Interaction Community

The Dating App Paradox: When You Find Exactly What You’re Looking For (Even When It's Not There)

A few minutes ago, I was talking to a younger guy from Peru who really seemed to need a friend. We were just goofing off, until out of nowhere, he told me he loves older guys, was looking for a "suggar", and asked if I could pay him. I unmatched him immediately. But it got me thinking about… read more

Deep insights

Todays most rewarding interaction

How present am I, really? And how present am I with the others?

Sometimes I wonder how often we are actually here, in the moment we are living, and how often we are somewhere else entirely. The mind has such a beautiful ability to travel through time. It takes us back into what has already happened, or forward into what might happen. It analyses, anticipates,… read more

Have you found ways that have made any of these things easier? (or add your own if you have something helpful to share)

The way I deal with: A. Social situations 1. fear of being judged 2. silence in a conversation feeling awkward 3. feeling like the odd one out in a group 4. being interrupted or talked over 5. meeting people when I have no social energy 6. fear of being seen as boring or unexciting 7. being… (edited) read more

A Reflection on Language, Spirituality, and Emotional Awareness

A mental exercise before reading; Without using Google, can you explain the meaning of terms such as energy, vibration, resonance, and light? If not, consider reading the following reflection with an open and critical mind. First, I want to clarify that I personally remain open to the possibility… read more

What is your passion?

I love study the planet Earth, and how human interaction shapes a new reality. I try to understand the system as a whole.

Only people from Asia or Africa contact me?

I kinda find it crazy that I get requests from Asia and Africa every day but have not a single time gotten one from Europe not once. I live in Central Europe (Poland) and yet not a soul from Europe has dared to contact me, and it makes me think, are European girls the ones with crazy high standards… read more

The cycle

Alarm sounds to start the day, The smile on my face is washed away, Get dressed and start my van, Open up my first motivation in a can, Solving problems and doing tasks, Human interaction is all I ask, 3 drinks down the shift is done, Driving back home I've talked to almost no one, Clocking out… (edited) read more

A Reflection on Language, Spirituality, and Emotional Awareness

A mental exercise before reading Without using Google, can you explain the meaning of terms such as energy, vibration, resonance, and light? If not, consider reading the following reflection with an open and critical mind. First, I want to clarify that I personally remain open to the possibility… read more

LF: Social Interaction

Having a bad day...don't know if it's the snow or what but would love to chat with someone new :)

im not great at conversation but..

google isnt exactly helpful with human interaction so asking generally. in simplish terms, how do you start a conversation with someone new without making it awkward with the intent to try and find friends? are there phrases to avoid? or will it just be awkward anyway? i know i feel awkward when… read more

What a great tribute to the classics!

Just finished my first playthrough of BG3 recently. I loved the first two growing up, and I really felt it did such a good job of preserving the style of exploration and environmental interaction the classics had. (The second was my favorite.) And wow, what a great job they did recasting returning… (edited) read more

Kind Women

On extremely rare occasions, do I come across a mean woman And even after a hurtful interaction, she tends to make it up for me Are women in general always kind and sweet? Or am I just extra lucky?

Life lessons for me

Living in a different city away from home taught me something I didn’t expect. The city is extremely hot, the food doesn’t feel like home, and at work there isn’t much interaction because people mostly keep to themselves. So most of our time ends up being spent inside the room. My roommate and I… (edited) read more

What is the first thing you noticed about a person in the first 7 seconds?

Why We Binge on Connection?

When we lack connection, our brains enter a scarcity mindset which makes us over consume social interaction once it’s available. We lose ourselves in dopamine loops while chasing intimacy until reality hits. That post chat guilt isn't just about lost time. It’s the realization that we’ve traded… read more

Season 2, Episode 1 of Frieren!

So, I just finished the first episode of the new season of Frieren, and I was wondering, did anyone else think it was as good as I did? It started off like it hadn't been gone, easing us back into the story with it's soothing art and OST. Then, one of my favorite things about this anime, it just… read more

Question.

How does one start a conversation? Small talk loses my interest more than anything. Hey, howdy, hey now. I'm good, thanks. Working. Yeah, nice weather we are having.... what makes communicating with strangers worth while when I have nothing of importance to say.... been by myself so long all i… read more

Very human interaction

Why I want make connection in post and comments before you send me messages?? So, a guy sent me a message request. He suggested that getting to know people in DM is better ..

So, from my side I don't think that's better way to know people for me. I prefer to know people from interaction in post and comments so I know their mindset, their way of talking, the way they are joking ,are they serious and rigid people or open minded person. I need to know all of these before I… (edited) read more

powered by caffeine, drained by human interaction

Great to have interaction with myself 😀

Loneliness VS Solitude

Loneliness is a dependency on other humans to ease emotional pain that hasn't been given enough time for your kind to process. Solitude is constructive, allows time for reflection, personal growth and a break from the demands of social interaction. It's amazing what a little time to yourself can do… read more

Not sure where to post but,

goodbye to you, you unfollowed me without goodbye and that broke my heart. One less follower means less interaction and attention to me. Onwards I will strive for better content, more thirst traps and I will earn your attention 24/7.

So who else is just here for an online friendship?

Boo is not just a dating app, I always say, that's why I don't feel quite comfortable with the new logo it has now... Anyways, I am in favor of being socially "allowed" to be in these kind of apps even if married, it could be you want/need more social interaction or that you are curious and you… read more

I’ve reached the point where I don’t care who’s getting married, divorced, cheated on, having kids, or collecting spouses like they’re Pokémon.

I just hope I wake up every day with no illness, have good food to eat, enjoy some peace, and avoid unnecessary human interaction. They say socializing helps you live longer. I’d rather have fewer peaceful years than spend more time making small talk.

Sad days...

There are days when I doomscroll on ig and the algorithm starts to plan my depressive days in life... The deep thought emerges. —I really will never have a lover...— I think about that line again and start to imagine how I should close off all Interaction that might lead me to having a crush on… read more

Long-term relationships

I like having a long-term relationship with a man, I prefer this type of relationship over just a casual, non-commital, no strings attached type of interaction with men in a sexual context. I like spending some time by myself as well, to read, meditate, to be creative, to listen to music, watch… read more

Alright

Being skeptical and cautious with people you barely know? Valid. I’m starting to think I could stand to be a little more open when it comes to friendship. It’s genuinely surprising when a stranger/acquaintance continues to check in, makes an effort to keep in touch, and is chill about your quirks… read more

The workplace is not the only place you need to mind your ps and qs

It is genuinely exhausting how often “getting to know someone” immediately turns into managing another person’s sexual expectations. There is nothing wrong with attraction. There is nothing wrong with desire. What is wrong is acting like those things are more important than the comfort,… read more

And with each interaction...

I think I fall more and more in love... with myself. 🫠Some of us are just built to love and the idea is to find someone who finds joy in the process unfolding. Wishing you a Happy Sunday, darlings. Love yourself well today, and if willing share a bit with someone you care about tomorrow.

Effortless connections

We all wish for someone who is kind, honest, and different, and we write that on our pages. But when we think about it, we realize that we all believe we are good and honest ourselves. The question I always think about is: Is anyone actually 'bad'? Or is someone just wrong for me, but good for… read more

WHY?

Why is honesty raw, unguarded truth so difficult for human beings to offer? Why does speaking plainly feel more dangerous than remaining silent or shaping reality into something easier to bear? Even the smallest lie, spoken to protect or to avoid pain, bends the world ever so slightly. And when… read more

Hello! 🌻🌻

My profile is having some issues with posting in the timeline. My posts don't show up after I upload them, even after multiple refreshes. However, I still received notifications for likes and comments, I just can't open them. Whenever I click the notification, a message pops up instead. So thank… read more

Would you tell them?

So you run into an acquaintance and engage in a casual conversation, and within the first few seconds of interaction, you notice a piece of lettuce, a bean, or something else stuck in their teeth. Would you tell them? What if it was someone you were more or less intimate with?

Wholesome 😅

This is the kind of interaction I would be okay with. Congrats person I'll probably never speak to again - I hope you are well! 😂