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I gain a lot

I eat a lot when stressed

Heya can someone help me process what to do next?

I just spent a 5-year relationship with somebody just for them to cheat on me on the end, and I've kind of dedicated my whole life to this person until the point where I sacrificed a lot of myself self worth and my hobbies that I'm finding it hard to understand what's the next step since everything... read more

What hope could bring

Having hope is a lot like a campfire, it need care tending to. Some time the embers ignite and you get a fire and some times they just go out. If the fire does go out, that's not the end. You just start over. Building that campfire again. I it always going to work out, no. Will you get hurt, yes.... read more

Just don't

A lot of you dudes think this is how you start a relationship but you gotta ask yourself... How has it worked out for you so far??? 🤣

I made a thing after frustration from the job search

So, if you read my bio, I’m a huge idealist. And I like helping people, even when I should be focusing on my own needs. So when I was laid off and out of work for over a year recently, I still tried to help people around me. But then I’m always thinking, how can I make it bigger? How can I make an... read more

I'm not obsessed with weighing myself, but on this specific day I did weigh myself.

Here are two pictures and what my BMI would be if I were my old weight when I was 21 or 22 with my current age. It's quite a noticeable difference especially considering my eating habits that I sometimes show on here. I work more than I get days off, so on days that I work I usually get two full... (edited) read more