Messaging Community

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Look, seriously When we’re messaging each other, there’s no need to keep asking for photos, especially photos of me You can just check my profile and see all my photos there. Our relationship isn’t at a stage exclusive enough for you to be getting photos of me directly, on demand So, just take it… read more

Not messaging a match

When you match with someone - as in, you swipe or like and see that the other person already liked you, do you message them right away? If not, why not? When do you message a new match?

Thoughts in Fiday

Whenever I find myself in an ambiguous situation involving a potential relationship, I take a step back. Regardless of whether there’s physical distance or not, I look at the small nuances - at people’s actions. It’s easy enough to say caring or lovely things, but what actual deeds follow those… read more

Gym buddies wanted:

Looking for someone to workout with in Goose Creek 😊 Apply below or by messaging me. But nothing super serious just tired of going it alone.

History/Origin of Boo App

1. It was founded by an Introvert who was fed up 🛑 Boo was founded in 2020 by Derek Lee and David Chang. Derek is a self-proclaimed tech introvert who grew up in Hawaii. He created the app because he was completely frustrated by how toxic, shallow, and exhausting modern dating apps had become. He… read more

Simple quiz to see if we vibe

1) Phone calls are better than texts 2) Indie music is better than mainstream 3) Pikachu is too over-powered 4) Home-made pie over store cake 5) Fanfiction is fun to read 6) Resident Evil is a vibe 7) The Walking Dead season 1 8) Talking about dumb sh*t at 3am 9) Messaging each other every… read more

If you like this post, I will annoy you with consistent chatting. You have been warned...

My cats sleepy, he's so precious... If you like this post, I'll keep messaging you! So beware! Haha

Please follow your HI, HELLO, MERHABA, 😍 by telling what is your real intention in messaging me so we can have interviews or ⛔😂😂.... Otherwise the messages will be always there since I couldn't process them 😂😂

So I’ll just say this again I am not looking to hook up, one night stand or anything of that nature so if that’s what you’re looking for move along don’t bother Messaging me.

Compeeting in zha pokemon world championships 2027 + 2028

So i didn't want to put this out there...But i just thought i might as well, because i wouldn't see much posts regarding the Pokemon World Championships anyway. As of recent, i am working on a team with some subliminal messaging that would make someone hungry during a match. Mega Scovillain=… read more

Read. Our. Bios.

Why bother messaging people if you can't be bothered to read their bios? My bio makes it abundantly clear what you can expect from me. I make no secret about this. But then I get people hitting me up in my DMs making it clear you didn't read my bio. It's not cute and it's a massive red flag… read more

I wish people would actually read the full profile and bio before messaging someone. That way, the people who are genuinely a good match would find each other ... instead of wasting both sides' time

World map of homegrown Messaging Apps

World map of homegrown Messaging Apps

after making friends

Someone with continuous communication not one who leaves after 5 to 10 minutes messaging. Not into phone calls I stay clear of those. Just after making friends with similar interests. I know people aren't interested so I won't bother any more after this. Tried reaching out but most people aren't… read more

My very first graphical art endeavor from years ago.

This represents my Inner child I preserved and hid from the world but not myself, Guiding me the Tiny Warrior Through the illusory soul school and testing ground we can life or the human experience. I tried to create the Hermetic " As above so below, as within so without" while hinting at multiple… (edited) read more

why are all indians messaging me and no americans here?

Okay... I really need people to either read Bios or stop messaging me twice, thrice...more... Please..and Thank you don't come again.

Snuggle time? 🫂💕

I wanna sleep 😴 all snuggled up n warm pls. Read profile before even messaging pls. Ty

Do women ever message first?

Do women ever message first or do they prefer men to message first ? Personally I feel a little awkward messaging even tho I just want to chat I feel like women get lots of messages and I don’t want to add to that pile of messages (picture is how my brain feels when I have to say hi )

Boo Messaging Etiquette

So I'm still trying to understand the culture of Boo. If you see someone interesting, do you message them after a few exchanges back and forth on comments and posts? I guess I mean for women interesting in men here: when are you receptive to dm's? When do you initiate first? (edited)

Just a reminder.

For the guys messaging me, please don’t expect a response if your messages contain sexual comments, words, or inappropriate remarks. Please don’t bother messaging me if that’s the kind of message you’re going to send, because I will not tolerate sexism or disrespect. It’s already 2026. A girl… read more

To be honest….i’m done! Done trying to find my person, done trying to hope that today will be the day i find her, done looking for that endless funny , deep personal conversation, done being the one messaging first , done with everything! From now on is me and only me! Nothing else! (edited)

Ive said it all before & im gonna say it louder QUIT MESSAGING ME PRIVATELY

Me as a gf

Literallyyyyy. I've lost track of how often I've been in this scenario with past partners of mine LMAO. EDITED TO ADD: Because of both comments AND messages from cis straight men exclusively, saying stuff like "well be more bold" and "maybe you should communicate" I'm leaving a DISCLAIMER. BRO,… (edited) read more

I just blocked a nice enough person..that I didn't want to block..because I wasn't being heard and they kept messaging and commenting where they weren't invited..

In real life that is harassment.. online people think it is ok to act the way they do.. it is not. They seemed nice but they kept crossing boundaries, that is wrong. Be careful online. (edited)

Wondering, is it best to wait for a match on this app before messaging? Is messaging someone you liked first weird? It always feels a bit like everyone is walking around a dark room looking for others.

Conversation Skills

One thing I notice these days is (again) to do with the terminally online, for whom the sole form of communication is clearly text. They usually have very short attention spans. "Conversations" are solely a form of "message trading", which they get bored of quickly. This is a known psychological… read more

I came here to chop it up with people who share my interests, but dudes keep messaging me about their poles n holes🤦🏾‍♂️

Lol like... what?! Nigga why?!

I wish people would actually read the full profile and bio before messaging someone. That way, the people who are genuinely a good match would find each other ... instead of wasting both sides' time🙏🏻🙂‍↕️🫶🏻

Doesn’t anyone find it utterly ridiculous how people claim to be here for something, friends or relationships but never take the time to actually capitalize on the opportunity?

Why match, why allow yourself to be so vulnerable & express your loneliness when you have people dying at your feet attempting to converse with you through matching or messaging your inbox if you won’t even give anyone the time of day making excuses all day long instead of just taking the chance?

However, I'd like to ask everyone here: do you move the conversation to a private messaging app with just one person at a time, or with multiple people from your chat list?

How do we choose who to talk to? Everyone has their own standards or ideal types in mind, but we usually start with interest and reading their profile. If we click, the conversation can go on for a long time. If not, we might just leave a like and a comment, or like whatever catches our eye—all of… read more

A perplexing question...

Should I reveal anything to that guy? He keeps messaging and harassing me, relentlessly pestering me, to the point where I feel uncomfortable. Plus, he's older than me. I'll be turning 22 soon, in July. 😌

Too many

Too many messaging it's like playing a mini mini mo 😵‍💫😵 Sorry I don't reply often whoever you all are...

Capitalism Realism

One concept that often gets cited in debates is that of 'Capitalism Realism'. The term, coined by Mark Fisher, refers to the inability we have in capitalist systems to think of alternative options that do not fall back into it. It's the tendency for counter movements to be reassimilated by… read more

Save your money!

Every year around this time, the pressure to spend ramps up like clockwork. The same playlists loop in every store, the same scented candles hit the shelves, the same ads flood every screen you own. None of that is accidental. According to the American Psychological Association, companies use… read more

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I joined this app to expand my horizons, meet people and maybe get out a bit more. It’s only been a few weeks and I have remembered how rough my social anxiety can be and have spent all my time finding posts to write positive things on to still try and branch out. Still working up to like actually… read more