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THE ARCHITECTURE OF THE BOX — PART IV The Attention Trap

There is an uncomfortable paradox in modern technology. The same device that can give you access to almost the entire accumulated knowledge of humanity can also consume the attention you need to use that knowledge. The problem is not the phone. It is not social media. It is not technology… read more

Anyone wanna grow together?

Looking for someone who wants to help each other grow into better versions of ourselves. Work on our careers together, improve our diets, and motivate each other to do better in life. Specifically looking someone to date with a similar mindset and who is open to building something lasting and… read more

Expected to be the shield , without ever having been a priority

A guy once told me: Men in their 20s have time to date. Men in their 30s spend half their time dating and the other half building their careers. Men in their 40s are focused on their careers. He hopes I can be "the woman behind him." I understand all the reasoning he gave. But who is going to be… read more

Would You Relocate for Love Despite Cultural and Religious Differences?

Genuine question for the men here. Would you ever consider moving to another country to be with someone you genuinely love, especially if she comes from a completely different cultural and religious background? Or would you rather have her move to your country instead? I’m curious how men… read more

It's 2026, and some of them still asking: "So what do you bring to the table?? 😏😏" or trying their best to drag women down when they see those women well educated, have decent careers, independent, or stable financially.

Maths

Im about to retake the uni exams to change careers, but i haven’t studied maths for ages (i studies arts lol) and i have literally no clue, does anyone know maths and wanna help me or teach me?🫪😭

Deep words

I just found a beautiful word ❤️ by tulisanashha We spend so much time pursuing careers, dreams, a better life, and the version of ourselves we aspire to become. But hopefully, at some point in life, we are loved for more than just those things. Not loved merely for our profession, title,… read more

Mannnn,

I feel like lately everyone's been having a hard time, be it relationships, careers, ECT. This retrograde is taxing 💀 I miss the simpler times like just getting together with friends and jamming out on guitar hero,sitting around the fire pit, having sleepovers and not having to worry about… read more

I Haven’t Figured It Out Yet

At this age, I thought I would know. Know where I’m going, what I’m becoming, where I’ll wake up tomorrow, and who I’ll become along the way. But here I am— holding a degree, carrying dreams bigger than my pocket, and a heart that keeps asking, “What now?” I have plans, then I change them. I… read more

Did you end up switching careers from your original area of training or studying?

Less the 24 hours.

In less then 24 hours I am making another large step in my life I never thought i could be making at this point in my life. From rock bottom and thinking there was only one way out. All the way to moving into a place I found myself, I can pay for (myself) and that has enough room for my kids to… read more

A man 🥸

A man should always be the one to take the initiative in everything he should initiate reconciliation, initiate conversation, initiate affection, and even take the lead when it comes to expressing his opinion... You will never find a woman who truly loves a man who neglects her, acts arrogant or… read more

The Climb vs. The Calm

We spend so much of our lives trying to reach the "top" - scaling the steep monuments of our careers, our goals, and our desires. We are convinced that the best view, the ultimate clarity, and the truest sense of peace are waiting for us at the summit. But look at the contrast in this single frame.… read more

If you fall in love...😊

If you fall in love with the flower but not the root, you'll leave when autumn comes. M People fall for what's visible, the beauty, the excitement, the good feelings, the moments that look good from theisible outside. But when things get hard, when the shine fades, if you never valued what was… read more

Be in love with someone who loves you as you do.

I want a connection so strong that even on bad days we run to each other first. I want a commitment so sure that we speak to each other respectfully even when we're mad. I want our character to be stronger than our chemistry because chemistry won't sit with you at 2 a.m. to console you in the… (edited) read more

I’ve spoken with many single men online, and I’ve noticed that everyone has different expectations about marriage and family life.

Some hope for a wife who prefers to stay at home, caring for the family while they focus on work. Others believe both partners should contribute financially and build their future together. There are also men who would be perfectly happy taking care of the home while their wives pursue their… read more

I like my job

I don't know, I drifted through so many blue collar careers, dipped into white collar, and I ended up a manager and a cashier at a bakery. And I like it! After all the interesting jobs, I like this. No blood, no death, no tears, just bread and sweets. It might not be as adrenaline driven as being… read more

What should I do on this app?

Edit: I post this to the philosophy universe because I believe philosophy to be the community that I am most strongly attached to. But I will add a little philosophical element at the end to make it more relevant as well. This is such a random open ended question but I don't really know what I… (edited) read more

Most people are not on a dating site because there's something 'wrong' with them

It's like friendships, they don't usually end because you have something wrong with you. It's mostly bad luck, sometimes one person, and rarely both people. A - the worst case - abusive partner - dishonest, demeaning, violent, controlling etc B - different relationship expectations - not… read more

How to be simple?

How to turn off the big brain and talk to the common folks that don't find biology or building concepts interesting? 😩💦 I'm finding it difficult to listen to folks go on and on about games, board games, fantasy series & anime. (I do like them... but minimally on comparison to some folks in… (edited) read more

I'd like to do something silly..

I saw this post here in Boo, and wanted to do something similar, but with different intentions, just because of yes. My question is: What do you work with? What is your job? But don't use your title. I'll start, I see a group of people trying to achieve their careers, happiness, and knowledge,… read more

AI Takeover

What are some IT careers, professions, or industries that are dead due to the advancements of AI?

I need career advice, send help 😅

I grew up being the type of student who excelled at all subjects and teachers expected me to become an expert in their field, honestly I'm just really curious and I've always enjoyed learning all sorts of things, but I'm not sure I've figured out what I like or what is it I should do for the next… read more

podcast recommendation

Does anyone have any podcast recommendations about self-improvement and careers?

Film and TV job fair

Careers day at Film and Tv event, always have I wanted to seek this career. So chasing my dream job before I give up on it and go back gardening :)

Loneliness hits 🎯

The hardest part about living far from home is the intense loneliness. After a hectic day at work, I come home to find no one to talk to or share things with. I end up just passing the time, eating dinner, and going to sleep. It feels impossible to do anything productive. Living in a tier-2 city… read more

Quote

"Falling in love is an emotion, and love is work. So if someone says we stopped loving each other - you don't say anything else, but I didn't work, I'm idle. Our task is to creatively design our relationship. To fight for it, to deepen it, to nurture it and to be aware that it is our absolutely… read more

Quote

"Falling in love is an emotion, and love is work. So if someone says we stopped loving each other - you don't say anything else, but I didn't work, I'm idle. Our task is to creatively design our relationship. To fight for it, to deepen it, to nurture it and to be aware that it is our absolutely… read more

Experience. ✨

Experience is about the quality of filling in the years created them. ✨ ⭐ "Individuals should have in mind that quality matters during any process. Quality develops with experience and multiple trials. It is the same way individuals build experience throughout their careers. ⭐ The quality of… read more

Things

Things That Get Harder After 40 • Recovering from bad sleep • Starting from zero financially • Rebuilding health • Changing careers without skills • Making new close friends • Breaking long-term habits

About INTJ careers

Global intj friends, what are you doing?

Enjoying a lot of Patrice O'Nel as of late.

There's a honesty about him that most comedians never touch. And he couldn't stop his honesty so much so that it limited his success. Patrice has a philosophy beyond "I wanna be rich n famous" and so few have the integrity to hold onto it throughout their careers.

I'm summoning people with creative jobs

💡What do you like about your job? 💰Does it pay well? 🤝🏻Would you recommend others joining your field? 🔮How does the future on your field look like? I'm considering switching careers so I hear you all hahaha Thx in advance😌

I thought I'd go play at the arcade, but after seeing my career, I stopped thinking about it because it's more fun to play with my careers 🥹.