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Rejecting Me Before Knowing Me 😂

I was born and raised in Switzerland. I am not religious, nor do I live according to conservative South Asian traditions. I speak Japanese, have studied Japanese culture for years, cook Japanese food, and work within Swiss society. Yet in dating, people sometimes finish judging me before they... read more

Anybody looking for a chat?

Open for any kind of discussion, as long as the time goes by and we both enjoy the conversation

i acknowledge that my anxiety got the best of me and i jumped to conclusions too quickly when the conversation slowed down. however, that still doesn't give you the right to disrespect me or react so harshly over a minor misunderstanding.

all I wanted was to have a simple discussion and talk things through, not an ego trip

A provocative question for discussion.

Why is it considered normal to choose someone because of their appearance, but when it comes to financial stability, people often react negatively? Many people admit that the first thing they notice is beauty, body, face, and physical attraction. Sometimes they even say they could imagine building... read more

What is a hard truth about life or people that took you the longest to finally accept?

We all go through experiences that shatter our old illusions and force us to look at the world differently. For me, it was realizing that not everyone operates with the same intentions or heart as you, and you cannot force someone to value what you bring to the table. ​What about you? What is a... read more

What do you think?

This is a really interesting discussion about how people select potential partners during the courtship period. On the one hand, some argue that "testing" is necessary, even going to extremes like living together or sleeping together before committing, to avoid making the wrong choice. But on the... read more