Umphakathi we-Caregiving
Umphakathi we-caregiving, ingxoxo, nokudingida.
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caregiving
Hlangana Nabantu Abasha
OKULANDAYO
Umphakathi we-caregiving, ingxoxo, nokudingida.
115 IMIMOYA
KONKE
caregiving
Hlangana Nabantu Abasha
OKULANDAYO
Ngiyisisebenzi sokunakekela ekhaya kumalume wami onogesi lweHuntington oluphakathi. Umama wami akavami ukungithokozisa. Ukuze kube neqiniso, usebenza njengomsebenzi ophakathi futhi uthatha izintambo uma efika ekhaya, kodwa ngikhona ezinsukwini eziningi, ezinsukwini eziyi-7 ngesonto, kusukela…funda kabanzi
Kuhle njalo ukuba nomusa! Kuneziningi ezingakhathaleli noma ezikhathalela kuphela imibono yazo nezindlela zazo ngaphandle kokucabanga ukuthi abanye bazizwa kanjani noma ukuthi abanye bacabanga kanjani 🩷💜💙💚( kulungiswe )


(Kukhulu ukuphikisana)


Ukunakekela abadala abakhumbulayo, kuyajabulisa kodwa kuyakhathaza kakhulu

Ngifuna nje ukuba ama-nuggets efriiza. Okuningi okufanele kubhalwe kanye nohambo lwekhempasi ngemuva kwalokho ukuqeqeshwa futhi.

Ngaphambi kokuthi ngiye emsebenzini, ngihlale nginokukhathazeka okukhulu ngenxa yabantu. Angithandi ukuhlanganyela nabo. Kodwa uma umsebenzi uqala, akubi kubi kangako. Namuhla ekuseni ngo-7:50, ngifika ekhaya komthengi wami omusha, ngihlangana nentombazane yakhe. Umama omuhle! Wayekhona ukuze…funda kabanzi
Ngithole umsebenzi ngaleso sikhathi e-Olympia kodwa ngisebenza endaweni yasePierce County. Ngithathe ushintsho lokugcwalisa/oluphuthumayo ngoMgqibelo (1/27) futhi nje.... noma yini engiyenzile, kwakungalungile... Ngilandela uhlelo lokunakekela, umcabango wami, umuzwa wami, isisu sami, konke.…funda kabanzi

Okuthunyelwe Okuhlobene
April 12, 2026 Usuku lokugcina lwekilasi lokunakekela ngezimpelasonto





Ngiphelile ezinye izifundo zokunakekela eziviki 😮💨 ekugcineni usuku lokuphumula ❤️

Izinyathelo zokwelashwa zokuqala engizodinga ukuzifunda lol 😭⛑️









Ezikoleni zokunakekela lapha eCebu City. Ummeleli weNdlovukazi encane ye-United Kingdom, uNdlovukazi uElizabeth II. United Kingdom 🇬🇧




#caregivingjourney



Namuhla, ngibe nokwenza imisebenzi eminingi yokunakekela lapho ngizizwa sengathi umoya wami usondela emaphuzwini, nakuba abazali bami bephikisana ngemuva kokuthi baphikisana futhi bephonsa lokho kimi ngezikhathi ezithile, ngokujwayelekile, angithandi ukuphikisana ngezinto eziningi, kodwa ukuba…funda kabanzi
Kube sekudlule isikhathi eside ngemuva kokuthi ngithumele okuthile lapha ku-Boo.. kodwa nansi isibuyekezo esincane kini nonke. Futhi yebo ngisaphila futhi ngiyaphila.. futhi ngenyanga ezayo kuzoba usuku lwami lokuzalwa lwe-29 🥳 🎂 yebo Ngithumele ezinye izithombe zezingxenye zengadi yami…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi



Qedile ikilasi leCaregiving kule mpelasonto hoorah 🫰🏻


Ngibhalisile ezifundweni ze-TESDA zokunakekela abantu nc2 🫰🏻





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Ngiyintrovert ngempela. Ngifuna ukubuyela kubo bonke eninabo engithumele imiyalezo. Angizami ukuhamba phansi kumuntu. Ngemini ngiyabhekelela ngezingane futhi lokho kuthatha u-60% wamandla ami okuxhumana. Ngizama konke okusemandleni ami ukubuyela kubantu kodwa ekupheleni kosuku lwami lokusebenza…funda kabanzi
Iyini indima yakho noma yayinjani indima yakho emndenini wakho? Mina: njengomfowethu omdala ngenze okuningi emsebenzini, kodwa eyami eyinhloko kwakuwukunakekela abazali bami nabafowethu, kanye nomsebenzi wokuhambisa izinto okungakwazi abanye♥️ Nginezimfanelo zami ngisiza umama wami izolo nasemini…funda kabanzi


Uthando lungulimi lwesintu lokunakekela. Ludlula imingcele yezinhlobo futhi luhlanganisa thina sonke ngamandla othando.
Khathalela nawe..
Lapho kufanele ubeke umama wakho oneminyaka engu-78 emanzini ngo-3am ngoba ubephukile. Lapho ufaka amakhava nezimpahla zokulala emshinini, uphinde ulungise ibhedi ... bese uyazi ukuthi awukwazi ukuphinda ube nesikhathi sokulala. Ngakho uhlezi ezitebhisini, ulalele umshini wokuhlanza, bese uqhamuka…funda kabanzi
Abantu abaqondi ukuthi isikhathi nomusa okungakanani okudinga ukukhathalela abadala. Ngikhathalela ugogo wami futhi ngihambe naye esibhedlela. Lokhu kuthathe okuningi kimi ngesikhathi esikhona lapha. Ngifisa nje ukuthi ngabe nginokuthile engingakukhuluma.
Kuyiqiniso kangakanani lokhu kulokhu okuthandayo? Ngizizwe ngibukeka kahle/ ngiqinisekisiwe ngalokhu. Kubantu bonke abaphakanyiswe endimeni yokunakekela, kungakhathaliseki ubulili noma isimo sobudlelwano, awuwedwa.

Le ncwadi ibhekisisa izinselelo zezimali abesifazane bavame ukubhekana nazo futhi inikeza amasu alula ukuze abesifazane bakwazi ukufinyelela ukuzimela kwezimali nokuphepha. Nansi imfundo eyisishiyagalolunye evela encwadini: 1. Ukuqonda Izimali Kukhuthaza Ukuqonda izisekelo zokubala, ukonga,…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Ngiyinhloko ye-DD efuna umphakathi wami ophelele: umntwana omncane (ngiyagynesexual, ngakho cis female noma trans male/trans-masc) ophinde abe lg noma trans-boi lb embhedeni, okungcono endaweni yaseCharlotte, NC. Nginezinhlobonhlobo zezinto ezithokozisayo, ama-plushies nezinye izinsiza, kanye…funda kabanzi
Ngizoba yibhaba elihle kuphela kulowo ophumelelayo ngempela. Futhi angikhulumi nje ngezinto zokocansi, ngikhuluma kakhulu ngokunakekela nokwenza umuntu engikhethele yena azizwe njengenkosana yami. Uma unenkinga ngokuthi nginikeza ukwelashwa kwenkosana, ungathumeli imiyalezo.
Ukwenza Iphuzu: Ngisanda kudala isithombe esihlakaniphile nesichazayo! Uxhumano engilwakha phakathi kwemvelo engalindelekile ye-Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) nokukhuluma okudumile kukaForrest Gump, "Impilo ifana nebha ye-chocolates, awazi ukuthi uzothola ini," kuyahlakanipha. Nansi…funda kabanzi
