Expectations Community

#selfreflection

Mariné

7h

ENFP

Cancer

6

7

The Danger of Unrealistic Expectations in Relationships

I was reflecting today on past relationships and realized that I’ve often made mistakes when choosing a partner. The thing is, I didn’t always see the person in front of me for who they truly were. Instead, I saw potential - what they could be, what I hoped they might become. And in doing that, I... read more

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#consciousness

Arun

4h

INFP

Scorpio

6

7

The truth... A bit deeper.

"To find new dimensions of your consciousness, always look at things as they are." This isn’t about mysticism - it’s about *seeing*. Imagine your mind is like a camera. Most of us walk through life with smudged lenses: we layer expectations, fears, and old stories onto what’s right in front of... read more

#universe

Anshul sharma

14h

ISTJ

Cancer

2

1

Sun

Be a giver like Sun without expectations without hesitation😌💫

#psychology

Sofija

6h

ISFP

Capricorn

6

5

Today I apologized to my father for angering him for stating a fact in front of his wife who gave birth to me. I'm not wallowing in self misery, I'm just providing a kind of an example of why I see relationships as transactional.

I told him that THE CAUSE OF MY TRAUMA AFTER LOSING THE ANGEL from my profile WAS NOT THE CAT (the gray one from some of my posts) THAT CAME TO BE, BUT HER BEHAVIOR consisting of spoiling, over obsession on not allowing her to do anything in the balcony and ect. That was actually one of the points... read more

#dating

Macy

1d

ISTJ

Virgo

8

7

Woke up wondering… at what point does a connection come with expectations of exclusivity? Is it a feeling, a conversation, or just assumed?💭⏳🖤

#writing

Sonny

1d

INTJ

Cancer

9

1

Attachment creates the illusion of security

Attachment feels safe. It wraps us in comfort. Promises stability. Promises forever. But look closer. Attachment binds us to expectations. It ties us to outcomes. We cling to people. We cling to things. We cling to ideas of how life should be. We call this security. Security built on attachment... read more