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I had the worst nightmare of my life

I had a terrible nightmare last night, I mean I honestly couldn't have seen a worse dream than this. In the dream, I had eaten high-calorie foods. Anyway, the bad part of the dream isn't that; afterwards, while we were at our old house, I saw my brother giving my cat an injection. I was terrified,… read more

Coping with Failing

How do you cope with failing something you worked so hard for? I'm really struggling to accept it and feel so defeated. How do you find the strength to move forward? 💔

Acceptance Stage

i’ve been through things i don’t even know how to explain. i drank a lot, struggled in ways nobody understood, started self-harming, cried more than i smiled, spent time in hospitals, and even reached a point where i couldn’t walk and had to use crutches. i was lost in life, and honestly, i wasn’t… read more

What do you do to cope with stress and frustration from people and life?

Genuinely starting to believe most people in my life are nuts and I’m trying not to crash out 😭 I have coping skills, but my goodness, are they being put to the test

Acceptance Stage

i’ve been through things i don’t even know how to explain. i drank a lot, struggled in ways nobody understood, started self-harming, cried more than i smiled, spent time in hospitals, and even reached a point where i couldn’t walk and had to use crutches. i was lost in life, and honestly, i wasn’t… read more

They told me I could play anything so I chose a long hair cat sorcerer

I DIDN'T ASK TO JOIN YOUR D&D GROUP. 🙄🐈‍⬛ I simply manifested. Cats do that. You should feel honored. Naturally, I had to create my own character: a ridiculously fluffy, Maine Coon-inspired longhair cat with soul-piercing purple eyes, a wardrobe more expensive than your entire adventuring… read more

Missing someone.

Sometimes life gets in the way. How do you cope with longing for attention and time with a friend without feeling bothersome. Missing someone dear to you is a difficult feeling to deal with.

I feel so called out lmfao

But it's true. This year in particular, I have experienced the worse burnout by far. Severe emotional exhaustion and apathy on a new low. How do you cope with burnout?

Starting Over in Vietnam 🇻🇳

Guys, how do you cope with moving to another country? 🇻🇳 How do you support yourself when you feel lonely or when things don’t work out as quickly as you hoped? I’m moving from Nha Trang to Hanoi soon, and it feels like I’m starting everything from scratch — apartment, work, new people, new… read more

Another memory

Another simple memory of a time of me wandering around carrying books im reading, and avoiding being home at all costs. I spent hours at this dock just staring out at the water. I used to walk around this lake and sit on a bench singing deeply as I tried to cope with how unsafe my home life was.… read more

Again it’s not going well

I tried ended up in hospital 3 times in a week feel like I’m loosing grip friends and reality and feel kinda alone had issues with drama and my abusive ex and police I can’t cope I just feel like this dead end I don’t know who to turn to because I feel I am just annoying everyone but so hard to get… read more

I need your opinion 😊 Will you date someone that you know you have no possibility to be together? Like, religion issue, different culture, too much age gap ..or anything else that you think you both can't cope it.

I’ve got a bit of a random question…

How do you actually deal with trauma? Not necessarily get rid of it, because honestly, if there were a little “delete trauma” button, I probably would’ve smashed it ages ago. 😂 Some people are scared of the dark. Some are scared of being left. Some are scared of losing people, getting married,… read more

Why are people so serious nowadays?? Hardly find people to bantering with here 😅😅 For me the harder the life the more I need aughters 😅

That's my cope mechanisms.

Loving yourself

How do you cope with loneliness? It seems that dating apps don't work so well for all of us. How can someone (especially guys) accept that they may never find love but still keep trying?

Addiction is a pain-management strategy, not a character flaw or a sign that someone is broken..

[Disclaimer]: "Capacity" is not about morals, or character, or strength. When we have relative safety and access to resources, often times our capacity increases. [Disclaimer]: There are many theories on the origin of addiction as there are types of addiction. This post is not attempting to… read more

Step up / Level up and Thankful for everything...thankful yourself , ourself...you are cool!!💖✨🌻☀️🤗

Whenever you feel that the things which once exhausted or weighed heavily on your mind have become lighter—no longer as burdensome as before—it means you have learned and grown, taking another step forward in how you handle and cope with them. 🎁 Be grateful to yourself and to everything—whether it… read more

Grief

I lost my grandma a year ago but am still feeling the pain of not talking to her more. How do y'all cope with loss?

Holidays

Now as a single person about to be 40 without family how do yall cope with holidays. My closest family member was my mom and now that’s she gone and I’m living outta state it’s just been me,myself and I lol. I do have a small circle of friends but they each have families etc and I never really feel… read more

I often wonder how people cope after someone who has been a significant part of their life for so long is suddenly no longer in it. Regardless of the kind of relationship they shared, how do they come to terms with never talking to or seeing that person again?

It's like every time I try to find a distraction, it just leads me back to the same place.

Im on loop and I'm sad. How do u cope or develop yourself from the breakup? My ex was being dishonest to me. It breaks my heart so much. All tgese feelings of confusion, anger, and shattered. (edited)

It’s impressive how well the husband controls his emotions and chooses his words, but did his wife really switch off her brain so easily? 🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠

HOW would she cope in a real life-or-death emergency? (edited)

Psychology of Faith

Why Humans Need Religion's Meaning Why does faith persist across all cultures and times? Humans are fundamentally meaning-seeking creatures who are uniquely aware of their own mortality and the chaos of the universe. Religion steps in to provide the ultimate comfort. 1. The Meaning Imperative… read more

Love

Idk what I think/feel about it anymore. I know everyone experience it different, there are no rules, but how do you cope? What make you feel? Just feel? More Courted? More wanted? Without being sleezy. What makes you feel like love is necessary. Everyone in a way, today, are self centered. They… read more

Going through it

My husband died over a year ago, and I tried dating again. I dated a friend I've known and cared about for 25 years only to realize that nobody is ever going to love me like my husband did. We were together for almost 16 years. How do you cope with losing your soul mate? How do you rebuild?

Bullwand

A year ago, I started this world with a modpack Craft to Exile 2 when I was at my lowest. I had to cope and control my panic attacks somehow, and this was the answer. Since the modpack is RPG-driven, I progressively developed this town as my character grew stronger with strength and affluent with… read more

Burnout

Dear my friend, I want to ask something..How do you cope with burnout when you feel mentally and emotionally exhausted?

I have been thru much in my life, I know complaining and tears won't do any better. Like the only choice is accept and cope it ... That's why the only react I show just take a deep breath and smile ... 😊 Seeing life in the lighter version thru the smile and laughter ..😅

Others can text me everyday and still I don't interest to talk when you have nothing real to offer and here the reasons..

As a mom, as a breadwinner, as worker, as a woman, as cats mom, I have many responsibilities in my life and many things to do. I'm not in the phase looking for friends just for chit chat and passing time. I want people who I can learn together with, support each other to cope the real life matter,… (edited) read more

🌱

A smile will gain you ten more years of life. ~Chinese Proverb Life is full of difficulties and tragedies, we can easily fall to depression. How do we cope?

A must read

If u r going through depression, it's a great book to cope with it.🫂❤️

Why I Left Nursing⁶

I left nursing because, over time, the work became emotionally and physically overwhelming for me. Nursing is a profession that requires you to give so much of yourself. You don't simply care for someone's illness. You care for the whole person—their body, their emotions, their fears, their… (edited) read more

What should I do if I can’t sleep?

Sleep is my priority but I don’t know how to cope with too much stress at night.

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I feel like I've sunk to my lowest. Guess I will do what I usually do and lock the door and keep to myself to myself. Only way I know how to cope.

Tired

Caregivers often become emotionally homeless. Everyone unconsciously leans on them, assumes they will cope, assumes they are the strong one. But strength without being held in return becomes starvation.

People love saying money can’t buy happiness especially when they can’t afford the things that make life easier. Then they call anyone who values money “shallow” to cope with what they lack.

L A M E AS F..:: 😪😪😪

Back to my Radiohead to cope with life ^^