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Built by every setback

People have been asking me what my motivation is. Sometimes, negativity is my motivation. Being told I’m too big, not feminine enough, and hearing all those unnecessary comments. I turn them into fuel to grow, not just physically, but mentally. I’m here to motivate and spread positivity because I… (edited) read more

I have 2 REALLY good questions. I need AS MANY responses as I could get. I tend to respond to guys who I have ZERO attraction to and there are VERY FEW I have a bit of attraction towards. The guys who I'm not attracted to, I respond and can have some decent conversations. My questions are....

SHOULD I ONLY REPLY TO GUYS I'M PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO? SHOULD I NOT REPLY TO GUYS IM NOT ATTRACTED TO BECAUSE THEY MIGHT GET THE WRONG IDEA AND THINK I'M INTERESTED IN THEM ROMANTICALLY?

An appeal to my community

So my grandmother passed away last month. Her name was Deb and she was a second mother to me. She was diagnosed with glaucoma and within four months she was gone. She just couldn't keep up the fight anymore. My grandmother and I were both redcoats at playhouse square for four years while I was in… read more

Unable to hold back

I'm not sure who to message or talk to but I keep on crying, and I can't stop. Is this normal or midlife crisis stuff. I don't want anyone to find out but it's been eating me up more everyday. I talked to a work counselor and it was okay but just 20 minutes and the follow up didn't happen. I… read more

Stop trying to date someone because you find them physically attractive. Start caring about shared values and you'll see how things start to shift.

My confession

One shallow thing about me ... If I don't like how you sound when you talk... that romantic door will most likely never open ... But hey the reverse is true ... if the voice is there .... and that brain , personality is there ... even if you're not 100 % my type physically ...it could do ...… read more

What’s something that can make you loose interest in a person , even when you’re physically attracted to them?👀🤷‍♀️

Mutianyu great wall

Great views, not so crowded and physically challenging, if you are ready to conquer all of this part of the wall section of 23 watchtowers

You never can control others but you can control yourself 💝

How you think, how you react, how you respond, how you expect... Just make sure you prioritize your emotionally and physically safe 💝💝💝

It's suffocating, TMI :)

My mom is an amazing person who did her absolute best to raise us, and I'm deeply grateful. But is it wrong that I can't genuinely love her anymore? Her words and expectations hurt me. Nothing I do is ever enough. I abandoned myself, my life, and my needs just to ease her burden. I never asked for… read more

Even the Strongest People Need Someone Sometimes.

You may be good at solving problems, making difficult decisions, and helping others find their way. But when it comes to your own life, sometimes even the simplest answers become difficult to see. That’s something life has taught me. No matter how capable we think we are, we still have so much… read more

Like is any of this for real, or not?

Can't believe we're 3/4 of the way through 2026 and I still haven't figured my life out. Ever since Covid, I feel like my whole existence has been altered somehow. Like nothing feels real anymore. And I'm always tired-- physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Also, everything I was… read more

A Little Reminder from a Collared Dove: You Are Never Alone 🕊️🌿

Today, I was sitting in the garden, thinking about how I am in Spain now and how, somehow, life keeps sending me from one place to another. And there I was, feeling a little trapped in a labyrinth of thoughts, caught in the idea that I have to leave again. Every time I find myself somewhere, I… read more

If anyone has any creative tattoo concepts or beautiful wing design ideas that match this vibe, feel free to drop them below and suggest them to me! ✨

Looking back at my journey, I realize that the most beautiful thing about Enneagram is why they call it a 'wing.' For me, my Unyielding 8-Wing has been my ultimate armor. My path has never been easy. I’ve faced countless hardships, massive obstacles, and periods where I had to fight entirely on… (edited) read more

Deception of love

Once your realize that when loving the wrong person can break you both mentally and physically , you realize that when you love someone that is not meant for you you can destroy your life, that's when you have a choice either stick with the pain or rebuild yourself

Ayah

The painful reality of life is that not everyone has a good father in their life, some are born with deep wounds because of their father. Likewise, it's strange if I say that I love my father but also really hate him. not without reason but because I really never felt his role and affection in my… read more

Good Evening!

Well, this is my first post on a site lol. Well, I’m Connor. Your average 30 year old nerdy guy, working on himself daily physically, mentally, and emotionally. I am hoping to fall in love on this app. Find someone I can bond with and star a life with. I backed the wrong horse, so to speak, with my… read more

Odd Corolation Between Bio Length and Attractiveness

Has anyone else noticed that the longer someone's bio is generally speaking the less physically attractive they are. I'd say it's true 8/10 times and I already have my opinion as to why this is but I wonder if anyone else has any thoughts on it 🤔

I pulled the plug on my old job. It was time. ByeBye old job, the old psychward for crazy teens that I adored. I am onto new things, the trauma and memories you gave me like an old toxic ex is finally enough for me.

@Kostas please @anyone for me? Yes I'm being blantly selfish but I really need the attention rn 🥹🥹. This old ward, is where I constricted core part of my identity. Inner resilience, inner empathy and inner intelligence from inner stupidity. My standards on dating apps based on the amount of… (edited) read more

Better and better

The less i avoid things and the more energy i put in to my physical health, the better i do mentally and physically. After a couple weeks of fatigue and hot flashes, I've gone back to the dietary changes and cleanses from queen afuas book "Sacred Woman" and started doing the explorations from… read more

Coffee roaster

I roast coffee for this company, I work as a weekend second shift roaster, I work 3 12 hr shifts and get paid for 40 hrs. It's a messy and physically demanding job but it's always satisfying seeing the coffee beans we roast get sent out. The video is out of date but pretty accurate, we have 11… read more

Have you ever experienced a strange situation while performing a ritual or offering something to the God you believe in?

Look, in the past, I held great respect for certain gods in Roman and Greek mythology, mainly due to my belief in astrology. I particularly felt a deep admiration for Pluto—or Hades—in Antic Greek mythology. Normally, people do not like Hades or Pluto very much, whether astrologically or because of… read more

You deserve what you tolerate

If he is not spoiling you he don't really love you Guys love spending for their love one's Its not only spoiling based on material things but spoiling you emotionally, mentally and physically Remember once you see the redflags, RUN There is no such next time or teach me how to love you He… read more

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Mentally still on vacation. Physically, unfortunately, employed.

Introvert alert ‼️

You introverted so hard, you ended up spacing out in a resto during a perfectly normal corporate dinner. 😂 Physically present. Mentally… somewhere else. 🫠

Chain reaction of problems are becoming common.

My sleep rhythm got switched around due to illnesses, I've been up since 16:00 yesterday, it's 10:45 now. Public transportation is on strike today, so I have to walk to my appointment. The time of my appointment is in 5 hours, so I have to stay awake while I'm exhausted physically and… read more

How is everyone doing

I am okay, been working alot despite my job paying booty amount of money for what I'm physically doing.I am very close to applying to another job just ti make ends meet.. but idk yet. I'm very tired lately.

I wonder if people actually like me

Not just physically, I want to be liked by my personality.

Stop treating women like objects of sex. Tbh real men don’t.

That’s the whole status. Women are not here to physically service you, they are human beings just like you. Real men will know, boys will argue or make jokes.

Sending lots of love to those who wake up exhausted, mentally and physically but still choose to keep going despite all the challenges in their lives, I pray that life gets easier for all of you 🫶🏼🫶🏼

Love and Life Advice

How do I move on from someone who hurt me physically, mentally and emotionally. Me and my ex fiancé have been through a lot I've been there for him specially when he is on probation(ankle monitor) around that time, his father doesn't want to talk to him, as a matter of fact, his dad never talk to… read more

What's your Ideal Type of Person to date?

I'm looking for someone who's Blunt and straightforward. Who are both mentally and physically strong with strict moral and rational values. Appearance wise I really love blue eyes and sharp features who are tall, and also health oriented. I also don't mind if my partner has tattoos, that's very… read more

hmm

A lot of people ask me, “Why are you so obsessed with Psychology? Why do you push yourself so hard, even when you’re stressed, exhausted and barely have the energy left? What are you actually looking for in life? Is it because Psychology has good career opportunities?” Honestly, it’s not really… read more

Depression really sucks

It drains you mentally and physically and the suffering feels like a never ending cycle, it really sucks being stuck in this loop (edited)

Good morning... Happy Friday.

We cannot physically embrace happiness, but we can draw strength and inspiration from it.

Non-negotiable

What's a non-negotiable for you in a relationship? Something that will make you automatically shut the relationship down, even if you find the person physically attractive or they check all your other boxes.