A friend of mine said his girl friend "occasionally" hits him when she's feeling hormonal throughout the month. I said he should leave her, because she's clearly abusive. He said it's not like that. What do you think?

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Gregolonious

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That is abuse. A lot of dudes don't want to speak out or feel like they are weak for allowing it to happen. But abuse is the name of the game regardless. Anytime we allow someone to abuse, neglect, lie, mistreat, etc. That becomes the norm. That becomes what they believe is acceptable as part of a relationship. And it simply is not. Be there for your friend, don't make him feel stupid or weak because of. Let him know he isn't in a healthy situation.

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Yeah, thats abuse. I've been hormonal as hell but never gotten physical with someone. He SHOULD leave. (edited)

Icesis🇮🇶🇩🇪

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I beg to differ...I know red flags when I see them because I also have been through it with my dad...my mum & I left Iraq because of him & what he did

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It's deffo like that and he should deffo leave her ASAP, like that's bigggg red flags

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Hah? That's weird It's not like that,means? He's enjoying it?!🤔

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Some situations you just need to take a back seat, you can only say a few words. it's not your responsibility, it's his choice to make. many walks of life. i for one am not a fan of that particular lifestyle.

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I’m gonna lean toward that being a 🚩 , but there are some edge cases on what “being hit” entails or if this is just a cover story cause he doesn’t wanna talk about his kinks. But again, 99 times out of 100? 🚩

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I'd leave her. It's not worth the hassle.

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Yeah, thats abuse. I've been hormonal as hell but never gotten physical with someone. He SHOULD leave. (edited)

I beg to differ...I know red flags when I see them because I also have been through it with my dad...my mum & I left Iraq because of him & what he did

It's deffo like that and he should deffo leave her ASAP, like that's bigggg red flags

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I’m gonna lean toward that being a 🚩 , but there are some edge cases on what “being hit” entails or if this is just a cover story cause he doesn’t wanna talk about his kinks. But again, 99 times out of 100? 🚩

I'd leave her. It's not worth the hassle.

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