Fairness Community

A man once asked me, “How can you be so sure that the man you want the one with all those carefully imagined qualities would ever want a woman like you?” I didn’t have an answer then. Maybe I still don’t.

Because the truth is, I’ve never really walked through life with the quiet certainty that I am someone people choose. I’ve often felt like I exist just outside the frame of what is wanted close enough to see it, but never quite belonging to it. Not extraordinary enough to stand out, not effortless... read more

Morality.

I didn't seem to feel emotions the way other kids seemed to. Or maybe I did but they were faint. Too weak to shape my decisions or stop me from doing something. Other kids seemed to have an emotional compass. Mine was more like a loose needle spinning until it pointed toward whatever made the most... read more

Why I believe some people just want the benefits of a relationship and are not ready for one.

I'm in a relationship and the first thing I tell people is it can be great with the right person but it takes work and labour and investment that some people aren't used to... and need to learn to GET used to it if they want a happy and secure relationship. What is that work? It's called Emotional... (edited) read more

Ya know

In all fairness, even though I haven't made a match yet on this app. A lot of you real people do help me. And I thank all of you for that. The advice, the talks, the care. So for you guys and gals who are still searching, know even if you dont find someone on here. The talks and friendships that... read more

If you owned a city what 5 laws would you wish the citizens followed.

1. Mutual Protection & Self-Defense Law Citizens have the absolute right to defend themselves by any reasonable means necessary when faced with immediate danger. • If two individuals wish to resolve a conflict through physical combat, both parties must: • Mutually agree to the terms, • Register... read more

About love 💭

A husband loves his wife, and she loves him, genuine, honest love. Despite this, they often argue over the smallest things. The paradox is that most of their problems are fueled by that very same love. Sometimes it's excessive jealousy "in the name of love," other times it's unrealistic... read more