Nagging Community

Sometimes when I receive a DM I get this nagging want to reply with "NOooo!" (Like the scene in The office) but then I abstain..because replying would just make it worse.

[Just emphasises most people don't care about bios, especially when said people have already tried to message multiple times, in the past...and you know they've seen either your bio or one of these posts, where you specifically say you don't accept incoming requests. 😑]

Outsider

Have you ever felt like an outsider? Have you ever felt like you just didn't belong? I don't do well at social events, or in family moments. I've never felt right at holiday celebrations, or hanging out with my closest friends. It's like there is a nagging feeling that I'm not supposed to be... read more

Regularity

After today’s session, I want this to become a part of me: "You know what actually helps heal that trauma with the never‑ending control? Regularity. Your head keeps spinning with those nagging thoughts: "What’s the point? What if it doesn’t work out? I don’t want to!" - and your reply is: a... read more

If you have time... weigh in

I have a friend who is a woman who expressed a recent exchange that she had with a man she thought was really cool. She was confused by their exchanges and wanted advice. I gave my advice and now I am curious to hear how this is interpreted on the outside. I received permission to share. Here's... read more

A Good Woman

Everybody wants a good woman… until she puts pressure on you to step up. Because here’s the truth.... A good woman isn’t just going to sit quietly while you give her half your effort. She’s not going to accept being treated halfway right and pretend it’s enough. She’s not going to bite her tongue... read more

The Psychology behind Nagging.

An interesting post for an open mind.