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WORD OF THE DAY

Pencillate (verb): To express oneself in provisional strokes, to speak as though one’s words may later be rubbed vigorously into oblivion. In other words, speaking with a metaphorical pencil. Pronunciation: [pin-si-late] Etymology: I made it up 5 minutes ago. Here are some red flags that... read more

Life

You don’t get certainty, fairness, or guarantees. You get moments of choice stacked on top of each other. What you do consistently becomes who you are, quietly and without negotiation. A good life isn’t loud. It’s aligned. When your actions match your values, peace follows, even when outcomes... read more

Why I believe some people just want the benefits of a relationship and are not ready for one.

I'm in a relationship and the first thing I tell people is it can be great with the right person but it takes work and labour and investment that some people aren't used to... and need to learn to GET used to it if they want a happy and secure relationship. What is that work? It's called Emotional... (edited) read more

Ya know

In all fairness, even though I haven't made a match yet on this app. A lot of you real people do help me. And I thank all of you for that. The advice, the talks, the care. So for you guys and gals who are still searching, know even if you dont find someone on here. The talks and friendships that... read more

Inequality is to treat inequal things equally

Treating different things the same can be unfair. Real fairness comes from seeing and respecting differences, not pretending they don’t exist.

Fairness

Some people would let others suffer cause they suffered.