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First cosplay 😁

Start of my first ever cosplay! Needs alot of work, I plan on slowly upgrading it piece by piece 💙 💙

Dalida My Doggie

To Dalida, my baby girl.. Dalida is more than a dog, far more than what the word animal can ever contain. She is presence. She is memory. She is a quiet intelligence wrapped in golden fur. Sometimes, when I watch the way she looks at the world calm, patient, deeply observant, I’m struck by a... read more

20th Anniversary Of My Stretched Ears.

Had 3 piercings in left ear, two in right. Got them centred…. Then…. Started at 16g (1.6mm). Punched out to 6mm. Then scalped to 16mm. Continued scalped to 25mm. Stretched on my own to 40mm. Was 40mm. I shrunk them down to 28mm due to shifting. Currently sitting at 32mm. Thinking of increasing... read more

healing slowly, sipping gently

Life a River of Change: Change is the only constant

In Hermann Hesse’s famous book Siddhartha, there is a character named Vasudeva. Vasudeva says to Siddhartha, the main character, “I have learned from the river; you too should learn from the river. The river teaches everything.” What does Vasudeva mean by learning from the river? Please... (edited) read more

The Death of Romance 🍂

In this day and age, the endless swipe, swipe—touch and fleeting desire disguised as freedom—has been celebrated as an art form. And I’m afraid to say it: I’m exhausted. Tired of pretending I’m not. Exhausted by this unending loop of self-betrayal, a weariness that is slowly unravelling my soul, if... (edited) read more