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Being a Veteran

Being a veteran is not just about having worn a uniform; it’s about having carried a responsibility that most people will never fully understand. It means standing in defense of something greater than yourself, often at great personal cost. The true meaning of being a veteran is rooted in service,... read more

Its not just your country

When the police in every country are going corrupt theres gotta be some kind of intervention. Should be a high crime to take a public service job and be found to be corrupt, its like having predators as teachers and pastors. Its insane and cannot be tolerated, complete misconduct and misuse of the... (edited) read more

Idk if this is the right place to post this but idk where else to.

I don't feel like a girl because I don't know what it is like to be one. People assign gender roles, they call it “nature because We evolved to be like that”. Hmm. It's a bit silly to me, to hear “men are territorial, they're logical, women are emotional”. Even when I see my contemporaries growing... (edited) read more

Emotional Safety.

Emotional Safety is the foundation for any long term relationship to be successful and healthy. Most people today are unaware that the majority of their relationships lack or are completely missing emotional safety. Especially with our parents, the first relationship dynamic we’re born into. To... read more

Behind the scenes — Is it the people we miss, or the dopamine they once gave us?

I once noticed how consistency creates its own kind of intimacy. Morning wishes. Daily check-ins. Familiar rhythms. Not dramatic — just steady, disciplined presence. Over time, the body learns the pattern. The mind anticipates the reward. Dopamine quietly builds a sense of safety. And what’s... (edited) read more

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