Umuryango wa Nagging

Inshuti yanjye siempre ivuga ko ngomba kwambara ikanzu rimwe na rimwe kugira ngo nse nk'umugore. Kandi yasanze mu isanduku yanjye ikanzu 2 gusa, narazishimye nk'uburyo bwo kwinezeza ku wa Mbere🙂‍↔️ Ameze nk'uwankurikirana nk'umubyeyi wanjye

Psycho-logie y'ibikurura.

Icyanditswe gishimishije ku bwenge buhamye.

Bimwe na bimwe igihe nreceba DM, numva nshaka gusubiza "Oya!" (Nk'uko bigaragara mu The Office) ariko nkabihorera.. kuko gusubiza byakongera kubikora bibi.

[Byerekana ko abantu benshi batita ku bintu byanditse ku mbuga, cyane cyane iyo abo bantu bamaze kugerageza kohereza ubutumwa inshuro nyinshi, mu bihe byashize... kandi uzi ko babonye cyangwa bio yawe cyangwa imwe muri izi posts, aho uvuga by'umwihariko ko utakira ibyifuzo byinjira. 😑]

Byiza Kandi

Sinshaka kumva nko muri iki gihe Imyitwarire isubirwamo mu mutwe wanjye Ibintu bimwe bitari ukuri ariko biteye agahinda byavuzwe Amakosa atuma ngera mu bihe by'ubwoba budashira Icyuma cyanjye cy'amarangamutima kirakomeye gusa Ndarambiwe gusa kuba byiza Ibitekerezo byiza biba byihuse bigakubitwa…soma byinshi

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Ibyabaye mu mutwe wanjye byabaye imyaka mike ishize. Umwuka wari ukomeye ubwo nanyuraga hanze mu gitondo—ikintu cy'ubwenge cyakomeje kumvugisha ko uwo munsi utari mu murongo usanzwe. Nari nerekeza mu Mujyi wa Central, ariko ibidukikije byanjye byari bifite umwuka udasanzwe, nk'aho isi yari…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

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Kudakuka si ikibazo, ahubwo ni cyo abantu bashakaga imyaka myinshi ku myaka myinshi. Ikibazo nyamukuru ku kudakuka ni ukugumana na we ubwawe, imitekerereze yawe n'ukuri gukomeye ko byose n'abantu bose wakundaga kandi ukitaho batakiriho. Kandi icyo kintu kimwe ko ari wowe wenyine wabashije kubaho,…soma byinshi

Muri ukuri

Ndi mu "kintu", ikintu gito ariko nk'ikinyugunyugu mu cyumba cyanjye kirankomeretsa. Kandi kuri iki kinyugunyugu nshobora kwiga. Kwiga isomo ku bw'uburakari. Igihe "nanyerejwe" amahirwe yo kwiga ikintu ku giti cyanjye, narakaye cyane. Kandi aho niho nize ko ibyishimo byo kumenya ku giti cyawe…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

Nta mutwe

Amagambo menshi Uburyo buke bwo gukira Ibyifuzo byanjye byo kureba Ahubwo kuruta gufatwa mu mwuka Amat letter arakosorwa Ariko ibi bintu birasubirwamo Imirongo ku rupapuro Kandi ikiganiro cyanjye kimeze nk'ikidafite agaciro Imirongo y'ikiboko cyanjye Yafunguwe kandi yisanzuye Ariko ntanubwo…soma byinshi

Dip ya chili na fromage, dr.pepper, na Malone MTG...nta mugore unyihanganira mu gutwi. Ubuzima ni bwiza.

Ibyo ni ibihurizo cyangwa ibyago.....

Nagiye ku itangiriro ry'urukundo, ryateguwe n'inshuti yanjye ya hafi. Igihe nabonaga, numvise ikintu gito, gishishikaje cy'ubwibone, nk'indirimbo nari naribagiwe. Yari mwiza, yihariye, kandi afite ubwiza, ariko ikintu cy'ubwumvikane cyakomeje kubaho, kikarangirira kure. Mu gihe cy'itangiriro, yari…soma byinshi

Anuv Jain show

Ngiye kuza kuri Anuv Jain live i Mumbai muri Gashyantare, nkeneye itariki, inshuti zanjye ziri kunyibutsa, ntukibaze ku byangombwa. Hmu

Nta mutwe

Mu mutuzo aho iyi kanseri yakuraga Ngerageza gukemura igisubizo N'ibimenyetso bimwe Icyizere kirakomeza nk'ikinyoma kidasiba Mugihe nteze nk'ikibabi gisa n'ikigenda Ibyo ntekereza ku munsi w'ejo Bisa n'inkuru ishaje Icyuma kikiri mu mubiri wanjye Izi ntekerezo zose z'uriya Zikava mu bintu…soma byinshi

Gukora

Bisa n'aho gukora no kugira abana ari akazi katoroshye iyo nibutseho. Abakundana benshi mu misa cyangwa ahandi bahura n'ibibazo byinshi... Igihe cyose gishyirwa ku bana. Ni ugutanga. Ni iki nyakuri kimeze, hari umuntu ufite ubunararibonye bwihariye yifuza gusangiza?

Gukundana n'umuntu ufite umwana/abana

Ni iki abantu bose batekereza kuri iki kibazo? Mu by'ukuri, niba umuntu ndimo gukundana atakunze, nteguye kutazongera gukundana n'umubyeyi ukundi....ku myaka yanjye, 39, sinigeze mbona umuntu twifuza gushyingiranwa, cyangwa kugira abana hamwe...ndifuza umwe cyangwa bamwe mu bana banjye mu gihe…soma byinshi

Iyo myumvire ikurura

Ese wigeze ugira iyo myumvire y'ubwigunge, ikakubangamira.. Kandi ukagerageza kumenya icyateye, wizeye ko byagabanya iyo myumvire.. Birashoboka ko ari ibijyanye n'imikorere y'umubiri, nko kuba hormone ziri mu mwuka? Stress iva ku kazi? Impungenge ku mishinga y'ejo hazaza? Sinshobora kumenya neza…soma byinshi

Niba ufite ibitekerezo bigutera ikibazo, ndakugira inama yo kubandikira mu gitabo no kubitanga. Birasa n'ibikabyo ndabizi. Nabitekerezaga mbere ariko nanditse kugeza igihe ukuboko kwanjye kwangirika. Nakuyeho ibyo bitekerezo bibi byose. Ni uburyo bwo kwisukura.😊👏

Gerageza gukoresha ikarita y'ibitekerezo cyangwa inyuma y'impapuro z'ubusa. Nugiye gutangira kwandika ntushobora guhagarara. Ntukazagire ibitekerezo byose bigutera impungenge. Nemeza ko mbikora amasaha menshi mbere yo kuryama. Kubera ko ntekereza ibintu mu mutwe, kwandika ibibazo byanjye birafasha…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

Igihe cy'ijoro cy'ubwoba buterwa n'ibitekerezo.

Sinzi niba aha ari ho hakwiriye gushyirwa ibi, kuko ntekereza ko nzabishyira hasi mu gitondo uretse ko ntekereza ko ntakwiye kubishyira byose ariko ibyo ni ikibazo cyanjye kizaza. Nd... ndatakamba. Ndatakamba ku bintu byinshi, ndatakamba ku byizere byanjye, ndatakamba ku bitekerezo byo kumva ko…soma byinshi

Ni iki wifuza kugira gike mu mukunzi, gukurura cyangwa gucira?

Gukundana Guhangayikishijwe n'Imari

Nasanze hari igitekerezo cyo mu mutwe kivuga ko niba umugore atari umunyabugome, ni ukuvuga gukurikirana, kuba mubi, gukubita, guhangayika, kugenzura telefone/ahantu, nta basore bifuza kumugira, bavuga oya ariko amahitamo yabo avuga yego. Byongeye, hari gukundana guhangayikishijwe n'imari aho hari…soma byinshi

Ni njyewe gusa cyangwa...

Ese hari undi ufite aya magambo cyangwa indirimbo runaka ukunda, ariko akakubangamira mu mutwe kandi ukagira icyo wumva ko agomba kuvugwa?

Waterfast (igerageza bwite)

Ndi hafi y'amasaha 40 ubu. Naryamye neza amasaha 12🥺😳 ni byiza cyane, si byo? Haha. Ibiryo byanjye bya nyuma byari amasaha 39 ashize. Nuko nukoze, mama yari arya lumpia n'igikoma kimeze nk'ipizza, urabizi, urumuri rw'igikoni rumeze neza cyane hahaha (inzu irumvikana n'ibiryo! Iraboneka neza…soma byinshi

Niba ufite igihe... tanga igitekerezo

Mfite inshuti y'umugore wavuze ku biganiro aherutse kugirana n'umugabo yatekerezaga ko ari mwiza cyane. Yari afite urujijo ku biganiro byabo kandi yashakaga inama. Natanze inama yanjye kandi ubu ndashaka kumenya uko ibi bisobanurwa hanze. Nahawe uruhushya rwo gusangiza. Dore uko bimeze: Inshuti…soma byinshi

Gukora ibyishimo by'abandi

Kuki “Gukora ibyishimo by'abandi” buri gihe bifatwa nk'ibiterwa n'icyifuzo/cyangwa ibyifuzo by'umuntu byo gukundwa? Nemera ibikorwa bifatwa nk'“Gukora ibyishimo by'abandi”, ariko impamvu zanjye ziri mu byiciro bibiri: 1) kwiyumvamo abandi no kugira icyifuzo cy'ukuri cyo kutaba umunyabugome no…soma byinshi

Numva nshaka kubabaza umuntu umwe kubera kutansubiza mu butumwa bwanjye😂 oya ngerageza kwihangana kuri iyi mpamvu kuko... bafite ubuzima.

Umugore Mwiza

Buri wese ashaka umugore mwiza… kugeza igihe aguhaye igitutu cyo kwitwara neza. Kuko hano ni ukuri.... Umugore mwiza ntazicara mu mutuzo mu gihe uhawe igice cy’imbaraga zawe. Ntabwo azemera guhabwa agaciro gake kandi akiyumvisha ko bihagije. Ntabwo azafunga ururimi rwe ngo silence mu gihe azi ko…soma byinshi

Ninde uzi.

Nsezeranya, ibi biratangira kuba insanganyamatsiko ikomeje mu buzima bwanjye, ku mbuga nkoranyambaga no mu buzima busanzwe. Aho abantu bareba gusa igice cy'ibyo mvuga hanyuma bagahita bajya mu nzira yo kubangamira, kwigira ku mutima. Ariko ntibari kumva. Nubwo, mu bihe nk'ibi, sinzi ukuntu nari…soma byinshi

Sinzabeshya. Ndakora cyane mu kwigira inama mbere...

Ariko ubu, ndavuga. Nta kwigira inama birenzeho. Ni uguhora mvuga gusa cyangwa ururimi rw'abana. Kandi mfite amarangamutima atangaje nkureba. Ndi umwanzi w'ibiganiro birebire, ni ukundana gusa nzaba ntekanye hanyuma nzakumva neza ibisobanuro byawe byose.

KURE NTA KIZAZA KIZANA UMUBANO

Kuba hafi ntibubaka umubano, ni ugukunda amarangamutima y'umuntu ubaka kandi ugakomeza umubano. Niba ufite umuntu ugusobanukiwe, ugufiteho ukwihangana, ugukunda by'ukuri, ugukurikira, uguhesha agaciro, ugukunda, utazigera afata umunsi atakubwiye cyangwa akakwandikira SMS, utazigera abura umwanya…soma byinshi

Ikinyamakuru cy'urukundo

Niba nkundwa neza, nkora byinshi mu gucika intege kuruta guhangayika

Reka Kunkorakora

Icyo kintu kigutera impungenge...

Wigeze wumva icyiyumviro kigutera impungenge ko hari ikintu mu buzima bwawe kitari mu buryo - ariko ntushobora kukivuga neza? Morpheus yari afite ukuri mu "The Matrix": “Uri hano kuko uzi ikintu. Icyo uzi, ntushobora kukisobanura. Ariko urakumva.” Uwo mwuka utangaje, utagira amagambo? Psikoloji…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi