Attractiveness Community

Odd Corolation Between Bio Length and Attractiveness

Has anyone else noticed that the longer someone's bio is generally speaking the less physically attractive they are. I'd say it's true 8/10 times and I already have my opinion as to why this is but I wonder if anyone else has any thoughts on it 🤔

Only people from Asia or Africa contact me?

I kinda find it crazy that I get requests from Asia and Africa every day but have not a single time gotten one from Europe not once. I live in Central Europe (Poland) and yet not a soul from Europe has dared to contact me, and it makes me think, are European girls the ones with crazy high standards… read more

The "Vicky Mendoza Diagonal" explained...

Rule 1: Love interest ("eros") is maintained if the level of physical attractiveness is greater than or equal to her level of craziness Rule 2: As time passes, if unchecked (by her), her craziness always grows, but her physical attractiveness fades... Self-reflection + therapy may help. (edited)

Male attractiveness.

Is a man attractive because of his persona? Can a man still be ugly if hes attractive with a goofy personality? Does he lose points if hes to forward or too attentive? Should he ignore you for a while or speak to you daily?

I kind of wished this was legit incognito like everyone had a ghost photo on their profile and you gotta get to learn the person before you seen them bc just like most things people are mostly looking for attractiveness and looks can only go so far

No one can beat the attractiveness of a guy who's not thirsty of girls.❤️

Yeah, I feel alone often

I dont have a real bread winner of a job, I know I'm just average on an attractiveness scale. I know I'm not the most macho masculine man out there. I dont even have a happy background that I come from. I used to have a handful of close friends, but they all moved on without me. I've been told by… read more

A 2025 study looking at thousands of dating-app swipes found that physical attractiveness was much more strongly associated with getting selected than things like intelligence, height, occupation, or your bio.

What do you think?

Omni-Man lost 70% of his attractiveness the second he started apologizing in Invincible 😭latest season......Turns out the red flags were part of his charm.🥺🥹

Not a fan

Maybe I'm old school, but the modern trend giving someone a numerical "attractiveness" rating is crass as hell to me, and more than a little toxic. I heard a guy call a woman a "5/10". Can't imagine that's good for her self-esteem. Not that hard to keep these things to yourself

Self awareness.

Yes im ugly, unattractive. I dont let my judgement take hold of me, it's not what makes us as human but what makes us more comfortable in our own skin. Never doubt yourself because you can't look like someone's gf or bf, but only respect yourself for what makes you you, the you'll come to find out… read more

Last night I was at a Tech party, met a girl who's a CEO of a SaaS startup!

We started talking about technology, AI and other stuff. Then she asked what type of girls I like, so I told her my preference. When I asked her the same, before she answers, she explained why most men never end up with the girl they truly want. Here’s the gist of what she said: She said, If you… read more

One person's your not attractive is another person's your beautiful

Never let yourself feel like you're not part of the conventional attractiveness that's forced upon us, because you could be beautiful in their own way in the right person will see that

Attractiveness

"A beautiful face captures the mirror; a beautiful soul captures the room."

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The highest form of attraction in a person is their ability to expand your awareness and rearrange your understanding of the world. I love those who possess a genuine passion that makes you notice ordinary things and see them as extraordinary people who, in just five minutes, give you a profound… read more

Shreking? No recommend...

If you ever considered going for someone YOU find unattractive, hoping they will treat you better, remember, person's capacity for relation is internal and they treat you in a way they are able! Perceived attractiveness levels have no influence on this capacity! Edit: important caviat - this is… (edited) read more

What Do You Show First? Recently I’ve been checking posts from girls here, and I’ve noticed a lot of focus on attractiveness and body, but not much about personality, values, or what they actually want from life.

For me, it’s a bit of a red flag. There’s nothing wrong with feeling attractive, but if your body is mainly what you show, aren’t you mostly attracting men who value you for that? I find it much more attractive when someone knows herself, has principles, interests, and her own goals. Real… read more

Question of the Day

If you had to switch bodies with the opposite sex for 1 week what would be in your agenda of things to do? Edit: Your level of attractiveness and fitness is directly tied to yours as a male and it is still your body just female... That should help lolol (edited)

Thoughts from a Chronic Sedentarian

Weight loss is obviously one of the most-discussed and widely-sought topics, especially surrounding the dating world. I wanted to take some time to put my thoughts down in writing both for myself and anyone else that might want to comment on what my headspace has looked like recently. Note:… read more

Stepping to Reality

You wanted to step in to dating world 🌍, You need to understand as a Man you better bring a Big things in the table, You have to prove that you can provide protect lead the relationship, for women don’t expect a marriage or long term monogamous relationship if you can’t offer something valuable… read more

Attractiveness

I think it’s my forties talking but women under 25 don’t do it for me any more. The early 30’s is attractive but 35 and up I just want to just massage the long woke day away and steep you in a coconut citrus bubble bath. 🤣

Profile pic rating

As a stranger, tell me what do you think of my attractiveness, rate it. You can see my pictures on my profile and give me feedback. Sometimes i get insecure about my look and i need to know if i'm really ugly or not. Bc seemingly no one is interested in me on the basis of my look. I can read signs… read more

Just curious what I am 1-10 to people on attractiveness.

Rate me 1-10.

When appearance matters more than character

For years, the video game industry has insisted that what truly matters is gameplay, storytelling, and the quality of the experience. Yet every time a female protagonist deviates from conventional beauty standards, a portion of the gaming community seems to forget all of those principles. We saw… read more

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People will love you either for your appearance, your money, your power, or your attractiveness; no one will love you because you are you. But I am used to loving people without any return or conditions. (edited)

Hello, first post ♥️

Hi everyone, I hope to come in peace 🫶🏻 I’ve come to realize I’ve garnished a good amount of attention on this app. I never intended on using it like a social platform, but rather a dating app. I am abstinent in most things. I do not have sex, do any drugs, smoke, vape, or drink. I am vegan. I am… read more

Would you pass as a different gender if you could?

If you had the choice to instantly and easily pass as a different gender, including anatomically, but everything else about you was the same (overall attractiveness, education, finances, family, location, etc.), would you do it? Why or why not? Would your answer have been different in the past?

Attractiveness?

What do you find is the most attractive quality of a person? 😇

Unpopular opinion.

Actually getting to know someone instead of ghosting them is peak attractiveness.

Voice Attractiveness

Why attractiveness in the voice is so important for us? So tell me, what type of voices do you find attractive?

Hello! Looking for a bit insight

Just a quick survey I wanted to run after getting way too many "hi bb how ru" messages on Tinder and other apps. I'm not a native english speaker, but in my language they also use two-letter abbreviations. Maybe I'm being too picky, but I keep seeing the same thing over and over in dozens, even… read more

Here are the Top traits men and women look for in dating apps

I thought I would share this for more people to see. I asked chatgpt to find data on this and here's what it found. ===== what women look for ======= Based on studies and surveys, the top traits women look for on dating apps, ordered from most valued to least valued, generally… read more