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WORD OF THE DAY

Pencillate (verb): To express oneself in provisional strokes, to speak as though one’s words may later be rubbed vigorously into oblivion. In other words, speaking with a metaphorical pencil. Pronunciation: [pin-si-late] Etymology: I made it up 5 minutes ago. Here are some red flags that... read more

Why I believe some people just want the benefits of a relationship and are not ready for one.

I'm in a relationship and the first thing I tell people is it can be great with the right person but it takes work and labour and investment that some people aren't used to... and need to learn to GET used to it if they want a happy and secure relationship. What is that work? It's called Emotional... (edited) read more

Ya know

In all fairness, even though I haven't made a match yet on this app. A lot of you real people do help me. And I thank all of you for that. The advice, the talks, the care. So for you guys and gals who are still searching, know even if you dont find someone on here. The talks and friendships that... read more

Inequality is to treat inequal things equally

Treating different things the same can be unfair. Real fairness comes from seeing and respecting differences, not pretending they don’t exist.

Double Standards in Believing Accusations: The Numbers Don’t Lie

There’s a clear double standard in how we respond to accusations depending on whether they come from a man or a woman. When a man says, “She mistreated me,” the first reaction from most people is skepticism. They’ll say, “We need to hear her side of the story,” or, “There must be more to it.” In... read more

I believe in fairness. Let's share food