Systemic Community

Dear “manifest-ers”:

A soft suggestion that believing you can change your life if you think the “right” thoughts “hard enough” makes the implication that those who are victims to social/ systemic abuses and others who struggle with disabilities are suffering because they didn’t THINK “good enough”. Be wary of what... (edited) read more

Think about it..

"I'm so lazy." "I'm a procrastinator." "I know what I'm supposed to do but I can't seem to do it." "There's something wrong with me." We've heard all of these types of sentences used to describe why people think they're stuck. Whatever the thing is we're stuck with - career, fitness, goals,... read more

Lupus and romance

I had my routine monthly check up and lab tests earlier and I would like to be open about my illness. Lupus is an autoimmune disease, meaning the disease causes the body’s immune system to attack itself. The most common type is systemic lupus erythematosus (SLE), which can cause inflammation and... read more

Crybullyism

It refers to a manipulative tactic where individuals or groups engage in intimidation, harassment, or abuse while simultaneously portraying themselves as victims—especially of perceived social injustices. The term, which has been in use for about a decade, describes a pattern of behavior where the... read more

✺ The Sycophant in the Machine: A Personal Warning ✺

For the past few years, my life and dating experiences have inadvertently become a research ground for a modern crisis: The intellectualization of relationships over human feeling. ​I want to be clear, I am extremely pro-AI. I believe this technology has the potential to change everything for the... read more

Dating

I always find it amusing to listen to people talking about the world of dating. Some say people have become worse. Others say you simply have to learn to play the game better. Curious. When an environment forces decisions in seconds, it is only natural that what succeeds is what can be seen in... read more