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Posted Wednesday, November 1, 2023
8mo
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Was würdest ihr tun.
Moin Jungs und Mädels der #psychology Gruppe, was würdet ihr tun, wenn ihr erfährt, dass eine Ex sich wegen dir Su!zitiert hat? Ich zerbrechen mir nur den Kopf schon seit Jahren, aber finde keine gute Möglichkeit damit umzugehen und gebe mir irgendwie die Schuld daran, daß sie das getan hat. Hab ihr Tips und Tricks eventuell, die mir helfen könnten daß zu verarbeiten?
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8mo
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Verarbeitung kann Monate, Jahre.. ein lebenlang dauern. Jeder Mensch ist anders.. da kann man nicht pauschal sagen mach dies oder jenes. Ich weiß nicht wieso sie es getan hat, sie hat scheinbar für sich selber kein Ausweg mehr gefunden. (Ich spreche aus persönlicher Erfahrung)
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1. Ab zur professionellen Hilfe. 2. Ganz stumpf - jeder ist (auch wenn ich selbst es hasse) für sich selbst verantwortlich, die Entscheidung dazu hast nicht du getroffen. Wenn ich sowas vor hätte, ist es meine Entscheidung und ich würde niemand diese seelische Qual der gefühlten Schuld angedeihen lassen wollen. Ich kenne eure gemeinsame Geschichte nicht, würde dir aber dennoch raten, dein eigenes Leben/Empfinden nicht danach zu richten.
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Am besten psychologische Hilfe suchen auch wenn es erstmal viel Überwindung kostet! Dann wäre da die Frage ob es überhaupt eine Mitschuld gibt. Als Beispiel: Ich war über Jahre hinweg eine Freundschaft zu einer Frau mit bipolarer Depression und Borderline Syndrom. In den letzten Jahren bevor ich den Kontakt abgebrochen habe, hat sie bei jeder gescheiterten Beziehung dem jeweiligen Ex-Freund gegenüber mit Suizid gedroht und hatte die Einstellung dass es Ihr erst wieder besser gehen kann wenn der Betreffende Ex-Freund leidet und es ihm schlecht geht und hat Möglichkeiten gesucht um das zu erreichen… Wenn du zum Beispiel an so eine Person gekommen bist ist es echt schwer damit umzugehen und sich selbst keine Vorwürfe zu machen, da diese Person im Vorhinein alles machen würde damit du dich schuldig fühlst, auch wenn die Hauptgründe für das Ganze bei Ihren Erkrankungen liegen.
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