Gulu la Nagging

Mnzanga nthawi zonse amati ndiyenera kuphimba chovala nthawi zina kuti ndikhale ngati mkazi. Ndipo adapeza zovala ziwiri zokha mu chikwama changa, ndinazikonda monga chisangalalo changa pa Lolemba🙂‍↔️ Amakhala ngati amayi anga akundikakamiza

Psychology ya Kukhala Nkhondo.

Poso yowoneka bwino kwa mtima wotseguka.

Nthawi zina pamene ndimapanga DM ndimapanga chikhumbo chofuna kuyankha ndi "Ayi!" (Monga momwe zili mu The office) koma ndiye ndimakhala chete..chifukwa kuyankha kungapangitse kukhala koyipa.

[Ikutsimikizira kuti anthu ambiri sakudziwa za ma bio, makamaka pamene anthu amenewa at already anayiika mauthenga nthawi zambiri, m’mbuyomu...ndipo mukudziwa kuti adawona kapena ma bio anu kapena imodzi mwa izi, pomwe mukuwulula kuti simukulandira ma request omwe akupita. 😑]

Zabwino Kwanuko

Sindikufuna kumva chonchi Zokambirana zikuchitika mu mutu mwanga Zinthu zina zosatheka koma zovuta zinalembedwa Zochita zolakwika zikupita ku chikhumbo cha nthawi zonse Chitetezo changa cha maganizo chili chovuta Ndakhalapo chaka chonse kukhala bwino kokwanira Malingaliro abwino akuchotsedwa…werengani zambiri

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Chifukwa cha chinthu chachikulu chomwe chachitika zaka zingapo zapitazo. Mpweya unali wolemera pamene ndinayamba kutuluka m’mawa amenewo—chidziwitso chofunikira, chofuna kudziwa kuti tsiku limenelo silikutsatira zomwe zakhala zikuchitika. Ndinali ndikupita ku City Central, koma malo anga anali… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri

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Kukhala opanda kufa si vuto, ndi chinthu chomwe anthu akufuna kwa mizinda yambiri. Vuto lalikulu ndi kukhalabe ndi iwe, malingaliro anu ndi chinthu chovuta kuti zonse ndi anthu onse omwe mukonda komanso mukuwakonda atatha. Ndipo chinthu chimenecho choti inu okha mwakhalabe, ndipo mwachibadwa…werengani zambiri

M'njira zonse

Ndikukumana ndi "chinthu", chinthu chaching'ono koma ngati chinyama mu chipinda changa chimandikakamiza. Ndipo kuchokera pa chinyama ichi ndingaphunzire. Kuphunzira phunziro kuchokera ku kukhumudwitsa. Pamene ndinachotsedwa "mwayi" wanga wophunzira chinthu pa njira yanga, ndinakhala wokhumudwa… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri

Osadziwika

Mawu ambiri Kuchuluka pang'ono Chifuniro changa choti ndione M'malo mokhala mu chikhumbo Makalata akusinthidwa Koma maudindo awa akuchitidwa Mabala pa tsamba Ndipo mawu anga akumveka ngati osavuta Mabala a kachisi wanga Otsitsidwa ndi ufulu Koma sitingathe kutuluka Kupatula kupita mu ndoto Zofuna…werengani zambiri

Chili cheese dip, dr.pepper, ndi Malone MTG...palibe mkazi wopusa mu khutu langa. Moyo ndi wabwino.

Kuchitika kapena chikhumbo.....

Ndinapita pa tsiku losadziwika, kukonzedwa ndi mnzanga wabwino. Pamene ndinamuona, ndinazindikira chinthu chaching’ono, chovuta, chofanana ndi déjà vu, ngati nyimbo yomwe ndinayiwala. Anali wosangalatsa, wopenga, komanso wokongola, koma chikhumbo cha kudziwa chinali chachikulu, chikukhalabe chiri…werengani zambiri

Anuv Jain show

Ndikupita ku Anuv Jain live ku Mumbai mu feb, ndifuna tsiku abwenzi anga akundikakamiza, dw za matikiti. Hmu

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M'malo mwa chisokonezo pomwe khansa iyi inakula Kuyesera kuthetsa chinsinsi Ndi gawo la mawu Chiyembekezo chimakhala ngati chinsinsi chofuna kudziwika Pamene ndili ngati khansa yovuta kwambiri Kumbukirani kwa yesani Kumveka ngati nkhani yakale Chikhalidwe chiri mu thupi langa Zofuna…werengani zambiri

Kuchita Maphunziro

Zikuwoneka ngati kuchita maphunziro ndi kukhala ndi ana ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri pamene ndimagwiritsa ntchito. Makolo ambiri pa msonkhano kapena kumene kuli ena akukumana ndi zovuta zambiri... Nthawi zonse imaperekedwa ku ana. Ndi chibwenzi. Kodi ndi chiyani, pali munthu aliyense amene ali ndi…werengani zambiri

Kuchita chibwenzi ndi munthu amene ali ndi mwana/mwana

Kodi maonero a aliyense pa nkhaniyi ndi otani? Chifukwa chachikulu, ngati munthu amene ndikumuchita chibwenzi naye sangakwanitse, ndidzakonda kuti ndisachite chibwenzi ndi makolo kwanthawi iliyonse....pa zaka zanga, 39, sindinapeze munthu amene tikufuna kupambana, kapena kukhala ndi…werengani zambiri

Chimwemwe chotopetsa

Kodi munakhala ndi chikhumbo chachangu cha chisoni, ndipo chikukupangitsani kukhala ndi nkhawa.. Ndipo mukuyesera kupeza zomwe zingakhale chifukwa, mukuyembekeza kuti muchepetse chikhumbocho.. Mwinamwake ndi zaumoyo, monga ma hormone akuchita zovuta? Kukhala ndi nkhawa kuchokera ku ntchito? Kukhala…werengani zambiri

Ngati mukakhala ndi malingaliro ovuta, ndimapangira kuti muw writing mu diary ndikukanda. Zimawoneka ngati zotsutsa, ndimachita. Ndinkaganiza choncho pa nthawi yoyamba koma ndinayandika mpaka dzanja langa linayamba kutupa. Ndinafuna zonsezi zovuta. Zimakhala bwino.😊👏

Yesani kugwiritsa ntchito chikalata cholemera kapena kumbuyo kwa pepala lililonse. Mukangoyamba kulemba, simungathe kumaliza. Osati mpaka malingaliro onse ovuta akhale pa njira. Ndikutsimikiza kuti ndichite izi maola asanapite ku bedi. Chifukwa ndimapanga zinthu, kulemba zovuta zanga zimathandiza… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri

Nthawi yachikondi yachikondi yachikondi.

Sindikudziwa ngati ichi ndi malo oyenera kuphatikiza izi, tbf chifukwa ndingangotulutsa m'nkhani m'mawa, choncho ndingakhale kuti sindiyenera kuphatikiza zonse koma izi ndi vuto la ine mtsogolo. Ndine... Ndine wopa. Ndine wopa za zinthu zambiri, ndine wopa kuti ndikhale ndi chiyembekezo, ndine wopa…werengani zambiri

Chifukwa chiyani mukufuna kukhala ndi zochepa bwanji mu mnzanu, kukhudzidwa kapena kupempha?

Kukonda Kwamakono Kwamakono

Chifukwa chake ndakhala ndikuwona kuti pali lingaliro ili kuti ngati mkazi si toxic ie kutengera, kukhala ndi chisoni, kupusa, kupempha, kuyang'ana mafoni/ malo, kuti abambo ambiri samakufuna, akuti ayi koma chisankho chawo chikuwonetsa inde. Kuphatikiza apo pali kukonda kwama ndalama komwe…werengani zambiri

Kodi ndi ine yekha kapena...

Kodi pali munthu aliyense amene ali ndi mawu kapena nyimbo zomwe mukuchita chisoni, zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala mu mutu mwanu ndipo mukumva kuti ziyenera kunenedwa mwachindunji?

Kudya Madzi (kuyesedwa kwanga)

Ndili pafupi ndi maola 40 tsopano. Ndinali kulala bwino kwambiri kwa maola 12🥺😳 chinthu chachikulu, choncho? Haha. Chakudya changa chomaliza chinali maola 39 apitawo. Pamene ndidamuka, amayi anga anali kudya lumpia ndi mkate umene ukuwoneka ngati pizza, grabe sobrang bango ng bahay hahaha (nyumba…werengani zambiri

Ngati muli ndi nthawi... onani

Ndili ndi mnzanga amene ndi mkazi amene adalankhula za chinthu chotsatira chomwe adachita ndi mwamuna amene anali wosangalatsa kwambiri. Adakhala ndi nkhawa pa mawu awo ndipo akufuna malangizo. Ndinalemba malangizo anga ndipo tsopano ndili ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa momwe izi zimalingaliridwa…werengani zambiri

Motivasi Yosangalatsa Anthu

Chifukwa chiyani “Kusangalatsa Anthu” nthawi zonse kumachitika kuti ndi chifukwa cha chikhumbo/chofuna cha munthu kuti akhale wokondedwa? Ndikuvomereza kuchita zinthu zomwe zimachitika kuti ndi “Kusangalatsa Anthu”, koma chikhumbo changa chili mu gulu limodzi la magulu awiri: 1) chifundo ndi…werengani zambiri

Ndikumva ngati ndikufuna kupempha munthu uyu chifukwa cha kutakhala osamvetsera mauthenga anga😂 ayi ndikuyesera kupewa chikhumbo ichi chifukwa… ali ndi moyo.

Mkazi Wabwino

Aliyense akufuna mkazi wabwino… mpaka akukupusitsani kuti mupange bwino. Chifukwa ichi ndicho choonadi.... Mkazi wabwino sangakhalebe chete pamene mukumupatsa gawo lanu limodzi. Sangavomereze kutengedwa mwachikhalidwe chochepa ndikupanga chikhumbo kuti chikhale chokwanira. Sangadye m’kamwa mwake…werengani zambiri

Ndani Amadziwa.

Ndikupanga chikhulupiriro, ichi chiyamba kukhala mutu wosokoneza mu moyo wanga, pa intaneti ndi panja. Kumene anthu amangotenga gawo limodzi la zomwe ndimanena kenako kuyesa kupita m'njira yochitira chinyengo, yotsutsa. Koma sanamvetse. Ngakhale, m'nkhani zotere, sindikudziwitsa momwe ndingakhale…werengani zambiri

Sindikulankhula chinyengo. Ndine wochuluka kwambiri pa nkhani ya kupemphera...

Koma tsopano, ndine ngati. Okay, palibe kupemphera. Chimodzi chingachitike chingachitike kapena chinyengo cha mwana. Ndipo ndi chikhumbo chosangalatsa ndikuyang'ana iwe. Ndimakonda kuti zisakhale zolemera, chonde ndipangeni chibwenzi ndipo ndidzakhala wotanganidwa ndiye ndidzamvetsera bwino zonse…werengani zambiri

KUPHUNZIRA KOSALIMBIKA KUSANZA KUSANZA

Kukondana sikukonza ubale, ndi chisamaliro cha mtima wa munthu amene akukondedwa ndi amene akukonza ndi kusunga ubale. Ngati muli ndi munthu amene akudziwa, amene ali ndi mtima wopirira, amene akukonda mwachikondi, amene akukondwera nanu, amene akukuthokozani, amene akukondwera nanu, amene…werengani zambiri

Meme ya ubale

Ngati ndimapembedzwa bwino, ndimachita zambiri zokumbutsa kuposa kukhumudwitsa

Kusiya Kukhala Ndimakhalidwe Akwanji

Chimwemwe chofunikira...

Kodi mwakhalapo nthawi yomwe mukumva kuti chinthu mu moyo wanu "chiri choyipa" - koma simungathe kuchita bwino? Morpheus anali ndi chinthu mu "The Matrix": “Muli pano chifukwa mukudziwa chinthu. Chomwe mukudziwa, simungathe kuchitira chitsanzo. Koma mukumva.” Iyi ndi chikhumbo chachilendo,… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri