Hapori Nagging
Te hapori nagging, kōrero, me te matapaki.
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Te hapori nagging, kōrero, me te matapaki.
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nagging
Tūtaki Tāngata Hou
TIKIAKENGA
Kāore anō he tuhinga!
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[Ka whakakīia e ia te nuinga o te tangata kāore e pā ana ki ngā kōrero mō te koiora, ina koa i te wā e ngana ana te tangata ki te tuku karere i ngā wā maha, i mua...ā, e mōhio ana koe kua kite rātou i tō koiora, i tētahi o ēnei pou, i reira e kī ana koe kāore e whakaae i ngā tono e haere mai ana.…pānui atu

Kāore au e hiahia ki te rongo pēnei Ka hoki ngā tautohetohe i roto i taku roro I kōrerohia ētahi mea kāore e pono, engari he pānga Ngā he e kawe ana ki te āhua o te mataku mau tonu Ko taku whakamarumaru emociona he tino kaha Kua ngenge au i te mea ko te pai anake Ko ngā whakaaro pai e pātea ana…pānui atu
He wheako i te tinana i pā mai i ngā tau ki muri. I te wā i puta au i te ata, i te rangi i te rangi, i te rangi i te rangi, i te rangi i te rangi, i te rangi i te rangi, i te rangi i te rangi, i te rangi i te rangi, i te rangi i te rangi, i te rangi i te rangi, i te rangi i te rangi, i te rangi i…( whakatikahia )pānui atu
Ko te kore e mate he raru, ko te mea e whai ana nga tangata mo nga whakatipuranga i runga i nga whakatipuranga. Ko te raru matua mo te kore e mate ko te noho ki a koe, to ahua o te hinengaro me te pono e pa ana ki te mea ko nga mea katoa me nga tangata katoa i aroha koe ki a ratou kua ngaro. A ko…pānui atu
Ka pā ahau ki te "mea", he mea iti engari pēnā i te pīrori i roto i taku rūma, ka pāngia ahau e ia. Ā, mai i tēnei pīrori ka taea e au te ako. Ki te ako i te akoranga mai i te riri. I te wā i "tūpono" ahau i taku whai wāhi ki te ako i tētahi mea i runga i taku ake, i tino riri ahau. Ā, i reira ka…( whakatikahia )pānui atu
Nui ngā kupu He iti te whakangā Ko taku hiahia ki te mātaki I te mea kāore e mau i te pā Ka whakarereke ngā reta Engari ka whakahoki ēnei kaupapa Ngā pou i runga i te whārangi Ā, kāore e pēnei te kōrero Ngā pou o taku whare herehere Kua whakatuwheratia, ā, he free Engari kāore e taea te…pānui atu


I haere au ki te ongo'i kāore, he whakaritenga nā taku hoa pai. I te wā i kite au i a ia, i te mea i pā mai he āhuatanga māmā, he āhua mōhio, pēnā i te waiata e kore e mahara. He ātaahua, he witi, ā, he tino pai, engari i mau tonu te rongo o te mōhio, e noho ana i te taha o te rangi. I te ongo'i, i…pānui atu

Kei te haere au ki te whakaaturanga a Anuv Jain i Mumbai i te marama o Pēpuere, me rapu au i tētahi rā, kei te pānui mai āku hoa, kaua e awangawanga mō ngā tikiti. Hmu
I te pōuri i tupu ai tēnei kākanorau E ngana ana ki te whakatau i tētahi pātai Me te haurua o ngā tohu Ko te tūmanako e noho ana hei kōrero pāpāho I te mea e hangai ana au hei kākanorau tino pōuri Ko te maumahara o inanahi E pērā ana me ngā kōrero tawhito Kei te pīkau tonu te pīkau i roto i…pānui atu
Tēnā pea he mahi tino uaua te mārenatanga me te whai tamariki i te mea e whakaaro ana au. He maha ngā pārihita i te mīhana, i ētahi atu wāhi, e pāngia ana e te nui o te whakatūpato... Ko te wā katoa e poipoi ana ki ngā tamariki. He whakaritenga. He aha te āhua o tēnei, kei te whai tangata e hiahia…pānui atu
He aha ngā whakaaro o te katoa mō tēnei kaupapa? I te mea pono, ki te kore e pai te tangata e rāngai ana au, ka whiriwhiri au kāore e rāngai ki tētahi māmā anō....i taku pakeke, 39, kāore au i tutaki ki tētahi tangata e hiahia ana mātou ki te marena, ki te whai tamariki...e hiahia ana au ki tētahi,…pānui atu
I whai wāhi koe ki te rongo pōuri i te wā kotahi, ā, e pā ana ki a koe.. Ā, ka ngana koe ki te kimi i te take, e tumanako ana ki te whakaiti i te rongo.. Tērā pea he mea ā-tinana, pērā i ngā hormone e raru ana? Te pēhi i te mahi? Te awangawanga mō ngā mahere kei te heke mai? Kāore e taea e au te…pānui atu
Ko te ātaahua e tango ana i ngā tāne, engari ko te mōhio e pupuni ana i a rātou. Ko te ātaahua e hopu ana i te aro o ngā tāne, engari ko te mōhio e whakapumau ana i a rātou. Ko te pānui e riri ana i ngā tāne, engari ko te noho pātea e ngaro ana i a rātou. He raru huna tā ngā tāne me ngā mamae…( whakatikahia )pānui atu

Tēnā whakamātau ki te whakamahi i tētahi tuhinga piri, i te taha o tētahi pepa rerekē. Ka tīmata koe ki te tuhi kāore e taea te mutu. Kāore e taea te mutu tae noa ki te wā ka puta ngā whakaaro pātea katoa. Ka whakarite ahau ki te mahi i tēnei i ngā haora i mua i te moe. I te mea e mau ana au i ngā…( whakatikahia )pānui atu

Kaore au i te mōhio mēnā he wāhi tika tēnei ki te tuku i tēnei, tbf i te mea kāore pea au e taea te tuku i raro i te pātea i te ata, kāore pea au e tika ki te tuku i te katoa engari he raru mōku i te wā e haere ake nei. Kei te... kei te wehi au. Kei te wehi au i ngā mea maha, kei te wehi au i te…pānui atu
Kua kite au i tēnei whakaaro, arā, mēnā kāore he wahine pātea, hei tauira, te whai, te kino, te whakatoi, te whakatūpato, te tirotiro i ngā waea/ wāhi, kāore he tāne e hiahia ana, e kī ana rātou kāore, engari ko ā rātou kōwhiringa e kī ana āe. I tua atu, kei te noho tēnei pātea pūtea, ā, he rārangi…pānui atu
He tangata kē e whai ana i ēnei momo kōrero, i ngā kupu waiata e pāngia ana e koe, e riri ana, e mau ana ki te roro, me te rongo e hiahia ana kia kōrerohia?
Kei te tata ahau ki te 40 haora i tenei wa. I whai moe pai ahau mo te 12 haora🥺😳 he mea whakamiharo, eh? Haha. Ko taku kai whakamutunga i te 39 haora ki muri. I te oho ake, e kai ana taku whaea i te lumpia me te parāoa e pērā ana i te pizza, grabe sobrang bango ng bahay hahaha (te whare e kakara…pānui atu

He hoa tāku he wahine nāna i whakaatu he whakawhitinga hou i pāngia e ia me te tāne i whakaaro ia he tino pai. I raru ia i ā rātou whakawhitinga, ā, i hiahia ia ki te awhina. I tuku ahau i taku awhina, ā, ināianei e hiahia ana ahau ki te rongo me pēhea te whakamaori i tēnei i waho. I whakawhiwhia…pānui atu

He aha te take e whakaarohia ana ko te “Pātea i te Iwi” nāna i pā mai i te hiahia/whakaaro o te tangata ki te aroha? Ka whakaae au ki ngā mahi e kiia ana hei “Pātea i te Iwi”, engari ko aku whāinga e noho ana ki roto i tētahi o ngā kāwai e rua: 1) te āwhina me te hiahia pono kāore e hiahia ki te…pānui atu
Ka hiahia te katoa ki te wahine pai… tae noa ki te pehi ia koe ki te whakatūpato. Nō reira, koinei te pono.... Kaore te wahine pai e noho pātea i a koe e tuku ana i te haurua o tō mahi. Kaore ia e whakaae ki te whakahaerea i te ara e pā ana ki a ia, ā, ka whakapae koia te mea e taea ana. Kaore ia e…pānui atu
Ka ki ahau, kei te timata tēnei ki te noho hei kaupapa pātea i taku ao, i runga ipurangi, i waho hoki. Kei reira ngā tāngata e aro ana ki te haurua o ngā kōrero e kī ana au, ā, ka ngana ki te haere ki te ara whakahiato, kāore e pāngia. Engari kāore rātou i whakarongo. Ahakoa, i ngā take pēnei,…pānui atu
Engari inaianei, kei te pērā. Ka pai, kāore e taea te whakatūpato. Kāore e taea te kōrero noa iho, kāore e taea te reo pēpi. Ā, me te āhua rorirori e titiro ana ki a koe. Ka tino kino ahau i ngā tautohetohe roa, nāna e awhi mai, ka noho marino ahau, kātahi ka whakarongo au ki ngā whakamārama katoa…pānui atu

Ko te tata kaore e hanga whanaungatanga, ko te tiaki i ngā kare ā-roto o te tangata e hanga ana, e pupuri ana i ngā whanaungatanga. Mēnā he tangata kei a koe e mārama ana ki a koe, e manawanui ana ki a koe, e aroha ana ki a koe, e tiaki ana i a koe, e whakaute ana i a koe, e whakakake ana i a koe,…pānui atu
Ki te aroha ahau i te tika, ka nui ake taku whakakāhoretanga i te whakatūpato


Kua rongo koe i te rongo e pā ana ki te mea kei roto i tō ao e 'hē' ana - engari kāore e taea e koe te kī i te mea? I te "The Matrix", i mōhio a Morpheus ki tētahi mea: “Kei konei koe nāna i mōhio tētahi mea. Ko te mea e mōhio ana koe, kāore e taea e koe te whakamārama. Engari e rongo ana koe i…( whakatikahia )pānui atu
