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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Kungani kunzima kangaka ukuthola abanye abantu bepholiyu endaweni yami?

Ipholiyu yaseNorth Carolina

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Ngisemshadweni wesikhathi eside futhi ngifuna intombazane eseduze nami ukuze sibe ndawonye futhi sithandane.

Sifuna u-3rd

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii kukhona abantu abaninzi be-poly?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey nonke,  

Ngifuna ukuhlangana nabantu abacabanga ngendlela efanayo endaweni yami abangathanda ukuhamba nabanye ngenhloso yokuthola okuthile okuqhubekayo futhi okunomqondo.

Poly, enezinhlaka futhi ifuna ukuxhumana okunomqondo

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Ngisanda kujoyina iPoly ngizama le nto, kusemva kwesikhathi sokuqala. Muva nje, ngiyedwa ngenxa yokushona kwalesi sithandwa, ngithakasile ukuhlangana nabantu abasha abanentshisekelo efanayo

Ipholi elisha

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Solo/poly

In the growing world of poly what’s the mistake you made but glad you learned that lesson…. Please be open minded AB’s don’t be shy no judge here

Hot take

Emhlabeni okhulayo we-poly, yisiphi isiphakamiso osenze, kodwa ujabule ukuthi ufunde leyo mfundo.... Ngiyacela ukuba uvulelekile, AB, ungabe uthukuthezi, akukho ukwahlulela lapha

Ukuthatha okushisayo

Post a pic Atlanta addition if you not scared

Atlanta maybe

Thumela isithombe sokwengeza e-Atlanta uma ungakheshi

Atlanta mhlawumbe

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Sawubona sawubona! Mina nomkazi wami siyabambisana futhi ngivulekile kokunye ubudlelwano futhi ngifuna intombi. Ngibheka ubuntu hhayi ukubukeka. Uma unentshisekelo ngithumele imiyalezo uma kungenjalo byeee!!

Ukubheka

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Um husband no mina sifuna ubudlelwano obukhulu nomfazi. Uma unentshisekelo, ngithumele umlayezo.

Sawubona

Looking for a female to join us

Sifuna owesifazane ozohlanganyela nathi

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Ngokuvamile ngiyindoda eyodwa noma owesifazane. Kodwa angikwazi ukukhetha phakathi kwalezi zimbili ngakho ngifuna ukuzama i-poly. Ngithanda i-poly yamadoda amabili kodwa noma yini iyavuma, ngifuna kuphela ukuba baphakathi kweminyaka engama-20s naku-30. Ngiyacela ukuba nibe e-U.S. futhi nikhulume uma othile ethakazelisa ☺️

Sifuna ubudlelwano be-poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Umqondo osebenzayo wokuthanda nokweseka ozakwethu ekutholeni ukwaneliseka ukwenza izinto (noma abantu) abathandayo (noma abathandayo). Imvamisa ibhekwa njengokuphikisana nesidingo sokulawula noma sokuba nempahla, ukungaqiniseki ngaccess, noma ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa. Ngicabanga ngencazelo ye-agape engaxhunyiwe futhi ukuthi ingakha kanjani isisekelo esiqinile sokuthokozisa. Abanye abantu baqoqana nabanye ozakwethu ukuze bagcwalise izikhala, kodwa ingabe lokho kungaxazulula kahle inkinga engaphansi?

Ukuthokozisa

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey there, siqala ukuhlola izinto ezintsha futhi sifuna ukuxhumana nentombazane ejabulayo, enomdlandla futhi evulekile ukuze ijoyine le ndlela 🤭 uma unentshisekelo yokujabula nokwazi kangcono, sithinte 🫠

Zama okuthile okusha

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Ngiyazibuza ukuthi ngabe ngingaba poly noma cha. Kodwa ngifuna ukwazi, kuyini? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ngithole abantu ababili? Ninjani, niyajabula kakhulu? Ngithakazelela kakhulu le ndaba

Ngicela ukuqonda plz

New to Boo

Uyayithanda kanjani le app kuze kube manje?

Okwamanje ku-Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Ngibone umkhuba ophazamisayo wezimbangi ezithile zifuna owesithathu ozichaza njenge-poly, futhi lokhu kuyadabukisa. 
Akekho okufanele abheke umuntu ongasebenzi ukuze enze ubudlelwano babo bube ne-spice, lokho akusilo i-polyamory. 
Ngokufanayo, ukuvinjwa kwezinketho zabalingani bakho ngenkathi unenkululeko yokwenza okuthandayo akusilo i-poly, lokho kuyinselelo nokulawula.

Sidinga ukubiza lezi zinto eziyingozi ezizibiza njenge-poly, ngoba leyo yisithombe esidluliselwa kwabanye, futhi kungani kunokungaqondi kahle okukhulu nge-compersion nokujabula kokuthanda umuntu ngokwanele ukuze umkhulule.

Abazingeli kanye ne-OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Ngihlale ngiyindoda eyodwa. Angikaze ngikhaphele, angikaze ngibheke ngakolunye uhlangothi. Phuma phambili ekupheleni kobudlelwano bami bokugcina nenyanga eyodwa yokuba ngedwa, nginqume ukuqala ukufaka izinyawo zami emanzini.

Manje sengibona intombazane eyodwa ye-poly njalo futhi izinto ziya kahle, ngiyavuma ngesimo sakhe kanye nenkululeko esinikeza yona. Kukhona nezinye izinsuku ezihlelwe nezinye, futhi ngisho ne-ex engiyaziyo eminyakeni engama-20 edlule ikhuluma nami.

Angikhulumi ngokuqhakambisa noma ukujabulisa. (Noma ngabe ngizithola ngiyinsizwa ethokozisayo) Kodwa kungani ngokuzumayo, ngithola le mikhankaso yonke? Ingabe kudlule isikhathi eside ngingakaze ngidate kangangokuthi izinto zishintshile?

Kungenzeka kube nokuthile okuhlobene nokusebenza kimi. Kungenzeka kube nokuzethemba engikutholile. Kodwa ngiyazibuza ukuthi abanye abantu bangakubona kanjani.

Ngakho, lokhu kujwayelekile?

We out here 😉

Sikhona lapha 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Ngithanda ukuveza okuncane. 
Ngisanda kuqala ukuphila kwe-poly. Bengiyiphila impilo yodwa impilo yami yonke. Ngakho ngazi ukuthi ukukhathazeka kungaba inselele kodwa kuze kube manje akukhona. Nokho, akekho owangixwayisa ngalesi sikhathi esingaba khona sokuzizwa ngiphoxekile. Njengoba ngizizwa ngenza okuthile okungalungile nakuba ngijabule kakhulu. Ngatshelwa ukuthi ngiqale ukubhala ngezizathu zami zokuziphoxisa ukuze ngizame ukuthola ukuthi yini ebangela lezi zimo futhi mhlawumbe ngithole indlela yokushintsha ubuchopho bami ngicabanga haha.

Lapho icala likhulu kunokukhathazeka.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Angisakhulumi ngama-poly, umngani wami uyakhula! Kuphi bonke abantu bami be-poly?! Sise-ATL!!

Kuphi ama-poly couples?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Hayi, angikaze ngibe kule app inyanga ephelele kodwa ngibone abaningi, futhi ngisho ALOT, abantu be-poly lapha. Angikashayi phansi nhlobo kodwa ngiyamangala kakhulu ukuthi niyavuleka kangakanani.

I-Poly ikhuluma?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Kungani abanye abesilisa abane-poly bevumela kuphela abanye abesifazane ebudlelwaneni? Ingabe uthando lwe-poly alubandakanyi zonke izinhlobo zobulili?

Umbuzo kubantu abaninzi abane-poly kodwa abesifazane bayamukelwa ukuba baphawule.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Umngane wami omkhulu ubekade enobudlelwano cishe unyaka. Uboyfriend wakhe umtshele namuhla ukuthi udinga omunye umngane wesifazane noma uzoba nempilo, kodwa akafuni ukuthi abone omunye umuntu. Uchaze ukuthi lokhu kuvamile kubudlelwano be-Poly noma be-ENM. Ingabe othile angangisiza ngokuqonda? Ngoba okuthile emanzini akukhanyi kahle lapha ngokombono wami.

Ngicela umbuzo osheshayo.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Mina nomkazi wami sibe sesifuna yonke indawo engaba khona omunye owesifazane ukuze adlale nathi😉 noma engeze emshadweni. Ujabulile kakhulu ngalesi siqondo, ngoba ungowesilisa futhi uthanda abesifazane. Sibe sebenzisa izinhlelo eziningi kuhlanganise ne-fetlife, futhi asikatholi nethuba. Uma kukhona abesifazane abanentshisekelo, zizwe ukhululekile ukusithinta🖤

Poly Community

Ipholiyu yaseNorth Carolina

Sifuna u-3rd

Hiiii kukhona abantu abaninzi be-poly?

Poly, enezinhlaka futhi ifuna ukuxhumana okunomqondo

Ipholi elisha

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

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Lapho be...

UPoly muhle

Uthengile futhi waphinda wazitholela?

37 F Newcastle

Poly e-arkansas