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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Kí nìdí tí ó fi nira tó láti rí àwọn ènìyàn poly míì ní agbègbè mi?

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Mo wa ninu ibasepo ijinna gigun ati pe mo n wa ọmọbirin to sunmọ mi lati ba a lọ ati lati ṣe ọjọ.

N wa 3rd

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii, ṣe ẹnikẹni wa ti o jẹ poly?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey gbogbo eniyan,  

Mo n wa lati pade awọn eniyan ti o ni ero kanna ni agbegbe mi ti yoo nifẹ si ifẹ pẹlu ero ti nkan ti n lọ lọwọ ati ti o ni itumọ.

Poly, ti a fi sinu ati wiwa awọn asopọ to ni itumọ

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Titun si Poly n gbiyanju nkan yii, o jẹ ṣaaju akoko akọkọ. Laipẹ, nikan nitori iku iyawo yẹn, mo nifẹ lati pade awọn eniyan tuntun pẹlu awọn ifẹ ti o jọra

Titun poly

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Solo/poly

Bawo ni awọn obinrin, jẹ ki a sọrọ

In the growing world of poly what’s the mistake you made but glad you learned that lesson…. Please be open minded AB’s don’t be shy no judge here

Hot take

Ninu aye ti n dagba ti poly, kini aṣiṣe ti o ṣe ṣugbọn o ni inudidun pe o kọ ẹkọ yẹn…. Jọwọ jẹ ki o ni ọkan ṣiṣi, AB's, ma ṣe bẹru, ko si idajọ nibi

Ikunra

Post a pic Atlanta addition if you not scared

Atlanta maybe

Fi aworan kan silẹ Atlanta afikun ti o ko ba bẹru

Atlanta boya

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Bawo bawo! Iya mi ati emi jẹ́ poly, mo sì ń ṣí sí ìbáṣepọ̀ míràn, mo sì ń wá ọrẹbinrin. Mo fẹ́ ìwà, kì í ṣe ìran. Tí o bá nífẹ̀ẹ́, kọ́ mi, tí kò bá rí bẹ́ẹ̀, ó dáa!!

Wíwo

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Ọkọ mi ati emi n wa ibasepọ to serious pẹlu obinrin kan. Ti o ba nifẹ, fi ifiranṣẹ ranṣẹ si mi.

Bawo

Looking for a female to join us

N wa obinrin kan lati darapọ mọ wa

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Nigbagbogbo, emi ni iru ọkunrin tabi obinrin kan. Ṣugbọn emi ko le yan laarin awọn 2 nitorina mo fẹ lati gbiyanju poly. Mo fẹran poly ọkunrin 2 ṣugbọn ohunkohun dara, kan fẹ ki wọn wa ni ayika ọjọ-ori 20s arin ati 30. Jọwọ wa ni U.S. tun ṣe asọye ti ẹnikan ba nifẹ ☺️

N wa ibasepọ poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Iwa-ọrọ ti n ṣiṣẹ ti ifẹ ati atilẹyin fun alabaṣiṣẹpọ rẹ ni wiwa itẹlọrun nipa ṣiṣe awọn nkan (tabi awọn eniyan) ti wọn fẹ (tabi fẹran). Nigbagbogbo ni idakeji nipasẹ aini lati ṣakoso tabi ni, aibikita lori iraye, tabi iberu ti pipadanu. Mo ronu nipa imọran ti agape ti ko ni asopọ ati bi o ṣe le ṣẹda ipilẹ to lagbara fun ifẹ ti ko ni asopọ. Diẹ ninu awọn eniyan n gba awọn alabaṣiṣẹpọ diẹ sii lati kun awọn aaye, ṣugbọn ṣe eyi le to lati koju iṣoro ti o wa ni ipilẹ?

Ife ti ko ni asopọ

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey there, n bẹrẹ lati ṣawari awọn nkan tuntun ati n wa lati sopọ pẹlu ọmọbirin ti o ni igbadun, ti o ni ifẹ si iwari ati ti o ni ọkan ṣiṣi lati darapọ mọ wa lori irin-ajo yii 🤭 ti o ba fẹran igbadun ati lati mọ ara wa dara julọ, kan kan si wa 🫠

Nṣiṣẹ nkan tuntun

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Mo n beere boya emi funra mi le jẹ poly tabi rara. Ṣugbọn mo fẹ lati mọ, bawo ni o ṣe jẹ? Ṣe o ṣee ṣe ki n ri ara mi pẹlu awọn eniyan 2? Ṣe ẹyin ni idunnu pupọ? Mo n fẹran lati mọ nipa koko-ọrọ yii

Jọwọ fun mi ni imọ

New to Boo

Bawo ni o ṣe fẹran ohun elo yii titi di isisiyi?

Tuntun si Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Mo ti n ri iwa ti o n fa ibanuje ti awon tọkọtaya n wa pataki fun ẹnikan kẹta ti wọn n pe ara wọn ni poly, ati pe eyi n fa ibanuje.
Ko si ẹnikan ti o yẹ ki o n wa eniyan ti a le foju kọ lati fi kun ifẹ wọn, eyi kii ṣe polyamory.
Bakanna, didena awọn aṣayan awọn alabaṣiṣẹpọ rẹ nigba ti o ni ominira fun ara rẹ kii ṣe poly, eyi jẹ aibikita ati iṣakoso.

A nilo lati pe awọn eniyan wọnyi ti o n pe ara wọn ni poly ti o jẹ iparun, nitori eyi ni aworan ti a n gbe si awọn miiran, ati idi ti o fi jẹ pe a ni ọpọlọpọ aiyede nipa compersion ati ayọ ti ifẹ ẹnikan to lati free wọn.

Awon Olobo ati OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Mo ti jẹ́ ẹni kan ṣoṣo nígbà gbogbo. Kò sí ìtanràn, kò sí ìfọwọ́kan pẹ̀lú ẹlòmíràn. Kó lọ sí ipari ìbáṣepọ́ mi tó kẹhin àti ọdún kan ti mo ti jẹ́ aláìní, mo pinnu láti bẹ̀rẹ̀ sí í fi ẹsẹ̀ mi sínú omi.

Báyìí, mo ń rí obìnrin poly kan nígbà gbogbo, àti pé gbogbo nkan ń lọ dáadáa, mo ní ìbáṣepọ́ pẹ̀lú ipo rẹ àti ìfẹ́ tó ń fún mi. Ọ̀pọ̀ ọjọ́ ìpàdé ni mo ti ṣètò pẹ̀lú ẹlòmíràn laipẹ́, àti pé paapaa ex kan láti ọdún 20 sẹ́yìn ń bá mi sọ̀rọ̀.

N kò ń fi ẹ̀sùn kàn tàbí kópa. (Bí ó tilẹ̀ jẹ́ pé mo kà ara mi sí ẹni tó ní orire) Ṣùgbọ́n báwo ni ó ṣe jẹ́ pé ní àkókò yìí, mo ń gba gbogbo àkíyèsí yìí? Ṣé ó ti pé tó bẹ́ẹ̀ tí mo ti ń ṣe ìbáṣepọ́ pé àwọn nkan ti yí padà?

Ó lè ní nkan ṣe pẹ̀lú iṣẹ́ lori ara mi, ó dájú. Ó lè jẹ́ pẹ̀lú ìgboyà tuntun mi. Ṣùgbọ́n mo ń rò ohun tí àwọn ènìyàn míì lè rò nípa rẹ.

Nítorí náà, ṣe eyi jẹ́ àṣà?

We out here 😉

A wa nibi 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Kan diẹ ninu ikọlu. 
Mo jẹ tuntun si igbesi aye poly. Mo ti jẹ monogamous ni gbogbo igbesi aye mi. Nitorinaa mo mọ pe ikorira le jẹ iṣoro ṣugbọn titi di isisiyi ko si. Sibẹsibẹ, ko si ẹnikan ti o sọ fun mi nipa ẹbi ti o ṣee ṣe ki n ni. Bi mo ṣe n ṣe nkan ti ko tọ ni ọna ti o buruju paapaa bi mo ṣe ni ayọ pupọ. A sọ fun mi lati bẹrẹ kikọ nipa awọn ẹdun ẹbi mi lati gbiyanju lati wa ohun ti n fa wọn ati boya tun ṣe ọpọlọ mi, mo ro pe haha.

Nigbati ẹbi ba lagbara ju ikorira lọ.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Mi o ti i ṣe tuntun si poly, ọrẹ mi ni! Nibo ni gbogbo awọn eniyan poly mi wa?! A wa ni ATL!!

Nibo ni awọn tọkọtaya poly wa?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Káàbọ̀, mi ò tiẹ̀ wà lórí àpẹ̀rẹ́ yìí fún oṣù kan ṣoṣo ṣùgbọ́n mo ti rí ọ̀pọ̀lọpọ̀ àwọn poly nínú ẹ̀yà yìí. Kò sí ìkànsí rárá ṣùgbọ́n mo ní ìyàlẹ́nu pé báwo ni ẹ̀yin ṣe ṣí i.

Poly lori ilosoke?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Kí nìdí tí ọpọlọpọ awọn ọkunrin poly fi n gba awọn obinrin miiran nikan ninu ibasepọ? Ṣe ifẹ poly ko jẹ fun gbogbo awọn akọ ati abo?

Ibeere fun awọn ọkunrin poly julọ ṣugbọn awọn obinrin tun wa lati fi ẹsun.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Ọrẹ mi to dara julo ti wa ninu ibasepo fun ọdun kan. Ọkọ rẹ sọ fun un loni pe o nilo ọrẹbinrin miiran tabi o ma ni irẹwẹsi, ṣugbọn ko fẹ ki o ri ẹnikẹni miiran. O ṣalaye pe eyi jẹ deede fun awọn ibasepo Poly tabi ENM. Ṣe ẹnikan le ran mi lọwọ lati ye? Nitori nkan kan ninu omi ko ni omi nibi ni ero mi.

Kan ibeere kiakia.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Mo ati iyawo mi ti n wa ni gbogbo ibi ti o ṣee ṣe fun obinrin miiran lati joko pẹlu😉 tabi lati fi kun ibasepọ wa. O ni itara pupọ nipa ero naa, nitori pe o jẹ bi ati pe o nifẹ awọn obinrin gaan. A ti wa lori ọpọlọpọ awọn ohun elo pẹlu fetlife, ati pe a ko ti ni orire. Ti awọn obinrin eyikeyi ba nifẹ, ma ṣe ṣiyemeji lati kan si wa🖤

Poly Community

North Carolina poly

N wa 3rd

Hiiii, ṣe ẹnikẹni wa ti o jẹ poly?

Poly, ti a fi sinu ati wiwa awọn asopọ to ni itumọ

Titun poly

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Nigbati wọn...

Poly jẹ ẹwa

N wa ọrẹbinrin gidi, emi jẹ poly

Ṣe o ti tan ẹtan ki o si gba ara rẹ pada?

37 F Newcastle

Poly ni arkansas