Secrecy Community

Another Sonnet

It doesn’t really have a name. You can call it Distance, I guess? Feet do till and plough at base direction, Each tender to his tender cause delayed, As warmth wanes to winter’s insurrection, So my tread ends at shores my Maker made. And yet my journey has one season still, My garden glut with... read more

Honest question..

Why some men hide their identity? What should be the major reason? 🤔yeah i know what is privacy and what also secrecy means.

Emotional cheating is still cheating.

Emotional cheating is still cheating. No, there does not have to be sex. If your intimacy, attention, secrecy, and emotional energy are being handed to someone outside the relationship, the damage is already happening. People get distracted by the wrong question: "Did anything physical... read more

Secrecy over Structure

What I’m seeing is that a lot of people won’t touch a poly relationship… but they’re open to being the side partner. Some folks are more comfortable in secrecy than in healthy structure.

Privacy in a relationship is not secrecy, and partners are not entitled to every detail of your inner life.

Privacy matters..but honesty.... matters too

In a healthy relationship, you don’t need to hide things — but that doesn’t mean you must share everything without thought. Honesty is essential, but so is emotional intelligence. Hiding things that directly affect your partner, your trust, or the relationship itself can slowly damage the bond.... read more