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Diogenes or Machiavelli?

You can only choose one, their standards becomes the norms of society, which do you choose and why?

Why People Don’t Approach Anymore

Why Don’t People Approach Anymore? Rejection used to be private. Now it’s a performance. A simple “I’m not interested” has turned into a chance to humiliate someone on camera and turn their vulnerability into content. And yes — there are creepy people who don’t take no for an answer. Boundaries... (edited) read more

Love Across Timelines: When a Woman Loves a Younger Man! ( Open for discussion!)

​When a woman loves a younger man, they step outside of societal scripts and into a unique relationship dynamic. Can it work? Absolutely. Love is not governed by a birth certificate, but by emotional maturity, shared values, and mutual respect. However, age-gap relationships bring distinct joys and... read more

Things I've noticed about modern dating as a woman in a healthy relationship.

Hi, woman in a happy relationship here. I want to share a couple of things I’ve noticed about modern dating, especially in heterosexual contexts. 1. Modern dating is unforgiving because it overvalues looks and short-term benefits. Western society puts a huge emphasis on youth, beauty, and what... read more

Another me

Another me that is different from the rest. I cannot tell that if it’s the best the fight within myself, I cannot express how much I need help from the social norms that I put within myself. I cannot express what’s in myself. Oh conceited is me thinking that I’m all alone . I can understand the... read more

Venting?

I'm pretty sure we all see how the general dating norms of this world don't always align with the bible, so I get curious how other Christians are navigating dating in a faith aligned/biblical correct way? Do we still abide by waiting till marriage? I feel it's hard enough to find a person who... read more