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Posted Wednesday, November 17, 2021
3y
INFP
Pisces
Profile Picture Colors
Do you think it's a good idea for our icons to have the colored auras around them based on who we're theoretically compatible with? Like I've had this app for a day and I find myself feeling negatively about people with red auras, even if I read what they say and I agree with them 100%. Reversed thing with blue auras. Is anyone else experiencing this, or am I just weird? (edited)
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Carrie
3y
INFP
Aquarius
I mostly ignore the colors because MBTI isn't the greatest indicator of compatibility much less personality. I personally wobble on either end of 3 out of the 4 categories. It's a conscious decision though. I don't think it's weird necessarily to have feelings about the colors. It'd be cool though if there was more customization.
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M
3y
INFP
Pisces
No I don't think it's a good idea and I find it quite annoying. There should at least be the option to turn it off and show both the picture and the MBTI badges neutrally, without the colour coding. I also doubt that the three personality types with which I am the most compatible are really all extroverted as they seem to think.
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Maryana
3y
ENFP
Leo
You already responded it hahahaha "theoretically". This would be based on the reactions and pet peeves of each personality....for example: a person who is extremely emotional and someone who can't stand overreactions. But if both people identify w each other these things can be overcome with the effort of both. And that's what the app description says "can work with effort from both sides". I made a great friend that "theoretically" our personalities are not a match...And yes we still have big differences and we just ignore...we are careful not to do things that affect each other's personality
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