Attractive Community

Does the way we see ourselves change how others see us?

There are actually studies showing that simply imagining physical exercise can improve muscle strength. Which I find pretty fascinating! But it got me wondering about our self-image. If we keep telling ourselves we’re unattractive, eventually we might start believing it. And wouldn’t that affect… read more

Is it desperate for a young man to pursue older women?

I'm 23 years old and I date my own age but I started noticing that the older a woman is the more physically attractive she is, I think it's because younger women are skinny and flat and I only like fleshy, thick and natural muscular women, there was a 20 year old Filipina that asked me what type of… read more

Village

Love to capture such beautiful and attractive work

Life partner

Whom would you choose as a life partner?...... . 1. Someone whose father is very wealthy. 2. Someone who comes from a small family. 3. Someone who is very attractive. 4. Someone who has never been in a relationship before. 5. Someone with a beautiful heart. 6. Someone whom you love. 7. Someone who… read more

What's Wrong With Me?

Sometimes, I sit alone and wonder why I have to fight so hard with myself just to find one genuine person. Someone I can call mine. Someone who isn't just a girlfriend, but a life partner, a best friend, and a home for my heart. Why am I exhausting myself searching for something that should feel… read more

Meet the boo-user!🖤

Hi, this is me!🤍 A little something to get to know me! Hi! I'm Vera, a 24 year old Dutch girl from Limburg! My personality is bubbly and loud once I'm comfortable, I have a wheezy laugh that many find annoying so I apologize, I can't help it! I've been told I'm a golden retriever in human form… read more

Appearance

I've had several women message to tell me I look like a woman. It's very emasculating. It makes me feel like there aren't women that find me attractive.

Don’t just catch my attention. Give me a reason to keep it. 😉

At this point, sweet words are becoming boring. Tell me something I haven’t heard, or better yet, show me something I haven’t experienced. Consistency is sexy. Emotional maturity is attractive. Knowing your intentions? Even better. 😉

TO ME, being a tall guy doesn't make me attracted to you. Having a muscular physique doesn't make me want to date you. A guy making six figures isn't my interest. A guy who fixates on these things as reasons to be valued is NOT attractive to me....

What IS attractive to me is a guy who has none of those, but is CONFIDENT in himself. And if he happens to be tall, muscular, and wealthy, he would be attractive if he knows that's not what makes him valuable.

What's one thing that instantly makes you lose interest in someone, no matter how attractive they are? 👀😂

Stop trying to date someone because you find them physically attractive. Start caring about shared values and you'll see how things start to shift.

pov

Example you were in 30’s never been married w/o kids and if you are a lady, Does it less attractive??

How to Actually Get My Attention

Quick PSA 😂 If you’re going to message me, please have a fully filled-out profile, actual goals, and preferably enough shared interests that I can tell we’d genuinely have something to talk about. Bonus points if we have like 30 interests in common because apparently I’m picky now. 😂 The generic… read more

Be honest!

If your partner stopped looking like your usual type tomorrow, would your love survive, or was the relationship running on a very attractive subscription plan?

Be honest 😂what’s a red flag 🚩 you ignored because the person was attractive? 👀 (edited)

I'd like to get to know some girls with short hair.

I think girls with short hair is very attractive and men with an androgynous look.

Don’t just catch my attention. Give me a reason to keep it. 😉

At this point, sweet words are becoming boring. Tell me something I haven’t heard, or better yet, show me something I haven’t experienced. Consistency is sexy. Emotional maturity is attractive. Knowing your intentions? Even better. 😉

HOW TO ACT WHEN YOU SEE AN ATTRACTIVE PERSON🤪

So Silly!🤣🤣🤣

Smiley face is always attractive to me 😍😍

One Thing

What's the most attractive thing a guy can do for you?

✍️

Calm men are so attractive to me. a man who speaks gently, listens to understand, doesn't let his emotions control how he treats me & knows how to love me through my difficult moments. yeah, that's my type.

Isn't it?

Some people become more attractive once you find out how beautiful their minds are !

Attractiveness≠Love

People have the odd misconception that love is easier to find for attractive people, usually self pitiful ones that have a hard time empathizing with others so they put their own bitterness onto them, which couldn't be further from the truth When everybody "likes you", nobody loves you It's hard… read more

Men...

Why man looks more attractive without his face?

Men In Uniform srs are attractive.

Hayss...I swear I am swamped with all these things and I wanna procastinate😑😑😑 (edited)

Really want to date a black queen

Had that mindset for a long time. I find them attractive in person and in looks. Always afraid to ask them out when matched because where I live its consider wrong for some reason. Tired of that, "you cant tell me who to be with" is what I say. Anyone interested message me. (edited)

Curious...

I'm wondering if anyone else is attracted to a certain sign. When I'm attracted to a guy, I swearrrr the majority of the time he a Taurus. Taurus guys always mess me up. So, when I find a guy attractive and I see his sign is a Taurus, I get soooo annoyed because I don't want to keep getting hurt by… read more

Intelligence in women

A woman with a brain makes her 100x more attractive. Do you agree or not? I know women tend to prefer intelligent guys but most of the time I think they confuse quietness with intelligence. Or like, having your life in order. Which is less likely if you're intelligent, ironically enough. 😂 What… read more

Hello ladies 💃🏻

Am i attractive ? 🥰

Odd Corolation Between Bio Length and Attractiveness

Has anyone else noticed that the longer someone's bio is generally speaking the less physically attractive they are. I'd say it's true 8/10 times and I already have my opinion as to why this is but I wonder if anyone else has any thoughts on it 🤔

Vampire 👻

Imagine walking alone at night and suddenly coming across a vampire.. or Dracula The strange part? They’re extremely attractive.. the kind of beautiful/handsome that instantly catches attention But there’s one problem.. you have no idea what they want Maybe they’re just passing by.. maybe they… read more

Loyalty hits different

I think loyalty is the most attractive quality. Looks fade, but someone who chooses you every day? That's rare. If you get that, we will vibe. (edited)

Here me out...

There's something attractive about 'Airport Casual'. People getting comfy for flights, I love it.

Self confidence

How to work on it? I don't feel attractive to women, so it's hard to even fake the confidence required to meet people.