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Don’t lie to yourself

Don’t lie to yourself about preferring to be single. Of course there are exceptions, but we are all mostly trying to seek meaningful connections and human beings are gregarious by nature. It’s just exhausting when we keep trying and conversations with potential friends or mates seem to get nowhere,... read more

When you tolerate red flags in your relationship what you get?

in the midst of my problems, I found the puzzle that I was being cheated on by someone I loved. Ironic, when I already tolerate comparisons, and poor communication. Haha call me Señorita

Genuinely want a male perspective on this.

I genuinely want a male perspective on this, but women are welcome to answer too. I was talking to a guy for a few months. In the beginning, he was incredibly consistent. He wanted to talk all the time, reassured me that he wanted the same things I did, and even convinced me to let my guard down... (edited) read more

From the 80s to 2026

Whatever Happened to Dating? The Pros of 1980s Dating ❤️ If someone liked you, they called. ❤️ You usually met through friends, work, school, or in person. ❤️ There was less ghosting and fewer mixed signals. ❤️ People seemed more willing to focus on one person at a time. ❤️ Conversations felt more... read more

Ghosting: how to do better

I have often struggled to understand why people ghost others online. Many people have ghosted me in my life and I usually don't get why. I get that sometimes you don't want to talk to someone, but it seems to me more productive to tell them that instead of ghosting them. Partly because if that... read more