Single doesnt mean the same thing per- perspective to different people

A video by Alexander Grace, showed me how men and women view what it means to be single. A man is single because, in general, he has not been successful in getting a relationship. His options are low to none. He is truely alone, and does not have women readily in orbit to pull from. I found interest in this part though. Women apparently, dont have that experience. There are always orbiters- men who would be willing to be involved in their lives romantically. But she chooses not to date them. Theyre too sweet, not her type, etc. So there is a communication barrier when we speak to eachother because neither really understands eachother when either one says they are single. Men, are most likely alone, not by choice. Women are never truely alone like that. This doesnt apply to everyone, I have orbiters myself. But that is the exception, not the majority. Maybe this will clear up some communications people have?