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Writing if it were Singleness

Being single is kinda like writing. As long as you're doing your own thing creating new story ideas and having fun, you don't really think much about what your project could be. You're worldbuilding it but not fleshing it out as actual content. Well one day you take a look at projects other writers... read more

So, I'm still working on my visual novel. I'm working on one of the "love interest" I need feedbacks.

Soooo...here goes nothing. I definitely know it's bad. (I'm still working on the design and story, but this is a snippet of what he would sound like.) Awawaaa I can't help but rework it before even posting it. 🧎🏽‍♀️ "Oh, I’ll break your heart. No doubt about that. But don’t worry... I’ll still... (edited) read more

Difference between a man Who loves you and one who just likes you.

=Consistency vs. Convenience= *Loves you: He shows up even when it’s not easy. He’s there during your bad days, supports your growth, and works through challenges with you. *Likes you: He’s around when it’s fun or convenient. If things get tough, he might start pulling away. = Actions vs.... read more

connecting to another person means understanding that they are human and capable of mistakes. understand that they have a shadow that needs to be acknowledged, as well as a lifetime of conditioning and programming to recognize and release. don’t idealize your partners, allow them humanity.

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May clarity and discernment be your guides in relationships, allowing you to navigate the complexities of human connection with wisdom and intuition. May you recognize the beauty of authenticity and resist the temptation to idealize or romanticize others. Seeing people for who they truly are,... (edited) read more