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I need some advise or help, I'm really doubting on my enneagram rn bc the descriptions makes me feel like " probably I'm this type BUT I dont really relate or feel like my main issue is that, or my way to react " right now I'm doubting in SO7/  SP7 / any e6 but I dont relate to their way of handle fear, and I'm not sure on E9 or Sp2, can anyone help or gimme some advise to getting to know my self better :) 

Also, I'm pretty sure im a ENFP IEE if that helps

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So bored to training alone😔when can girl come with me😂

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Manifestation
29th December 2025

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Im gonna look into this but I thought it was funny

Apparently im a loyalist

On the other side of a January freeze in Texas and alllll of my best intentions which weren’t realized… this is spot on for a 7! 🙃

Is it true for you?

Got the rest beat, 9 to 1. 😏

Just kidding! ❤️ I don't put much stock into these assessments, but I am curious for those that do, how important it is for you in matching?

Winning!

Does anyone have any tips how to figure out your enneagram type properly? The tests I've done all seem to give different results varying from type 1, 5 and 8. 😅 These all seem too different, so it's not much to go on.

Enneagram types

Anyone else has a hyperfixation on enneagram and mbti?

How can recognizing Enneagram types help us anticipate and address common communication challenges in relationships? It helps me a lot! 🙂

I presume that I'm an 8-5-3 but idk for certain. Please help!

Does anyone know where to find a free tri-type test?

I personally learned about the Enneagram from a therapist I used to see and always found it so fascinating!! I have a few books on the subject, and I’m always trying to guess what types people are. Does anyone else have a similar experience? (I correctly guessed the type of the last person I dated 😆)

I’m curious who else studied Enneagram personality types before this app!

Don't take it personally! This December I have a lot of event preparations so sometime i forget to check texts and notis but I'll definitely reply to your chats at night before sleep... so, happy weekend guys!! cheers 😊🥂

I'm so busy, sometimes I can't respond...

I’ve noticed a lot of people on this dating app have their Meyers Briggs personality type listed, but not their enneagram or which variant (social, self-preservation, or sexual). I’d argue it’s almost more important than your personality type. It’s the “why” you make the decisions you make based on your experiences in early childhood. If you don’t know your enneagram, I definitely recommend figuring it out. You can take the quiz inside the boo app under “Enneagram”. 

This image below sums it up perfectly 👇🏻I’m an enneagram 4w5 social variant, what’s yours? 🤔

P.S. I will delete and/or report your comments if they’re hateful or non-constructive. If you disagree, move along.

No one knows about enneagram? 🤷🏼‍♀️

What is your enneagram and how has that changed how your mbti has expressed?

Have you ever mistyped in one system due to the influence of another?

If you know your instinctual stacking, has that ever made it harder to type you?

Personally, as a  5w4 I have misstyped as an INTP (Type 5 is heavily correlated to Ti and greater introversion)

Enneagram MBTI Combinations

I'm new here how do I take the Ennagram quiz in here?

Can anybody help?

The test on this app is far too simple and way off.

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what's your enneagram

Yes, we MUST get it right!

Did anyone else struggle to accept their enneagram? 

Having studied, I definitely recognize my true type - 5w6. Textbook intellectual seeking human connections. But when I first looked into it I thought for sure I would have been type 4, because as an INFJ and resident great listener, I always identified very strongly with compassion and authenticity.

Wannabe type 4

Who want to be friend with me ? i am really friendly and kind person

A good friend

Just Got My Enneagram

Some lack self-awareness due t'bein' too focused on others' needs (& you'll see this in a lot of unhealthy Enneagram 2s, 9s, & the countertype Sp instinct 7).

People like this were often parentalized/adultified in childhood by their own parent(s).

Repressing themselves thus may have been necessary for survival once upon a time, but it ideally becomes a maladaptive strategy one can learn to outgrow in time.
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Others, akin to infants, may be simultaneously self-absorbed & yet out of touch with who they are.

In a lot of such cases, people are just lazy & spoiled, & will figure themselves out in due time--but on the extreme end of this spectrum are e3 narcissists & e7 borderlines, who don't even have a stable identity to know over time (unless/until they heal from their CPTSD enough to constellate/integrate their fragmented psyche over time).

[I will add, though, that in cases where there is co-morbid psychopathy &/or where there are machiavellian traits overlayed, there is then, indeed, a fair degree of self-awareness.]

Those who know themselves least are most easily triggered, & are liable to unwittingly project; i.e. unconsciously gaslight others into taking the blame for the drama they generate (& if you're a codependent e2, Sp 7, or 9, you're most likely to succumb to tolerating this).
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And then there are e4s & e8s. These guys aren't confabulating or feigning when they say they know themselves better than anyone.
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Now then: Once you have self-knowledge, balance also necessitates sometimes compromising your wants to comport yourself to others'.

That is, unless you're happy & functional being alone in the long run...

And I guess there are a lot of e5s who'd fall into the classification of being Schizoid. Like, they're not necessarily conventionally selfish (like 4s) or defiant (like 8s), but they covet their alone time, & are--out of all Enneatypes--the most content being disconnected from others...for long periods of time.
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Hm... And then there are 6s. They're the most common type, yet also one of the most complicated. They can pendulum back & forth between being too conformist/patriotic & too neurotically stand-offish (often in alternatingly overly aggressive & passive-aggressive ways).

They're kinda like the Tsundere trope in anime.
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And then 1s...--how t'tie them in...

I think, in some ways, like the withdrawn 5s, 1s tend to have a pretty good picture of reality, overall (though 5s have more of an edge in the realm of the sciences, whereas ethics is more the 1's domain). And yet they're outgoing, hyper-productive, & perfectionistic to a fault (when unhealthy)--not to mention militant in their efforts to reform others.

My dad has a lot of 1 & 6 in him. It was hard to grow up with a helicopter parent like that. 😵

Ah, & a lot rides on the instinctual variant of the e1 when it comes to self-knowledge.

- A Self-preservation 1 tends to master themselves.
- A Sexual 1 tends to focus most of their attention & energies on reforming others (& not first plucking the beam out of their own eyes, often).
- And I think a Social 1 is somewhat balanced compared to the former two. :d

A balanced life requires self-knowledge.

I find ambitious and smart people to be very attractive! Keep up the good work, you impressive and wise individuals!
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3's & 5's!

Found this super interesting! Find your type and see if it’s relevant as either an anxious preoccupied, dismissive, or fearful avoidant in the past or present 

From @ginagomez

The crossover between enneagram and attachment style in viewing platonic and romantic relationships

The more enriched results info the better. Any recommendations?

Who tried a free ennegram test ?

I guess I'm a 9 Wing 1. I'm fascinated by these tests. Not everything in my INFJ or astrological description is 100% accurate, but the enneagram is 100% spot-on. Amazing and intriguing how these tests can match given how many varying experiences, interactions and perspectives that we all have as individuals...THIS is why I love psychology and philosophy so much. If money and time were no object I'd go back to get degrees in both.

Enneagram Community

Confussion

Gym

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Manifestation 29th December 2025

Innerwork 🫶

Apparently im a loyalist

Self-Aware 2s?

Do you believe in enneagram and mbti in dating ?

Wouldn't it be nice to have attachment styles added to the MBTI & Enneagram on this app?

Just realised…

What should I do on this app?

FML, thanks enneagram