Expectations Community

Dear Me

Dear Me, I hope you pause for a moment as you read this and truly feel the weight of these words: I’m proud of you. You’ve been carrying so much—some things you talk about, many things you keep buried quietly inside—but still, you rise every single day and try again. That takes courage. I know... read more

Oracle

Took my oracle deck with me to the park today and we spent hours in the shade on a hot sunny day. I've been high strung getting things in order, after feeling like a zombie the past few years. Connecting with earth and trees and pulled these cards, telling me to take it easy and enjoy the... read more

It’s exhausting hearing people in their early 20s constantly ask questions like, “Why are you still single?” as if being single is some kind of failure or unfinished stage of life.

Have they truly lived enough life to understand what they’re asking? At that age, many people are still driven by fantasies about marriage, relationships, children, and the idea of a “perfect family.” But fantasy and reality are very different things. Have they experienced betrayal, heartbreak,... read more

Having standards is healthy. Having values and preferences is healthy too

But sometimes people turn dating profiles into a long list of anger, demands, exclusions, and unrealistic expectations Instead of feeling welcomed.. people feel judged before the conversation even starts A good profile should show: • Who you are • What kind of connection you want • Your values •... read more

Lower your expectations of others and raise your love for yourself."

What do you like least about today’s society and its expectations?