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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Nima uchun mening hududimda boshqa poly odamlarni topish juda qiyin?

Shimoliy Karolina poly

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Men uzoq masofali munosabatdaman va menga yaqinroq bo'lgan qizni topib, vaqt o'tkazish va uchrashish uchun qidiryapman.

3-chi qizni qidiryapman

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Salom hammaga,  

Men o'z hududimda davomiy va ma'noli munosabatlar o'rnatishga qiziqqan o'xshash fikrli odamlar bilan tanishmoqchiman.

Poly, ichki va ma'noli aloqalarni izlayapman

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Poly ga yangi kiryapman, bu birinchi marta. Yaqinda, xotinim vafot etgani sababli, yolg'izman, o'xshash qiziqishlarga ega yangi odamlar bilan tanishishga qiziqaman.

Yangi poly

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Salom, bu yerda poly odamlar bormi?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Salom salom! Mening xotinim va men poliamoriyamiz va men yana bir munosabat uchun ochiqman va qiz do'st qidiryapman. Men shaxsiyatga e'tibor beraman, ko'rinishga emas. Agar qiziqsangiz, menga yozing, agar yo'q bo'lsa, xayr!!

Qidiryapman

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Erim bilan biz jiddiy munosabatlar uchun ayol qidiryapmiz. Qiziqsangiz, menga xabar bering.

Salom

Looking for a female to join us

Ayolni bizga qo'shilishga izlayapmiz

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Odatda men bir erkak yoki ayol turidagi odamman. Lekin 2 ta o'rtasida tanlov qila olmayapman, shuning uchun poli munosabatni sinab ko'rmoqchiman. Men 2 erkakli poli munosabatni afzal ko'raman, lekin har qanday narsa yaxshi, faqat ular 20-yillarning o'rtalarida va 30-yillarga qadar bo'lishini xohlayman. Iltimos, AQShda bo'ling, agar kimdir qiziqsa, izoh qoldiring ☺️

Poli munosabat izlayapman

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

O'z sherik(lar)ingizni sevish va qo'llab-quvvatlash orqali ularning sevimli (yoki yoqtirgan) narsalar (yoki odamlar) bilan qoniqish topishlariga yordam berishning faol fikr tarzi. Ko'pincha nazorat qilish yoki egallash, kirish imkoniyati bo'yicha noaniqlik yoki yo'qotishdan qo'rqish bilan qarshi turadi. Men bog'lanmagan agape tushunchasini va uning komperziya uchun kuchli asos yaratishi mumkinligini hisobga olaman. Ba'zi odamlar bo'shliqlarni to'ldirish uchun ko'proq sherik to'playdilar, lekin bu asosiy muammoni yetarlicha hal qiladimi?

Komperziya

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Salom, yangi narsalarni o'rganishga kirishdim va biz bilan bu sayohatda qatnashish uchun qiziqarli, ochiq fikrli qiz bilan bog'lanmoqchiman 🤭 agar siz qiziqarli vaqt o'tkazishga va bir-birimizni yaxshiroq tanishga tayyor bo'lsangiz, bizga yozing 🫠

Yangi narsalarni sinab ko'rish

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Men o'zimning poliamoriyaga ega bo'lishim mumkinmi, deb o'ylayapman. Lekin men bilmoqchi edim, bu qanday? Men 2 kishi bilan bo'lishim mumkinmi? Sizlar juda baxtlimisiz? Men bu mavzu haqida juda qiziqaman

Menga fikr bering iltimos

New to Boo

Bu ilovadan hozirgacha qanday foydalanyapsiz?

Boo ga yangi

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Men uchinchi shaxsni qidirayotgan juftliklarning bezovta qiluvchi tendentsiyasini ko'rmoqdaman, ular o'zlarini poly deb ta'riflaydilar, bu esa xafa qiladi.
Hech kim o'z sheriklariga ziravor qo'shish uchun foydalaniladigan odamni qidirishi kerak emas, bu polyamoriya emas.
Shuningdek, o'zingizga erkinlik berib, sheriklaringizning tanlovlarini cheklash ham poly emas, bu faqat noaniqlik va nazoratdir.

Biz bu toksik xulq-atvorni poly deb atayotganlarni chaqirishimiz kerak, chunki bu boshqalarga o'tadigan tasvir va bu compersion va biror kishini erkinlashtirish uchun sevishning quvonchiga bo'lgan tushunmovchilikning sababi.

Ovchilar va OPPlar

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Men har doim monogam bo'lganman. Hech qachon xiyonat qilmaganman, hech qachon boshqa tomonga qarab o'tirmaganman. Oxirgi munosabatimning oxiriga va bir yil yolg'iz o'tirgandan so'ng, men yana suzish havuziga qadam qo'yishga qaror qildim.

Endi men bir poly qiz bilan muntazam uchrashyapman va hammasi juda yaxshi, uning vaziyati va menga taklif qilayotgan erkinligi bilan to'liq rozi. Yana bir qiz bilan uchrashuvlar rejalashtirilgan va hatto 20 yil oldin bo'lgan sobiq sevgilim bilan suhbatlashyapman.

Men o'zimni maqtamayapman yoki g'urlanmayapman. (Garchi o'zimni juda omadli deb hisoblasam ham) Lekin qanday qilib birdaniga bunday e'tibor qilyapman? Men uzoq vaqt davomida uchrashuvda bo'lmaganmanmi, shuning uchun hamma narsa o'zgarganmi?

Bu o'zim ustida ishlashim bilan bog'liq bo'lishi mumkin. Yoki yangi topilgan ishonchim bilan. Lekin boshqa odamlar buni qanday qabul qilishini bilishni xohlayapman.

Shunday qilib, bu odatiymi?

We out here 😉

Biz bu yerda 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Faqat bir oz shikoyat. 
Men poligam hayotga yangi kirganman. Butun hayotim davomida monogam bo'lganman. Shuning uchun hasad muammo bo'lishi mumkinligini bilardim, lekin hozirgacha bu muammo emas. Biroq, hech kim menga his qilayotgan potentsial aybni ogohlantirmagan edi. Go'yo men juda yomon bir narsa qilayotganimni his qilaman, garchi men juda baxtli bo'lsam ham. Menga aybdor his-tuyg'ularim haqida jurnal yozishni boshlashim kerakligi aytildi, bu orqali ularni nima sababdan kelayotganini aniqlashga va ehtimol miyamni qayta o'zgartirishga harakat qilishim kerak, deb o'ylayman haha.

Aybdorlik hasadni yengib o'tganda.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Men poli bilan yangi emasman, mening yigitim esa! Mening barcha poli do'stlarim qayerda?! Biz ATL'damiz!!

Poli juftliklar qayerda?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Afsuski, men bu ilovada hali bir oy bo'lmadim, lekin bu yerda juda ko'p, ya'ni juda ko'p poly odamlarni ko'rayapman. Hech qanday sharmanda qilmayapman, lekin sizlarning ochiqligingizdan hayratda qoldim.

Poly ko'tarilmoqda?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Nima uchun ko'p polimardlar munosabatda faqat boshqa ayollarga ruxsat berishadi? Poligamiyadagi sevgi barcha jinslar uchun emasmi?

Asosan polimardlar uchun savol, lekin ayollar ham fikr bildirishlari mumkin.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Mening eng yaqin do'stim taxminan bir yildan beri munosabatda. Uning yigitiga bugun boshqa qiz do'sti kerakligini aytgan, aks holda zerikadi, lekin u uning boshqa hech kim bilan uchrashishini xohlamaydi. U bu Poly yoki ENM munosabatlari uchun odatiy ekanligini tushuntirdi. Kimdir menga tushunishga yordam bera oladimi? Chunki mening fikrimcha, bu yerda biror narsa noto'g'ri.

Faqat bir tez savol.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Men va xotinim boshqa ayolni o'ynash uchun😉 yoki munosabatga qo'shish uchun har joyda qidiryapmiz. U bu g'oyadan juda xursand, chunki u bi va ayollarga juda oshiq. Biz fetlife kabi ko'plab ilovalarda bo'ldik, lekin hech qanday omadga erishmadik. Agar qiziqqan ayollar bo'lsa, biz bilan bog'laning🖤

NCda 3-chi topish imkonsiz

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

Siz qatnashgan eng katta polikulyar qanday?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

Poly Community

Shimoliy Karolina poly

3-chi qizni qidiryapman

Poly, ichki va ma'noli aloqalarni izlayapman

Yangi poly

Salom, bu yerda poly odamlar bormi?

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