseits what works best for us but is not a requirement..but they have shown me what I need out of another partner. And I would like honest opinion on what I have on my profile and I will explain the reasonings I have them, ive been told they are unrealistic.

Rules I have for dating new partners
* They must have a stable living situation (bonus points if you can host overnights)
* Must have their own consistent means of transportation 
* Have a stable job of some sort
* (If relevant) have a stable childcare situation 
* (If relevant) the child should be a mostly separate part as I do not want to be in a parental role until the relationship is stable.

My nesting partner has a very low social battery and we dont have space for everyone to be in separate areas.
I was stuck doing all the driving, picking them up and bringing them home, I dont mind once in a while, but it takes its toll.
I cannot sustain paying all my bills and the monetary demands of another, I can help now and then, but until we live together, your bills are yours and mine are mine.
Quite simple, when we go out, my nesting partner and parents are not free daycare.
And finally, I love kids, but I dont want to grow attached to them or them attached to me while we are still figuring how things work and if we are going to work.

Thoughts and comments?

A question for the masses

Şeýlelik bilen, meniň hyzmatdaşym we men geçen ýyl birnäçe başarısyz duşuşyk synanyşyklary geçirdik, ikimiz hem bilelikde we aýratyn... biz aşhana stoluň eteginde oturmagy halaýarys, sebäbi bu bize iň gowy işleýär, ýöne bu talap däl... ýöne olar maňa başga bir hyzmatdaşdan näme gerekdigini görkezdi. Men profiliňde bar bolan zatlar barada dogry pikir almak isleýärin we olaryň sebäplerini düşündirerin, olary real däl diýdiler.

Täze hyzmatdaşlar bilen duşuşmak üçin düzgünlerim
* Olaryň durnukly ýaşaýyş ýagdaýy bolmaly (gije geçirmäge mümkinçilik berse, goşmaça bal)
* Özleriniň yzygiderli ulag serişdeleri bolmaly
* Herhangi bir görnüşde durnukly iş bolmaly
* (Eger degişli bolsa) durnukly çagalar bilen baglanyşyk bolmaly
* (Eger degişli bolsa) çaga esasan aýry bir bölek bolmaly, sebäbi men gatnaşygyň durnukly bolmagyna çenli ene-atanyň rolunda bolmak islemok.

Meniň öýdeş hyzmatdaşymyň sosial batary gaty pes we hemmäniň aýry ýerlerde bolmagy üçin ýerimiz ýok.
Men ähli sürüjilik işlerini ýerine ýetirmeli boldum, olary alyp gaýdyp, öýlerine getirip, men bir gezek-de bolsa, hiç hili problemam ýok, ýöne bu meni ýadadýar.
Men ähli hasaplarymy we başga biriniň maliýe talaplaryny dolandyrmak mümkinçiligim ýok, men käwagt kömek edip bilerin, ýöne biz bile ýaşamany başlanyňa çenli, seniň hasaplaryň seniň, meniň hasaplarym bolsa meniň.
Gaty ýönekeý, biz çykanda, meniň öýdeş hyzmatdaşym we ene-atam erkin çagalar bakjasy däl.
Ve ahyrsoňy, men çagalary gowy görýärin, ýöne men olara ýa-da olaryň maňa baglanyşmagyny islemok, biz heniz zatlaryň nädip işleýändigini we işläp biljekdigimizi anyklap ýörkäk. 

Pikirler we kommentariýalar?

Jemgyýet üçin bir sorag

We haven't been on here lately because we met a woman a while back. We both like her but aren't sure how to ask if she'd be interested in a poly ship with us.she likes us, possibly liking Jenny more than me (which I'm fine with) and she supports the LGBT+ community, but she isn't great at giving straight answers when we hint at dating her. I don't think she's doing it as a dodge, she does that with any conversation lol

Any tips?

Seeking advice

Biz soňky wagt bu ýerde bolmadyk, sebäbi biz bir aýal bilen tanyşdyk. Biz ikimiz-de ony gowy görýäris, ýöne onuň bilen polikapitanlykda gyzyklanýandygyny nädip soramaly diýmekde ynamly däl. Ol bizi gowy görýär, belki-de Jenny-den has köp gowy görýär (men muny kabul edýärin) we LGBT+ jemgyýetini goldaýar, ýöne biz onuň bilen duşuşmak barada ýakynlaşanda, ol düýpli jogap bermekde gowy däl. Men onuň bu hereketini gaçmak hökmünde etýändigine ynanmaýaryn, ol bu bilen baglanyşykly ähli söhbetdeşliklerde şeýle edýär lol

Haýsy maslahatlar bar?

Maslahat soraýarys

Looking for partners preferably female or non-binary please read my bio 💕😁

Partnyorlary gözleýärin, has gowy aýal ýa-da non-binary, biografimi okasaňyz gowy bolardy 💕😁

I’m interested in a relationship with 2 women who are looking for kind, genuine male partner who can provide love and care to both of you equally

Men iki aýal bilen gatnaşyklaryma gyzyklanýaryn, olar hem özlerine deň derejede söýgi we aladany berip bilýän, ýagşy, hakyky erkek hyzmatdaşyny gözleýärler.

Just want a gf to keep me company my bf works a lot it would be mainly solo dating he’s not around a lot he would only be here occasionally

Looking for a gf/3rd

Meniň bilen bolmak üçin diňe bir gyz dost isleýärin, erkek dostum köp iş edýär, bu esasan ýekeje duşuşyk bolar, ol köp wagt ýok, diňe käwagt gelýär.

Gyz dost gözleýärin/3-nji

Hey! 💗✨

Is it possible to find a spontaneous soul here who would like to join us in spending time, traveling, and having fun together?

Trouple

Salam! 💗✨

Bu ýerde bize wagt geçirmäge, syýahat etmäge we bilelikde gyzykly wagty geçirmäge isleg bildirýän spontann soul tapmak mümkinmi?

On one hand poly has a potential to have a lot of love in one's life, but on the other hand if you have just a secondary partner who lives elsewhere,  its not enough human contact to meet emotional connection needs. Trying to find a primary partner who poly can be increasingly harder. But you don't want to give up on your secondary partner even though they can't give more time together.

Is poly a double edge sword?

Bir tarapdan, poli biriniň durmuşynda köp söýgi bolmak mümkinçiligine eýe, ýöne beýleki tarapdan, eger-de siz başga ýerde ýaşaýan diňe ikinji hyzmatdaşyňyz bar bolsa, bu emosional baglanyşyk zerurlyklaryny kanagatlandyrmak üçin ýeterlik adam aragatnaşygy däl. Poli bolan esasy hyzmatdaş tapmak has çylşyrymly bolup biler. Ýöne siz ikinji hyzmatdaşyňyzdan ýüz öwürmek islemersiňiz, hatda olar bilen bilelikde has köp wagt geçirmäge mümkinçilik bermeýän bolsa-da.

Poli iki ujygyly pyçakmy?

Made a top out of a thrifted scarf , thought I looked super cute.

Felt cute 🤷‍♀️

Ikinji elden satyn alnan şarfdan bir üst ýasadyk, gaty gyzykly göründim diýip pikir etdim.

Güýçli göründim 🤷‍♀️

My fiance and I have recently decided to open our relationship to a third person.  We have been open to it for years, but our match has eluded us.  Now we are actively looking and her family is in an uproar.  She was married to a woman for over 10 years before they divorced, but she has now been with me for over 15 years.  It isn't like being with a man for a long time made her not miss being with a woman.  So instead of her stepping out on me, we just decided to share a girlfriendif we can ever find one that can handle us.  The concept of a thrupple isn't new.  There have been many successful, stable, multiperson relationships.  With love and trust mixed with open honest communication, it doesn't matter if there are 2 or 3.  Maybe even 4 or 5.... As long as everyone is an equal part, why does it matter to anyone else?  We hope we eventually find our missing puzzle piece and we also hope you all find what you are looking for.

What is so hard to understand?

Men we meniň nişanlim, soňky wagtlarda üçünji bir adama öz gatnaşyklarymyzy açmak kararyna geldik. Biz birnäçe ýyldan bäri buna açykdyk, ýöne özümiziň laýyk gelýänimizi tapyp bilemedik. Indi biz işjeň gözleýäris we onuň maşgalasy gürleşýär. Ol 10 ýyldan gowrak wagt bäri bir aýal bilen öýlenipdi, ýöne olar boşandylar, indi bolsa ol 15 ýyldan gowrak wagt bäri men bilen. Uzyn wagt bir erkek bilen bolmak, onuň aýal bilen bolmak isleýändigini ýitirmek däldir. Şonuň üçin ol meniň bilen bolmazdan, biz diňe bir gyzy paýlaşmak kararyna geldik, eger-de biz özümiziň kabul edip biljek birini tapyp bilsek. Üç adamly gatnaşygyň düşünjesi täze däl. Köp üstünlikli, durnukly, köp adamly gatnaşyklary bolup geçdi. Söýgi we ynam, açyk we dogry aragatnaşyk bilen birleşdirilende, 2 ýa-da 3 bolmagynyň hiç hili ähmiýeti ýokdur. Belki hatda 4 ýa-da 5.... Her kim deň paýda bolsa, başga birine näme üçin ähmiýet berilmeli? Biz ahyrsoňy ýitip giden puzlemiziň bölegini tapar öýdýäris we sizleriň hem gözleýänleriňizi tapmagyňyzy umyt edýäris.

Nämä näme aňsat däl?

Old friends? On and off relations? A new flame? A coworker? How did you end up meeting the ones who joined your polycule? How difficult was it to get them to swallow the idea of polyamory or were they already amenable to the idea? How do your families take to the idea? Just seeing what people have to say.

How did you meet the third in your thruples?

Eski dostlar? Arada bir gatnaşyklaryňyz? Täze bir söýgi? Işdeş? Polikuleňize goşulanlary nähili tanyş ediň? Poliamoriýa düşünjesini kabul etdirmek näderejede kyn boldy ýa-da olar öňünden bu pikir bilen ylalaşýarmy? Maşgalaňyz bu pikir bilen nähili gatnaşykda? Adamlaryň näme diýýändigini görýärin.

Üçlüleriňiziň üçünjisi bilen nähili tanyş bolduňyz?

Is it a particular hobby, mannerisms, intelligence and so on. Im curious if there is a common thread besides open communication.

What attracts you the most with new potential partners?

Bu aýratyn bir şugla, hereketler, akyl we ş.m. bolsa. Açyk aragatnaşykdan başga-da umumy bir ipiň bardygyny bilmek isleýärin.

Täze mümkin bolan hyzmatdaşlaryňyz bilen sizi iň köp näme özüne çekýär?

I need friends in our community to talk to and swap stories that only we would understand. I'm not even looking to date, I'm set, but friends? Get over here! 😅😁

Polyam Pals

Men öz jemgyýetimizde gürrüňdeşlik edip, diňe biziň düşünip biljek hekaýalarymyzy paýlaşmak üçin dostlara mätäç. Men hatda duşuşmak üçin gözlemok, men taýyn, ýöne dostlar? Geliň! 😅😁

Been a while, but just to update:

We had our third kid in October and have been focusing on him.

We also made a new friend who's fun to be around.

I've also been working on some new puppets and drawings while Jenny's been trying to get some crochet projects done.

We are still interested in starting a polyamorous relationship if any women are interested 🙂 if not, that's fine, but if so, feel free to leave a comment telling us about yourself 😊

Back again 😊

Biraz wagt geçdi, ýöne täzelenmek üçin:

Oktýabrda üçünji çagasymyzy aldyk we onuň üstünde işläp gelýäris.

Şeýle hem, ýakynlaşmak üçin gyzykly täze dost edindik.

Men hem Jennyniň käse işlerini ýerine ýetirmäge synanyşyp ýörkä, käbir täze kuklalar we suratlar bilen işläp geldim.

Eger-de isleg bildirýän aýallar bolsa, polyamory gatnaşyklaryna başlamak isleýäris 🙂 eger-de ýok bolsa, hiç hili mesele ýok, ýöne eger-de bar bolsa, özüňiz barada maglumat berýän kommentariýa goýup bilersiňiz 😊

Yeniden gaýdyp geldi 😊

Look for Prince Charming to rescue you now
Wanting The One to just take a bow
Kissing a stud or is it a toad
Someone to keep or to send on the road 
Against loneliness, properly raged
It's hard to see that love isn't caged
Expecting that one will be all you see
Why stop at one? Try two and try three
Each one is different and playing a role
Giving the love and filling a hole
Time is quite precious when giving for free
The time set for you, the time set for me
Ninety percent of all stress is now gone 
A new day is coming, the breaking of dawn
Open and honest respecting each other
Giving of space so love doesn't smother
In order to love, avoiding the worst
Be sure you've spent time to love yourself first

Love isn't Caged

Şahzady gözle, seni halas etsin
Birini isleýärin, diňe baş egsin
Bir çaknyşma öpýän ýa-da bir çaknyşma
Birini saklamak ýa-da ýoluna goýmak 
Yzda galmak üçin, dogry öçürilen
Aşkyň çäklendirilmeýändigini görmek kyn
Biriniň ähli görýän bolmagyny garaşmak
Bir bilen näme üçin durmalysyň? Iki we üç bilen synap gör
Her biri başga we bir rol oýnaýar
Aşky berip, bir boşlugy doldurýar
Wagtyň gymmatly, erkin berilende
Seniň üçin belirlendi, meniň üçin belirlendi
Doksan göterim ähli stres indi ýok
Täze gün gelýär, gün dogmak bilen
Açyk we dogruçyl, biri-birini hormatlamak
Aşkyň boğmazlygy üçin ýer bermek
Aşka ýetmek üçin, iň erbetden gaçmak
Öňki özüňi söýmek üçin wagt geçirdiňmi, ynanjy bol!

Aşkla çäklendirilmeýär

Been wanting to try and start an ENM poly relationship. My wife (hetace) is supportive yet hesitant in this endeavor. I'm not looking to move too quickly, just find somebody to talk to about it. Live in Southern Ontario. We both work and dont have kids but are hoping to in the near future. I'm the cook so dont worry about that😋

Partnered M looking for F

ENM polik gatnaşyklaryny başlamak isleýärin. Aýalym (hetace) bu işde goldaw berýär, ýöne biraz çekinýär. Men çalt hereket etmek islemeýärin, diňe bu barada gürrüňdeşlik etmek üçin birini tapmak isleýärin. Günorta Ontario'da ýaşaýaryn. Iki işde işleýäris we çagalarymyz ýok, ýöne ýakyn wagtda bolmagyny umyt edýäris. Men aşpez, şonuň üçin bu barada alada etmeli däl😋

Erkek M, aýal gözleýär

I'm finally ready to start dating and seeing other people again... Nothing too serious.

Just... I want to explore a bit.

I got dressed up cute yesterday and went to an event. I talked with a very pretty lady, but didn't work up the courage to exchange info.

Still, it felt good just to know I was out and open to the possibility. Poly is work and that work is hard and healing from bad experiences means opening up to new ones!

Out and About

Men ahyrsoňy täze adamlara ýüz tutmaga we beýleki adamlary görmäge taýyn. ... Hiç hili çynlakaý däl.

Diňe... Men biraz gözleg etmek isleýärin.

Men geçen gün şirin geýindim we bir çäreye gitdim. Men gaty owadan bir aýal bilen gepleşdim, ýöne maglumat alyşmak üçin ýürek etmedim.

Yöne, meniň çykyp, mümkinçilige açyk bolmagym gowy duýuldy. Poligamiýa işdir we bu iş kyn, we erbet tejribelerden gaýtadan sagalmak täze tejribeleri kabul etmekdir!

Çykyp Görmek

I love hearing people's stories! What were your first dates like?(yes, after you realized you were poly)

First dates

Men adamlaryň hekaýalaryny eşitmegi gowy görýärin! Ilkinji duşuşyklaryňyz näme ýaly boldy? (hawa, siz polýakdygyňyzy düşündiňizmi)

Ilkin duşuşyklar

A Boo community for meeting other Polyamory enthusiasts.

Polyamory Community

Ýyldyzlar

Poly gözeldir

Arkansasda poly

Men özüm bolmak

Polycule barada pikirleri bolan barmy

dünyadaky islegleriňiz barada gürrüň bermek isleseňiz we hiç kim jogap bermese

Poliýamoriýa barada näme pikir edýäsiňiz?

Bagyşlamak Paradoksu

Salam Polies Geliň, näme üçin şu ýerde bolup, polyamory we monogamy däl-de, polyamory näme diýmekdigini gürrüňdeşleşeliň?

Poliamoriýa

Siz pikir edýäňizmi, aladalanýan adamlar bir wagtyň özünde 5 gaçynýan hyzmatdaş bilen deňagramlylygy üpjün etmek üçin poliamoriýa ýüz tutýarlar?

Açyk nikah / Poliamoriýa