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Lingering Attachment

You know the most unattractive quality in somebody is when they are still connected to someone in their past. Its not fair to the next person to try and make them fill a void left by someone else. And if you try to move on with someone new while still allowing yourself to be connected to... read more

The loneliness of being the one who remembers others but is forgotten

There is a particular kind of loneliness that rarely gets acknowledged; the loneliness of being the one who remembers. You remember birthdays without reminders. You ask about the interview they were nervous about weeks ago. You remember how they take their coffee, the stories they told only once,... read more

I just happened to meet a foreign couple at a tourist spot and we started talking. The conversation naturally turned toward their relationship.

They shared that their children are grown now, life has settled into a routine, and traveling together is one of the ways they keep things from feeling too repetitive. I joked, “Then maybe you should travel every day.” We all laughed, and then they asked me framed with genuine curiosity as a... read more

Some people smile at you while holding their observation report 😅😅 think 10x before lying 😂😂😂😂

A very scientific observation

It’s seems like there are only two real residents that can live in a dating app ecosystem, narcissistic sociopaths and depressed misanthropes. (edited)

Hmm... Interesting observation

Enjoying this beautiful day at a park. Just witnessed a lady get a little mad at a guy cause she wanted her dog to interact with his dogs. He told her in a friendly manner, I don't think that's a good idea, my dogs get a little nervous around other dogs and it was obviously evident because his dogs... read more