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Happy Pride! 🌈👭🏿❤️

"Those of us who stand outside the circle of this society's definition of acceptable women; those of us who have been forged in the crucibles of difference -- those of us who are poor, who are lesbians, who are Black, who are older -- know that survival is not an academic skill. It is learning how... read more

Judging people

Everyone does it, it’s more a matter of when is it fair and when is it not fair, I think. You judge people poorly who decide to do something you believe is unnecessary and you judge people favorably when they go beyond what was expected of them. Judging someone who is overweight is usually wrong... read more

Message In A Bottle The Police

On this day in 2007, The Police set aside their differences and launched their first tour since 1986 in Vancouver. Despite some band member clashes along the way, the tour lasted over a year, selling 3,300,912 tickets in 151 shows. For day 172 of year 4's dancing, I danced to five songs from The... read more

King Of Pain The Police

On this day in 2007, The Police set aside their differences and launched their first tour since 1986 in Vancouver. Despite some band member clashes along the way, the tour lasted over a year, selling 3,300,912 tickets in 151 shows. For day 172 of year 4's dancing, I danced to five songs from The... read more

He Seemed Perfect, Until the World Entered the Room

There is a particular kind of disappointment reserved for the moment you realize that someone can check every box on your carefully curated list and still be entirely wrong for you. I met a man who, on paper, seemed almost absurdly ideal. He cooked, and not in the performative “I can make... read more

Every Breath You Take The Police

On this day in 2007, The Police set aside their differences and launched their first tour since 1986 in Vancouver. Despite some band member clashes along the way, the tour lasted over a year, selling 3,300,912 tickets in 151 shows. For day 172 of year 4's dancing, I danced to five songs from The... read more