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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Me ya sa yake da wahala a sami wasu mutane poly a yankina?

Poly na North Carolina

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Sannu kowa,  

Ina neman haɗuwa da mutane masu tunani iri ɗaya a yankina waɗanda za su kasance da sha'awar yin soyayya tare da niyyar wani abu mai ci gaba da ma'ana.

Poly, nested da neman haɗin kai mai ma'ana

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Sabon ga Poly yana gwada wannan abu, kafin lokaci na farko. Kwanan nan, na zama guda saboda mutuwar matar, ina sha'awar haduwa da sabbin mutane masu sha'awa iri ɗaya

Sabon poly

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii akwai wasu mutane masu poly?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Ina cikin dangantaka mai nisa kuma ina neman wata yarinya kusa da ni don mu yi hawan jiki da kuma fita tare.

Neman 3rd

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Sannu sannu! Ni da matata muna poly kuma ina bude don wata dangantaka kuma ina neman budurwa. Ina son halaye ba kyan gani ba. Idan kana da sha'awa ka tura min saƙo idan ba haka ba byeee!!

Neman

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Mijina da ni muna neman dangantaka mai tsanani da mace. Idan kina da sha'awa, aiko min da saƙo.

Sannu

Looking for a female to join us

Neman mace don ta shiga tare da mu

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Yawanci ni mutum ne mai son mace ko namijin daya. Amma ba zan iya zabar tsakanin su biyu ba don haka ina son gwada poly. Ina son poly na maza biyu amma komai yana da kyau kawai ina so su kasance a cikin shekaru na tsaka da 20 zuwa 30. Don Allah ku kasance a cikin Amurka. Hakanan ku yi sharhi idan wani yana sha'awar ☺️

Neman dangantaka ta poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Hankalin aiki na son da goyon bayan abokin tarayya(ku) wajen samun gamsuwa ta hanyar yin abubuwan (ko mutane) da suke so (ko suka so). Yawanci ana mayar da hankali kan bukatar sarrafawa ko mallaka, rashin kwanciyar hankali kan samun dama, ko tsoron asara. Ina duba ra'ayin soyayya mara alaka da juna da yadda zai iya gina tushe mai karfi ga compersion. Wasu mutane suna tara karin abokan tarayya don cike gibin, amma shin hakan zai iya magance matsalar da ke ƙasa?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Sannu, ina fara bincika sabbin abubuwa kuma ina neman haɗi da wata yarinya mai nishadi, sha'awa da tunani mai buɗewa don ta shiga tare da mu a wannan tafiya 🤭 idan kina son jin daɗi da sanin juna sosai, ki tuntube mu 🫠

Gwada wani sabon abu

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Ina tambaya ko ni ma zan iya zama poly ko a'a. Amma ina so in san, me ya kasance? Shin zai yiwu in sami kaina tare da mutane 2? Kuna da karin farin ciki? Ina matukar sha'awar wannan batu

Ba ni da haske don Allah

New to Boo

Sabon shiga Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Na ga wani yanayi mai damuwa na ma'aurata da ke neman wanda za su hada da su wanda ke bayyana kansu a matsayin poly, kuma wannan yana ba da damuwa.
Babu wanda ya kamata ya nemi mutum mai wucewa don kara dandano ga hadin gwiwarsu, wannan ba polyamory ba ne.
Haka kuma, takaita zabin abokan hulɗarka yayin da kake da 'yancin yin komai ba poly ba ne, wannan kawai rashin kwanciyar hankali ne da iko.

Muna bukatar mu kira waɗannan masu cutarwa da ke kiran kansu poly, saboda wannan shine hoton da ake watsa wa wasu, kuma dalilin da ya sa akwai rashin fahimta mai yawa game da compersion da farin cikin son wani isasshe don 'yantar da su.

Masu farauta da OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Na kasance mai monogamous koyaushe. Ban taɓa yin ƙarya ba, ban taɓa duba gefe ba. A cikin lokacin ƙarshe na dangantaka da kuma shekara guda na zama kadai, na yanke shawarar fara shigar da ƙafafuna cikin tafkin.

Yanzu ina ganin wata yarinya poly akai-akai kuma abubuwa suna tafiya da kyau, ina jin daɗin halin da take ciki da 'yancin da hakan ke ba ni. Akwai wasu ranakun haduwa da wani nan ba da daɗewa ba, har ma da tsohuwar masoyiya daga shekaru 20 da suka wuce tana tattaunawa da ni.

Ba na yin alfahari ko yin fakhari. (Duk da cewa ina ɗaukar kaina a matsayin mai sa'a sosai) Amma me ya sa a nan take, ina samun duk wannan kulawa? Shin ya dade tun lokacin da na yi soyayya har abubuwa sun canza?

Zai iya zama yana da alaƙa da aikin da nake yi akan kaina tabbas. Zai iya zama tare da sabuwar kwarin gwiwa ta. Amma ina tunanin abin da wasu mutane zasu iya yi da shi.

Toh, shin wannan al'ada ce?

We out here 😉

Muna nan 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Kadan ne kawai na fitar da zuciya. 
Sabon shiga ne a rayuwar poly. Na kasance mai zaman lafiya a duk rayuwata. Don haka na san kishi na iya zama ƙalubale amma har yanzu ba haka bane. Duk da haka, babu wanda ya yi mini gargadi game da yiwuwar laifin da zan iya ji. Kamar ina yin wani abu mai muni duk da cewa ina matuƙar farin ciki. An gaya mini in fara rubuta ra'ayina game da jin laifina don in gwada gano abin da ke haifar da su kuma watakila in sake tsara kwakwalwata, ina tsammanin haha.

Lokacin da laifin ya fi kishi ƙarfi.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Ba sabon abu bane a gare ni poly, abokina ne! Ina dukkanin poly peeps dina suke?! Muna cikin ATL!!

Ina poly couples suke?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Kai, ban kasance a wannan manhaja ba tsawon wata guda amma na ga mutane da yawa, kuma ina nufin DA YAWA na masu poly a nan. Ba na jin kunya ko kadan amma ina mamakin yadda kuke bude.

Poly a kan karuwa?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Me ya sa yawancin maza masu yawa ke ba da izinin wasu mata kawai a cikin dangantakar? Shin soyayyar poly ba ta ga duk jinsin ba?

Tambaya ga maza masu yawa amma mata suna da damar bayar da ra'ayi.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Mafi kyawun abokina yana cikin dangantaka na kusan shekara guda. Namijin da yake tare da ita ya gaya mata yau cewa yana bukatar wata budurwa ko kuma zai gaji, amma ba ya son ta ga wani. Ya bayyana cewa wannan yana da al'ada ga dangantakar Poly ko ENM. Shin wani na iya taimaka mini in fahimta? Domin wani abu a cikin ruwa ba ya yi danshi a nan a ra'ayina.

Tambaya mai sauri.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Ni da matata muna neman ko'ina mai yiwuwa don wata mace ta biyu ko don ta shiga cikin dangantakar. Tana da matukar farin ciki da wannan ra'ayi, kasancewar ita mai jima'i ne da kuma tana son mata sosai. Mun kasance a kan apps da yawa ciki har da fetlife, kuma ba mu sami sa'a ba. Idan akwai wasu mata masu sha'awa, ku ji dadin tuntube mu🖤

nemo wani na 3 a NC ba zai yiwu ba

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

Menene mafi girman polycule da ka kasance cikin sa?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

ni da saurayina muna neman wata yarinya don mu yi hira, idan kina sha'awa amos: txrichann

nema wata ta 3

A Boo community for meeting other Poly enthusiasts.

Poly Community

Poly na North Carolina

Poly, nested da neman haɗin kai mai ma'ana

Sabon poly

Hiiii akwai wasu mutane masu poly?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Neman 3rd

Ina Poly Pagans dina

Tare da juna❤️ vs kadai mai zaman kansa

Ba na son tsohuwar masoyiyata...

Shin ka yi zamba ka kuma dawo da kanka?

Neman gaske budurwa ina poly

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