Situations Community

On Perception

I think one of the saddest things is having to look elsewhere for what should have come from the person who was supposed to give it. It can mean many things, but at its core, it's about longing for something that should have been given freely, without ever needing to ask. Over time, this can... read more

Rejecting Me Before Knowing Me 😂

I was born and raised in Switzerland. I am not religious, nor do I live according to conservative South Asian traditions. I speak Japanese, have studied Japanese culture for years, cook Japanese food, and work within Swiss society. Yet in dating, people sometimes finish judging me before they... read more

Realisation

I realized something important... I don't think I can truly love anyone anymore. I don't think I'm capable of making the kind of sacrifices or promises that heroes make for the people they love. Ever since I lost my relationship, and then my best friend to fate and situations, my heart has turned... read more

Always Improvise!

Improve your situations by making them intrigued by things you can naturally do. How else do you plan on to wow someone?

If you resonate with me

When I drink some alcohol and get tipsy enough, I experience an almost miraculous feeling of great freedom, authenticity and total flowiness in social situations (with a small number of people) . So I use alcohol as a magic potion to experience that freedom when I'm with someone. Drinking alone is... read more

More important things is to be happy in any situations and also believe in God ☝️