Autonomy Community

Beyond the Relationship Script

We hear a lot about what people expect from a relationship. The standard script usually sounds like a checklist of requirements: someone to provide security, someone to take care of them, someone to fill a specific role or anchor them down against the world. While talking with a friend, I never... read more

The Audacity of the First Message

I’m all for body autonomy and people chasing their desires, but the reasoning capacity of some individuals is terrifying. Imagine opening a chat ~ no "hello," no pleasantries ~ just a stranger offering to fund your life if you let them inflict pain and trample them underfoot. They couldn't even... read more

My Introduction

My name is Christine Joy and I value my freedom, my strengths, my character, my imagination, my continuous learning, my willingness to help as many people as I can that Google Gemini called it leadership online, my Christian family and my faith in God, and my autonomy. I value the UN Human Rights... (edited) read more

February 4 2026

There have been over 120 billion people alive including now. Around 7 percent have been alive at the time of writing this. The universe is fractal and if infinite in size there are infinitely many copies of me very very far away. Which means there are infinitely many people in the whole world. And... read more

Autonomy shifts

I think the classiest revenge in the world is never letting someone have access to you again.

Loss

In case anyone was curious as to my disinterest in a relationship? Well, here it is. It's a vent post too. I was in a nearly three year long relationship. The majority of which was long distance. We were opposites in lots of ways. She was very religious, I was not. She was celibate, I was not. She... read more